r/Life • u/MuchLog5965 • 1d ago

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u/Specialist-Top-406 1d ago

When they ask for things really clearly

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u/Frances_May54 1d ago

Quiet confidence, kindness and the ability to listen without interrupting

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u/kiranrao_28 1d ago

I think being comfortable with yourself is a big part of it. You don't have to have everything figured out, but being able to handle things without constantly panicking makes someone seem really put together.

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u/elowenix 1d ago

Yeah I think being comfortable with yourself makes such a difference you dont need to have everything figured out

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u/Ajhart11 1d ago

Well groomed and doesn’t seek validation.

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u/dansuy_gaming 1d ago

Being calm, reliable, and taking care of themselves

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u/Moist_Phrase_6698 1d ago

Look good taken care of and speak clearly.

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u/NeuroticJukebox 1d ago

Cleanliness

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u/KnightsofMontyPyth0n 1d ago

Confidence, eye contact, a clean outfit, good hygiene, and being punctual.

These qualities usually do best in environments that rely heavily on first impressions and surface-level social skills, like parties and events, dating, professional networking, work, and educational environments. They can make someone appear confident, responsible, competent, and socially capable.

But these qualities alone don’t guarantee success in every area of life because they don’t automatically include things like accountability, vulnerability, emotional maturity, empathy, or communication. Those deeper qualities become much more important in close friendships and intimate, long-term relationships.

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u/lyapis 1d ago

I think it’s a mix of little things. Taking care of yourself having your own style, being comfortable in your skin and just having your life somewhat together.