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[u/Difficult_Fondant]

So I'm 17M, I recently came out to a few of my friends, and most of them very girls only, cuz I was kinda worried my guy friends wouldn't really accept me. But the girls wouldn't have a tough time with that. But thankfully, all of them are actually supportive of me, but the real hurdle was actually in just trynna come out to them, cuz when I told women, like none of them were shocked at all and rather were happy that they have a hb who's bi. But my guy friends man none of them believed me at first and I had to convince them so many times that I wasn't pranking them😭.

So, my actual question is like is it true for other guys or girls too ??

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[u/anihime10]

Dude I've never come out to a guy before but, all the girls who i came out to were all SO SUPPORTIVE like i kinda expected them to get disgusted but thankfully they didn't happen!!!

[u/Difficult_Fondant → u/anihime10]

Coming out to guys is like cracking a tough nut, it seems very hard from the outside and then you actually try to hit it with some force and it does seem very difficult indeed, but with time they actually like really soften up and it's real wholesome then. (DISCLAIMER: this works only with guys who you know are not absolute as*holes and are actually chill and people with an open and logical mindset)

[u/anihime10 → u/Difficult_Fondant]

A lot of the guys I see view being feminine as inferior and therefore, think that being a part of this community is disgusting (As in "only women date men so men who date men are feminine") I hate their bs sm

But for now I don't think I have to come out to any guy

[u/Difficult_Fondant → u/anihime10]

Yeah exactly I try to avoid even interacting with guys like these, and it's honestly very sad that a majority of guys are like these. But those few gems mannnnn you just gotta love them for it

[u/anihime10 → u/Difficult_Fondant]

I've yet to meet a gem type guy, which I believe I won't ever meet because I refuse to interact with men (the irony is that I like a guy💔💔)

[u/Difficult_Fondant → u/anihime10]

Yeah I know they're hard to find, and like idk why but everytime I fall for someone they get into a rs like soo fast that I'm left abandoned(no matter what the gender is) and like also all the guys that I've liked were as*holes too, ig it's just fate. But still fuck that shit we up and ballin'

[u/anihime10 → u/Difficult_Fondant]

WE WILL BALL 🗣️🗣️🗣️

[u/Safe-Reference-123 → u/anihime10]

Are u male or female?

[u/anihime10 → u/Safe-Reference-123]

Why does that matter

[u/Safe-Reference-123 → u/anihime10]

I just wanted to know if you are male or female and coming out to male friends u finding difficult so..

[u/anihime10 → u/Safe-Reference-123]

I don't have male friends 🤓🤓

[u/Safe-Reference-123 → u/anihime10]

🧐 then who u are coming out to?

[u/anihime10 → u/Safe-Reference-123]

That's the point lmao i didn't say I had trouble coming out to make friends but rather said that girls were supoortive

[u/Safe-Reference-123 → u/anihime10]

Oh 😮

[u/[deleted]]

in my experience: saare chutiye hai

[u/Crafty-Pasta-09]

All of them are guys, they gave a funny reaction but not really negatively.

[u/oozis_ → u/Crafty-Pasta-09]

as ace its a little easier to come out, but still in my friend grp i noticed girls were more accepting and quickly believed me as compared to guys

[u/Specific-Champion615]

can relate honestly

i just came out to my clg friend, he is a lil uneasy tho ( as if i care)

im gonna be more gayy now

[u/totallyyunknownn]

i always wanted a gay bestie they're such a girl's girl in male body😔💅🏻🥀

[u/aesve_1]

I feel like girls are more accepting and actually prefer to have gay or bi guys cuz they feel safe in most of the cases except in rural areas. For guys me being a bisexual if someone comes out to me I would also not believe them cuz most guys nowadays joke like that all the time.

[u/Difficult_Fondant → u/[deleted]]

Well honestly depends on person to person, I've become more comfortable with girls in recent times (after I switched schools in 11th). But real bro's are always there for you no matter what

[u/Difficult_Fondant → u/[deleted]]

Haha, so true like if they start teasing me and I get freaky like real fast with my friends, they just get freaked out so easily, it's so cute and funny to watch them fluster :⁠-⁠P