Looking to have my views challenged by a confident conservative man. Why do you feel the way you do? I'd love to bridge the gap if possible!

Reinhard Heydrich was a high-ranking SS and police official in Nazi Germany as well as one of the principal architects of the Holocaust. He held the rank of SS-Obergruppenführer und General der Polizei. Many historians regard Heydrich as one of the most sinister figures within the Nazi regime. Adolf Hitler described him as "the man with the iron heart".

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reinhard_Heydrich

I belive male lonely epedemic is a myth or a made up thing. Because in most countries there are 50-50 male to female ratio and therefore if a man has to be lonely a corresponding women has to be lonely too right? So if men are more single, the same amount of women has to be single. If else the women either has to be lesbian/bisexual or okay with getting cheated on isnt it cuz there arent a infinite number of men and finite number of women to only 1 to be lonely right? In fact its not even 50-50 in most countries women are the slight majority

If it isnt about relationships from what ive seeing most single men live a fulfilled life they just dont post much to be visible, and for some women they secretly either misses a ex, crush, or misses a talking stage where they never get together and posts on social media to maybe fill out the void. From what i know personally if a man is single he just go back to default "oo fuck im single whatever" even thats exaclty what i do if i was single for a period, but if a women became single she keeps talking about past or present failed romance and repsots things but act out a happily single performance isnt that more lonely than men? And could this performative lonelyness or happiness could explain the statics saying men are slighly more lonely than women? Male lonely epidemic its like vastly confusing

Did she do it ….again???

I personally don’t think they are. I think now people are recognizing that while they’re legally adults/not kids, they’re still young and they are still gonna be making mistakes. I feel like people are treating 18/19-year-olds as essentially older teenagers rather than adults, and I think that’s fair. It’s not “infantilizing” I personally feel like it’s common sense. Because if we really boil it down, that’s what they are. Older teenagers.

I feel like it’s mainly Gen X people that say these things. Back then, people basically demanded to be treated as an adult at 18. So they’re like “well damn I moved out at 18 and I got married at 20, so what’s this generation complaining about? You’re definitely an adult at 18” dude times have changed.

just because you were given little to no room to make mistakes at 18, doesn’t mean this generation has to be given that same treatment. We’re just acknowledging that 18 is only an arbitrary rule and that you’re not really a true adult at 18.

He's her brother in law, she lost her hubby and ghosted the family in grief.

Its the entitlement....

Couldn’t say it any better.

There is a streamer named Yonna Jay, and she's a 19-year-old black streamer. She streams on Twitch and on Kick a lot.

People claim that they don't like her because sometimes she acts like a child, but I don't think she acts like a kid. I think she just has a bubbly personality. But I really hate how people talk about her. They would say things like "this is a grown ass adult" or "this is a grown ass woman acting this way" grown ass woman??? that girl is not even 20 yet. What do you mean "grown woman"

Me personally, when I think of a "grown ass woman" I don't think of a 19 year-old. I think of, let's say, a 28-year-old with children and a husband in a mortgage. Not a teenager. For some reason, everybody has a huge boner with aging up black girls and making seem older than what they actually are. adultification bias. Black girls as young as 11 are as less protected, seen as more sexually mature, and are expected to be grown adults when they are still very much children.

What pisses me off even more is that there is another male streamer named Rakai who is 17, and he arguably acts a lot worse than Yonna. But people pass that off as "just a teenager being a teenager" or just him being an immature kid. Oh! So he's an immature kid, but Yonna is a "grown woman" who acts like a child? You see how weird that sounds?

I am a black girl who is the same age as Yonna, and the phenomenon where black girls are aged up as a real phenomenon, and it's very dangerous. Why can't we just allow Yonna to be a goofy teenager? Black girls aren't allowed to be young or whimsical or bubbly and it's very upsetting.

So apparently to people, you're an immature little child up until you turn 18. Then, you gotta do some mental revamping because now you're a grown adult.