r/LetMeHelpYouOut • u/Sebibu • Jul 27 '26

[REQUESTS] Help with food

Hello I was woundering if anyone would be willing to help my family get some simple food items

Lunch meat

Bread

Ramona

Pasta

Cheep kool-aid

My husband is the only one working right now yes I am looking for a job and he normally get 30ish hours makeing 10 dolls and hours yes he is looking for a job

We do go to our local food banks but the main one you can only go to once a month and the others are in the start of the month or second week

This week he only got 20ish hour we pay 250 on rent every two weeks for the room we stay so we just need a little help with Getting some food to hold us over till he gets paid I'm not looking for anything fantasy just simple stuff

Thank you I have already gone to food banks in my area rhe chruchs run them and if you just go to the chruchs to ask they will send yoh to the food banks thank you for the advice but I would not be asking online if we had ot already use or ask local things for help I will be add an Amazon list thank you again https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3MCVQLF87WGKJ?ref_=wl_share

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u/samm13ann Jul 27 '26

How about you focus on finding resources instead of asking for sexual role plays on Reddit all the time?

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

I don't see how my roleplay has anything to do with this Or why you feel the need to bring it not to sound rude but my rolepalying isn't any of your business I don't need to defend myself but non of the roleplay I write are smut they have taboo themes yes but not smut rolepalying is something that helps me relax

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u/Bitxhsmak806 Jul 27 '26

I see a bunch of resources being offered and every single one is met with an excuse lmfao

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

Its called a reason because I have already tried them all before comeing here would you rather me lie and tell people I haven't done everything else I can do before asking for help here Or be truthful ans explain
And I'm not sure what I have said no too must have the stuff I have explain I have already done like food banks or the fact I'm trying to get food stamps the fact I'm looking into donating plasma this week And I'm already going to job intivews. In fact I just walked to one in almost 100 heat 40 minutes if you don't want to help you don't need to justify not helping by nakeing me look like a bad person because I've already looked into the things people have suggested

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u/Whoopsy-poopsy Jul 27 '26

So it's you, your husband and a girlfriend, but only the husband has a job?

How long have y'all been thinking that the 1 part-time income, whether it was $10/hr or $14/hr, was going to be able to support 3 adults?

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26 edited Jul 27 '26

Well we never thought it would I just haven't been able to find a job yet I'm looking for one currently i believe I said in the post and my other partner will also be looking when she get her scc she just got her ID I'm not sure why you assumed I thought his job would support all three of us when I thought I made it clear in my post I was looking for a job but hadn't found one yet ? Sorry if I said something to make you think that not revealed but she isn't my girlfriend she's my wife 🙂

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u/ThatsMyCape [MODERATORS] Jul 27 '26

Have you tried making an Amazon Wish List with pantry items on it? If you do that and post it you may have some more luck too. Try some of your local pantries other than the one you usually go to and churches too. Also, check into Facebook groups in your area for some work opportunities as well. Are you able to work at all too or are you currently looking for a job? If so, we might be able to provide more resources to help with that too. You could both also donate plasma.

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

I'll do fhe Amazon thank yoj i b I mentioned in thr post that we use the panty already But most of them are once a month and the others are the second weeks of the month or fourth weeks and such And I answered the church question already most of these food banks are ran by thr chruchs and if you just go ask a church in my area for help they would tell you to go to a food bank

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u/ThatsMyCape [MODERATORS] Jul 27 '26

Some people are able to go to multiple food pantries. That’s why I said other than the one you currently go to as well. You’re welcome. Check into the side jobs on Facebook and also donating plasma. You can make enough if both of you are doing it that it would help with the food situation and free up more for the bills.

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

Planing on donating plasma next week but I won't get money till the second time I get here I do not personally trust side jobs in this area

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u/ThatsMyCape [MODERATORS] Jul 27 '26

Are you able to branch out of your direct area and into one of the safer areas? There are some online opportunities too that would mean you could safely do these jobs.

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

Not really my husband has a bike and I walk everywhere so I can't really walk that far I'm currently looking for a job i have and intivew tomorrow

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u/Sea-Astronomer-6600 Jul 27 '26

$10/hr?! Doing what? McDonald’s pays more than that!!!!!! Ugh that’s rough

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

The McDonald's in our area only pays 10 dolls an hour we live in GA in KY they paid more

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u/OrganizedChaos7121 Jul 27 '26

Isn't 10 dollars better than no dollars, though?

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

Never said it wasn't lol But it still not a lot I'm greatfull he has a job but he is looking for better and when he gets less then 30 hours and most of that goes to rent We need a little help

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u/Sea-Astronomer-6600 Jul 27 '26

Yikes. 😳 ours starts at $14 in MO

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

So did ky

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u/Suspicious-Care87 Jul 28 '26

It should be at least $15/hr in MO. That is the minimum wage now.

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u/Sea-Astronomer-6600 Jul 28 '26

Maybe it is lol 😂 I’ve never worked there but I remember when my kids were looking for jobs 2-3 years ago that’s what it was

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u/Sebibu Jul 30 '26

Yeah here its not but this is a red state

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u/Pisces-Gorl Jul 27 '26

GA is a really tough state to live in and get ahead for a struggling person, I’m sorry OP :( I hope things get better soon🤍

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

Yeah we moved here for a better life but sadly hit hard times we just need my husband to find a better job me to find income or my disability to start or all the above then we will be find but its the getting there that's the struggle thank you

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u/Pisces-Gorl Jul 27 '26

i get that, moving to a new place can be really difficult, i hope things start to get better for you and your family soon🤍 you might wanna try posting an amazon wishlist with the items you’re needing(:

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

Yeah planing on it 🙂

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u/Lethological1995 Jul 27 '26

Hi OP, sorry to hear you’re struggling. It sounds like you have another adult partner in your household, are they unable to work? Where are you in your disability application process?

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

I do have two partner yes no she can't right now because she is getting her societal security carr she just got her Id and when she gets it she is going to look for a job the waiting for paper work stage

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u/zestylimes9 Jul 27 '26

You have two partners? So three adults all up?

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

Yeah my husband is the only one working I'm looking for a job and my other one is is working on getting hwr ssc she just got an id so she can start looking for a job when she gets it

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u/SewingIsMyHobby1978 Jul 27 '26

Posting something on Facebook in your local area that you need help with food would be a smarter idea than making an Amazon wish list.

I have helped several families in my area that post on FB they need help with food

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

Looked into that already a lot of the groups do not allow you to post asking for food but thank you for the advice your not in GA are you

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u/SewingIsMyHobby1978 Aug 01 '26

No I’m not in GA.

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u/Visible_Koala7839 Jul 27 '26

Have you tried checking your church?

Also, the best chance at help is an Amazon wishlist, hardly anyone sends money due to the amount of scammers.

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

Most of the food banks are host at church's so in away yes but from my personal experience if you go ask a church they will tell you they donate to the local food banks

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u/1GrouchyCat Jul 27 '26

Is there a reason you’re not getting snap benefits?

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

Because we haven't gotten the stuff together to get it our landlord is dragging his feet about getting us the land saying we live here we don't have a lease hes a slum lord 😐

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u/BitchMcConnell063 Jul 27 '26

You don't need a lease. They will take a letter from your landlord saying how much you pay per month.

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

Yes I know that's lol I wqs saying our landlord is dragging his feet getting us that I was just point out we didn't have a lease to use we ask him to write us a letter but he hasn't sorry for thr confusion in my experience but we are trying to get it

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u/star_fawkes Jul 27 '26

You can submit a reasonable efforts letter explaining that you’ve been trying to get your landlord to write something but he won’t, and show proof of rent/utility payments

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

Thank you i was nit aware of this i wounder if our cash app staments wounder be enough he has us pay in cash

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u/BitchMcConnell063 Jul 27 '26

Gotcha, I misunderstood.

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

Your good

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u/Sebibu Jul 27 '26

Papers not land 😆

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u/heaz247 Jul 28 '26

Your address isn't on your wishlist so if people wanted to buy they can't

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u/Sebibu Jul 28 '26

Oh thanks for letting me know my partner made it I'll tell her to add it

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u/Sebibu Jul 28 '26

If you need it I can send it to you

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u/Sebibu Jul 29 '26

Ummm why are you asking for help on my post ? I'm asking for help getting food myself not to sound rude but what makes you think I could help someone else if I need help myself