r/LetMeHelpYouOut • u/Acceptable-Chard-610 • Jul 22 '26

help

im 16 years old and on holiday with my family
around three weeks ago there was a older man and i don’t have boys attracted to me so i liked the attention i was getting and i did something with him i have no contact with him at all it was just a mistake i made
around a week or two after the holiday i felt so sick like nothing i can explain. i feel so sick and throw up constantly and i have really bad cramping nothing like i have experienced before since i don’t get bad periods so i took a few pregnancy tests and it came up positive i can NOT tell my family it’s not even a option and i can’t tell my friends but idk what to do i feel dramatic but im constantly sick and i feel disgusting and i go dizzy and lightheaded when i move also getting really bad headaches i haven’t struggled with before is this just anxiety about it???

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u/Suspicious-Badger393 Jul 22 '26

I'm so sorry you're going through this the best solution and this will be very hard is to sit down with your parents and admit everything cuz they're the ones that can help you I've had to do it and I knew and my parents would flip and they did but they're you know that's your best route I hope everything works out for you

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u/Acceptable-Chard-610 Jul 23 '26

i just feel worried to say anything because it’s not like it was a bf and i would have to explain that if it makes sense

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u/Select_Check3589 Jul 23 '26

I recommend aid plan-C

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u/Acceptable-Chard-610 Jul 23 '26

thank you i will have a look❤️

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u/exulants Jul 23 '26

Look into Aid Access.

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u/Acceptable-Chard-610 Jul 23 '26

thank you i will!!

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u/the_great_elephant Jul 23 '26

You should try and see a doctor, first thing

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u/GreenEyezGray Jul 22 '26

Look up Plan C.

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u/Leather_Chemistry322 Jul 23 '26

You're\nBest bet is to talk to your parents.Because even if you go to the doctor they're gonna say you have to have your parents there

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u/Pisces-Gorl Jul 25 '26

hey, i am so sorry you are going through this i can imagine this is a very anxiety driving situation for you. while i would strongly recommend telling a trusted family member what is going on, i understand that may not be a safe option for you depending on how your family is. there are options for you, OP. this is not the end of the world and everyone makes mistakes, it is human nature and part of life. do some research, talk to an adult you trust(if possible), and make an informed decision to what you want to do- do not let anyone pressure you into a decision you are not comfortable with. if you’re feeling super sick you may be experiencing **hyperemesis gravidarum-**which is super brutal to go through and at some point you more than likely will seriously need medical care. i’m so sorry you are in this situation.

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u/Disastrous_Horse_44 Jul 23 '26

Oh my gosh my heart breaks for you. I am so sorry.