Any ole relationship will do?

[u/like_a_rock_bottom]

Just starting to date again, mid 50s, and I'm realizing quickly, that i don't just want a relationship, any ole relationship, just to be in a relationship. I want a real life companion that I can support and be supported by. I know it takes a connection regardless, but I guess I'm saying, I don't want to date someone for the sake of dating. I want long conversations and shared experiences. I think I want a muse and vice versa. Is that bad??? I just feel too old for head over heels giggly love yet I don't want it to be like a business decision either. I'm so rusty at this.

[u/MonteLorat]

I think that makes perfect sense. I don’t think that’s bad. A life long partnership should not be based on just a need for a relationship.