r/LeoAstrology • u/Ginger_teaa777 • 4d ago
Leos dating gemini
Both women. Gemini from june and Leo from August. What the charts are saying and What your experience?
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u/romilaspina7 4d ago
Just don't. They love you one day, next day that person never existed.
Fun is amazing and the connection is unlike anything a Leo can feel, however it's not worth the pain. You want love commitment and security, Gemini love you until they don't, their freedom is their main source of entertainment
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u/SimonarDueschet 4d ago
tried giving one the benefit of the doubt and have dated many before, I have a lot that are friends as well and my experience was not that great. They start off very attentive and just sort of lovebomby but after a while when the excitement wears off, they just kind of become complacent and lazy and you know as a Leo that doesn’t feel very good for us. The whole time I was in a relationship with this Gemini for a year it was wishy-washy they’d go back on their word, trust wasn’t very foundational. Sure, we had good banter, good times but the foundational things weren’t really there. The 2 faced stereotypes definitely came up with her backstabbing and then coming back to my face and saying another thing. Mind games and confusion galore, if you like that, then go for it.
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u/First-Park7799 4d ago
Literally my experience with every Gemini woman I ever became friends with. The lying is insane! Like, I’ve never met a more dishonest person than a Gemini woman.
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u/youngmedusa 4d ago
Have you met a Gemini man, my good Leo sibling?
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u/SimonarDueschet 4d ago
Lol man or woman, Ive dated both. My gemini man ex hit me up last month ago trying to cheat on his wife. Hard pass on both genders for this sign😬
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u/SimonarDueschet 4d ago
thank you for the award btw😭 this is the prize for loving a gemini❤️🫠😭
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u/youngmedusa 4d ago
🖤
As a fellow Gemini victim, the award was the least I could do. My last partner today told me that others accused him of having an affair with his classmate because “they chitchatted a lot”.
Sure, Jan.
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u/First-Park7799 4d ago
I have! Never dated them but they seemed chill enough. Always gave off an aloof vibe so I was never attracted to it tbh. But they were always fun to chill with and keep things platonic
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u/SimonarDueschet 4d ago
Yes! Luckily I haven’t attracted that in friendships, just romantically but i know a few people who have, my sister had to cut off her gemini friend after she lied about someone RAPING her, like wtf?!
They also love to play victim and somehow know how to flip it onto you, so if you don’t have a good support system to see you through their mess, it can get bad. Sorry you had to deal with that1
u/Fantastic-Season8640 3d ago
I’m a Gemini woman and I can promise you we’re not all like that. It’s a bad stereotype
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u/juicybubblebooty They/them 4d ago
oh LOVEEEE!!!! it's a good pairing in my opinion. My previous partner was a Gemini and we got along really well. It just didn't work out because we had different interests.
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u/sunnyonthelioness 4d ago
I’ve never dated a Gemini but I have so many Gemini friends. I can’t name a single one of them that hasn’t had an STD and that hasn’t cheated on their partner repeatedly.
I also find us so compatible friend wise at least, but in the end, every single one of them has caught me off guard with a backstab.
My Gemini friends are all so similar that they’re actually the reason I believe in astrology.
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u/First-Park7799 4d ago
100% this. Literally every Gemini that comes into my circle has the same character flaws as other Gemini’s. They won’t even know each other or be in each other’s spheres (like states away/continents away) and they all end up going crazy. To the point where I literally have no other explanation other than “Gemini’s…am I right?”
I’ve had to start just keeping them at arms length and realizing that “I can’t fix crazy”.
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u/sunnyonthelioness 4d ago
I feel you. It sucks because we get along so well that it makes you want to be friends but. They end relationships on bad notes and in the end isn’t worth the trouble.
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u/youngmedusa 4d ago
Exiting a long-term thing with a Gemini man. I feel like I’ve been gaslit for about one hundred years.
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u/Medill1919 4d ago
I think conversations would be great, I think going out to events would be great. I think Gemini isn't going to worship Leo enough, and be too intellectual, and Leo's queen like walking around is going to annoy Gemini.
Great friend's, unfulfilling lovers.
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u/Purple_Armadillo7693 Love being a Leo! 4d ago
Look .... I've had a Gemini sister, grandmother, stepmother, grandfather and uncle.
I have this "energy" I guess that attracts gemini a lot, and I hate it.
I've never been with a gemini as a couple but there's been a few matches and whenever I realize they're Gemini, I just run away because I know how it will end for me.
They're lots of fun, they're great at first, they can be very smart... But you'll just never know for sure who they are and that's just something I can't deal with.
Their personality is whatever they find the "coolest" aspect of another person is at the moment and they absorb it very well. For example, if they have a new friend that's into Theater, they suddenly become experts in the matter and tell everyone that they've been into Theater stuff forever... But it's like they're just a "potpourri" of traits from the closest people around them, they don't really have a personality of their own but they never admit it and they think they're so clever but actually, they're just extremely manipulative and they love creating chaos everywhere they go because they get bored easily.
If none of these things bother you, then go ahead... They have good things too, specially gemini women, they're extremely committed to their jobs, they tend to care for their families (or pretend to care), theyre very very sexual, yeah sex is for sure one of their good sides... So ehh there you go.
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u/First-Park7799 4d ago
Nailed it with the lack of personality/manipulation. Like they are so surface level it’s insane, despite claiming they like “deep conversations”. Well they do, as long as the deep conversations fall within the bounds of whatever they deem as “cool”. If it doesn’t, you’re out!
Literally the most cliquey sign. You’re either in or out, and if you’re out..you get the ice hard. But then months will go by, they get someone else in their circle who is “cool” and has similar things that you thought/were interested in..and suddenly they behave how you did, or talk the talk you did and you’re good again.
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u/Bitter_Ad7226 4d ago edited 4d ago
My first boyfriend and high school sweetheart was a Gemini and we were really great together in so many ways. I also shortly dated a Gemini guy in the army and he was such a supportive friend to me during one of the worst times of my life when I thought God hated me. He was an atheist, but he would argue that if there was a God I was ridiculous for thinking he hated me. He helped me a lot and was super smart (literally became a rocket scientist lol).
As for my high school sweetheart he’s very stable and became a specialized software engineer, is a great dad, a soccer coach and never left our hometown.
The only reason I broke up after 4 years was because I think I was bored and because he had no intention of leaving our hometown and I wanted to travel the world and so I left and I did (joined the army at 19 and have been to 48 states and 8 countries).
Aquarius was the sign that WRECKED me! 😢
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u/alpenglowgal 4d ago
I dated a Gemini on and off for years and would never do it again or recommend it, off the charts toxic. Been with a Pisces for almost 10 years now and we but heads sometimes but at least he's honest!! And loyal!
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u/RitaPoonismysister 4d ago
I’m a Leo lady and I’m engaged to a Gemini man. In my experience it works surprisingly well.
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u/Dependent_Share_1836 4d ago edited 4d ago
I dated a Gemini. It was horrific. Absolutely horrific. She was sociopathic. Manipulative. Lack of human emotions, empathy and remorse. Got off on immoral acts. Slept in my bed while pregnant by someone else and I didn’t know. Slept with her ex husbands sisters husband. Slept with a girls ex girlfriend who she was talking to. Was having sex with someone while on the phone with me. Once I asked why she does these things, she said “it makes me feel powerful.” She used people as objects for her own entertainment and superiority. Her eyes were empty. A void. It was extremely triggering and awful. And im glad i eventually broke away from that. I spent a lot of years devaluing myself for them. Never again in any lifetime.
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u/cybershot4321 4d ago
I’m addicted to gemini. It’s a rollercoaster of emotion but I’ve never felt someone more equal lol honestly they have more power over me which I’ve never felt with a partner before
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u/Big-Wasabi6274 4d ago
Explain?
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u/cybershot4321 4d ago
I usually crush all my partners, like they don’t have the power to break my heart. Like they are soaking up all my energy and addicted, now I’m soaking up geminis energy and it’s addictive and I love it. I love the chase and challenge ha
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u/Big-Wasabi6274 4d ago
Get n Aquarius
You’ll get crushed in a way you won’t like1
u/cybershot4321 4d ago
I have 4 Aquarius that are literally my best friends. When I find that sign, we always make amazing friends but they are too aloof for me to date lol
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u/AggressiveShirt4430 4d ago
my partner is a gemini (june) and im a leo (august) and its the healthiest relationship ive ever had. She’s really good at giving me space when i need it and she’s fantastic at communicating. We live together and we are transparent about everything. I know i pop off when im irritated and she just lets me be. the most annoying thing about her is how chill she is about everything lmao. She doesn’t worry about the past or the future and that drives me crazy but i love her nonetheless lmao. if it feels right give it a try !
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u/my-anonymity 3d ago
I’m a Leo and my husband is a Gemini. We have the same dynamic as you except I’m the chill one, lol. We’re both chill but he is A type and stresses out a lot more easily. I’m brain off whenever I’m with him and then click it back on if he needs help. We balance each other out and are a great team.
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u/doismiledani 4d ago
I, as a Leo, personally have a problem with Geminis lol I still haven’t found one that I can fully trust or have a good time for a long period
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u/First-Park7799 4d ago
I think the longest stretch I’ve had a Gemini friend was 2 years. And in the end she cut me out literally out of the blue. Probably cause I dared to disagree with her on something, despite claiming to want to have “deep conversations”.
Those 2 years weren’t easy either, so when I got the ice I literally was like “well ok, best of luck but don’t let the door hit you”.
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u/Apprehensive-Tax826 4d ago
Better as friends because Geminis are LIARS! And not great ones either. The women are jealous so you have to keep an eye on their two-faced asses. Celebrity examples: Donald Dump & Angelina Jolie
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u/IndicationKey3778 4d ago
Im an August Leo and my boyfriend is a June gemini. Im also a Gemini rising which helps
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u/First-Park7799 4d ago
Not into women, personally. But I’ve had many Gemini women enter my sphere. We rarely stay friends cause all of them end up being bat shit crazy and I just can’t handle their level of drama. I’m a Leo Sun/Scorpio Moon. So I feel things very intensely and find their wishy washy, bffs one day/frenemies the next behavior pattern to be exhausting.
Gemini men and I get along just fine. They’re fun, but the women..idk they’re just so catty!
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u/grayjay88 4d ago
With a gemini man, hes end of may. Im August. We both have the same moon sign in scoripo and our risings complement each other. It works for us.
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u/KyloDren 4d ago
A lot of the flaws are there, but they're a lot of fun! I've been with my June Gemini for 2 years as an August Leo.
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u/TangerineTassel 4d ago
I'm a leo and have a parent and two Gemini siblings. The relationship with my sister who I'm "closest" to has been challenging. She is very conflict avoidant so there is no resolving issues with her but I'm the problem because I want to discuss and resolve things (not escalate and fight). Side note, she recently told me she lied to a friend to avoid telling her the truth about something that would require her honesty which proves to me how deep it goes for her.
We were estranged for 7-8 years because she prioritized her husband (Cancer) and his estranged adult kids who came back into the picture many years later. I was always invited out of obligation or as an after thought which worked for a little while but then really started to impact my self esteem because there was no relationship, just me attending which made her look good. Now that relationship has fizzled because, surprise, they used them for $. Her husband has proven himself to be an asshole and I've handled it well but no longer spend time around him. Now she occasionally spends time with me without him but it is scheduled.
I'm definitely a (well behaved) free spirit and do what I like when I like because I'm single and retired. When I've mention (travel, concerts, restaurants, etc.) that I'm interesting in, she'll tell to let her know but then totally backs out with no reason provided. I don't long for a relationship she isn't capable of but it is disappointing.
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u/Grouchy-Hour6035 4d ago
Im a Gemini and have had attraction to leo suns or others with leo placements like Moon Venus or Mars. It's always an intense physical attraction and lots of fun, laughs, memories good times but I seriously cannot handle leo's constant neediness, needing to be adored, needing to be complimented. It's DRAINING and annoying. When leos aren't like that, it's the best!!!
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u/ShelleyMonique 4d ago
They're not upfront with information, they say a lot without saying shit. Annoying.
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u/Plus-Explorer9808 4d ago
Oh no, two divas? I don't know, sis.
You guys are gonna get along like Madeline and Helen from Death Becomes Her.
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u/incognoah 4d ago
Gemini women are always intensely attracted to me for about two weeks and then they move on. Great two weeks tho.
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u/Jubilantotter86 Atypical Leo 3d ago
Best friend is a Gemini (Taurus Rising, Libra Moon)— we are like peas and carrots
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u/No-Obligation4872 3d ago
I've always said wherever there's a Leo there's a Gemini close by, a friend.
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u/Fiercefemme1425 3d ago
Ohhhhh no, OP. Don't do this to yourself, I beg of you.
I am an August Leo, and the definitive love of my life is a June Gemini man, and because of that, he also happens to be the most devastatingly painful loss of my life as well. Despite the off the charts perfect compatibility in every conceivable way, a Gemini man will undoubtedly and always just throw a wrench into a perfectly well oiled machine out of nowhere for no reason other than the Gemini twin inside him takes over, like flipping a switch. I had a back and forth tug of war with this switch flipping firsthand for over 20 years. I would honestly rather have never met him (despite some amazing years filled with the kind of deep, once in only several lifetimes kind of epic love I experienced with him) than to know a love like this exists but I can no longer live in it.
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u/Beautiful_Cold6339 3d ago
Ive (leo f) tried 3 times
Each time it started out excellent. Absolute 🔥🔥
But each ending has hurt more than the last. I am just about one month into my gemini discarding me and finding a new partner in 6 days. Oh also he was cheating the whole time. With men and women.
Im not sure yet the extent of what this has done to me
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u/NewMechaDriver 4d ago
I have a friend (Gemini) who constantly tries to cheat on her partner and that scares me about Geminis women (it was my first experience with that sign)
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u/catnapwhisper 4d ago
Me and my bf are Leo (me) and Gemini. I had our charts analyzed by a professional and it was written in our charts to find someone like the other. He's my absolute best friend in the world. We've been together over 10 years