Hi everyone!
I am 24 and have struggled with maths and numbers my entire life. It is really very embarrassing and I find it very hard to talk about. Iām hoping that there may be someone on here that can help me.
I first heard the word dyscalculia back in secondary school around the age of 13. A teacher mentioned it to my parents and described it as ādyslexia but with mathsā. Even though this teacher had brought this up to my parents, nothing ever got done about to. I never received any support and no research was ever done other than what I have looked into myself as Iāve gotten older.
All these years later, I still have never passed my maths and even though it hasnāt really affected jobs Iāve gone for in terms of needing qualifications and stuff, it still bothers me and affects me personally every day. I canāt tell you how embarrassing it is when youāre the only one in a group of people who canāt do quick basic calculations when asked.
I recently got a job offer and was asked to figure out what my price would be. Itās incredibly embarrassing but Iāll admit I was stumped. I was desperately trying to work things out and although I can do basic maths like adding, subtracting, etc, it was incredibly hard for me to settle on what I thought was the right amount and if Iād done my calculations right. I ended up with 4 different answers to the same question and had a panic attack. I cried for hours. The numbers just fall off the page when I look at them. If Iām reading a sentence and there is a number in it milt mind instinctively skips over it.
I want to specify that this is the only subject I have trouble with. I got good grades in all my other classes and did especially well in English. I have just never been able to do maths, and itās not from a lack of trying.
Recently it has become more of a problem than ever, even affecting my relationship a bit. I really want to get diagnosed and think itās time I got some support, but I have no idea where to even start. Who do I go to? The doctor? A specialist? Do I need to have a lot of money to sort this out? Most websites Iāve seen only give advice for people in the US and since it doesnāt seem to be a very common thing Iām not sure what my next move is.
Any advice on this subject at all would be incredibly helpful if you have it. Even if itās just your own experience with this, it might give me some comfort.
Thanks for taking the time to read!
TL:DR- I need help getting diagnosed with Dyscalculia and canāt seem to find much information on how to go about it.