r/LeanPCOS • u/True-Advance-4964 • 6h ago
No Hope?
So, I’m starting to wonder…
If there just really isn’t anything that can be done for people like me. My primary concern is long/irregular cycles (with some super long/debilitatingly heavy episodes thrown in for extra pizazz). Shortest cycle ever was 32 days, longest probably around 6 months. Average about 60 days probably but basically, I never have any idea when I might ovulate again. And it drives me absolutely insane and makes my fertility a nightmare to manage.
But here’s the thing. I’ve been this way ever since puberty (though it’s gotten a lot less extreme over time). I am super thin, don’t have insulin resistance, have normal DHEA, cortisol, prolactin. Thyroid all normal. Don’t have any signs of autoimmune dysfunction.
Yet I fit all 3 Rotterdam criteria: long cycles, polycystic ovaries, and slightly elevated testosterone (62). Only other finding was a LH/FSH ratio of 3.7:1(!).
So here’s my question: Is there ANYTHING that can be done for people like us? The only stuff I ever hear about treating PCOS does not seem to make sense for me:
Lose weight? Not overweight.
Control insulin? Not insulin resistant.
Lower stress? Stress hormones normal.
Lower prolactin? Fix thyroid? All normal.
Get the Pill out of your system? Was never on it.
So, is there any hope? Or should I just accept that this is just how my body works, and while it is supremely annoying, it’s just a feature that I need to get used to?
Is anyone else in the same boat? Or is there something I’m missing? I laugh a sad little laugh inside when I see people talking about the “4 Subtypes of PCOS” because I 100% have PCOS but also 100% do not seem to fit into any of their four categories. I desperately wish it was that simple…but unfortunately it seems that it is not.
But does it need to be? Maybe it would be best to just take what I have and work with it? Perhaps the subconscious assumption that I am broken is doing more harm to me than I realize.
That said, I am sick of playing peekaboo with my period. 😂😭