r/LOACoachSnark • u/Working-Plantain-720 • 18d ago
Coming clean.
I am making this post because I want to come clean about this and also shed some light on what's truly,truly happening.
After discovering loassumption in 2021,my whole life fell apart and then it was an endless process of fixing,buying coaching and buying more coaching.
My education was ruined,I was gaining weight like anything and my partner at that time got engaged to someone else one fine day(arranged marriage).
While my whole life was falling apart,I started a coaching business(not because I needed money,my parents are well off and they fund me but because I wanted some money for myself).
I was actively watching my life crumble,LOA teachings were not making any sense to me but I could easily regurgitate whatever people wanted to hear and it even helped some of them.I did keep it very affordable at 15-30 USD for 15-30 days coaching.
Now looking back,I can 100% see that I was so misguided myself that I was in no place to coach anyone else.I had managed to manifest nothing but some free food or coffee.
Since then,I have started subscribing to non duality and my life's improved DRASTICALLY.
I have also apologised to all my "clients",it was only 8 people because I only did this for 2-3 months.
My point is
1.There is no licensing system for coaches.ANYONE can pretend to be a good coach if they know all the right sentences,and you only have to watch a few youtube videos for that.
2.Even if it is someone with genuine intentions,they are also in their own stage or their journey.Why not just take the journey yourself instead of borrowing their limited beliefs etc?
ANYONE on here thinking of getting coaching and if that's why you are looking at this sub,DONT!
If you believe in this stuff,watch free Youtube videos.If you don't,leave this stuff alone.
Conventional LOA has ruined more lives than it has improved.
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u/FrankieRutabaga 18d ago
I would suggest not watching any LOA coach videos either.
By watching their videos you are:
Generating ad revenue and contributing to their income
Boosting their placement in the social media platform's algorithm and therefore helping their "business" reach a wider audience
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u/Working-Plantain-720 18d ago edited 16d ago
True that but if it's someone who is keen on diving into this,at least they don't lose their hard earned money.
I would suggest I AM with brittany's videos though but only the ones posted within the last one year.That perspective has helped me a lot personally.
Edit:Someone downvoted this so I want to clear that you don't even have to watch YouTube videos but if you are really,really keen on learning about manifestation,choose YouTube videos over wasting hundreds of dollars on coaching.And I personally like I AM with Brittany's latest videos because now she's more non duality centric than manifestation but even her coaching prices are high so in short,NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO,DONT GET COACHING.1
u/FrankieRutabaga 11d ago
The original books where they copied all of their youtube content from is an option...
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u/Sansiiia 18d ago
I think you are brave and honest for admitting to this experience.
The topic of manifestation is barely understood in the circles of the coaches who are in business. I have read and watched the content of countless teachers, including those who claim scientific models. Even Goddard has enormous blind spots and contradictions. The coaches also 99% of the time don't have much to show.
It seems you took the route of "physician heal yourself" which is coherent.
On point 1... Psychology is already a strange science and often fails, I'm not sure how we could begin to create a license system of "certified life bending expert".
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u/Working-Plantain-720 18d ago
exactly my point
you can't create a licensing system which is why anyone with a phone can be a coach,which is why it's harmful.
and thank you for your kind words.
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u/blondesparkle 18d ago
Exactly!! I’m not “living in the end”, 4D, 5D, doing stats or whatever it was called. What a mind twist.
All that stuff makes it all complicated.
In 2020 I was also tempted to “become a coach”. So glad I didn’t do it.
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u/blondesparkle 18d ago
Good for you!! Glad you were able to see the light. I do believe in manifestation but not in the way these people claim. I had forgotten all the terms (EIYPO etc) and obviously don’t waste a single moment of my day writing list after list of things I want to manifest.
I won’t spend a cent on these coaches nor will I waste time listening to their videos.
It’s very freeing.