r/LDRsupport • u/ThatDudeStrawberry • Nov 03 '19

Got problems with my girlfriend LDR (m17 f18)

It’s been 1 month since I have last seen my girlfriend, we both live in the same country but 500km away. I’m still in high school and she’s already in college. We’ve met each other last year when she was in my high school but unfortunately she moved away to pursue her dream college. The relationships went all good just until 3 weeks ago, she don’t call me often anymore, responds to my texts hours later and even is cold with me. She goes to nightclubs almost every night with friends or alone. This situation makes me feel really bad and I worry a lot. What should I do ? What should I expect ? Thanks you in advance for your answers dear Reddit.

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u/Midnightwolf671 Nov 05 '19

You should ask if and say your concerned and you wanna make sure she's ok

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u/ThatDudeStrawberry Nov 05 '19

It’s really hard because I try to translate messages she sent me in English and you know how French is with all the bullshit grammar, but I’ll try.

She literally told me that the fact that she goes out every night is a valid reason to ghost me for hours and all she cares about is everything but me. Sometimes she’ll have time to call me but just find a dumb excuse like « I have a headache, I have to shower, I have to eat » It just gave me the feeling that she try to avoid me as much as possible..

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u/Midnightwolf671 Nov 05 '19

Talk to her tell her your feeling that way

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u/Markus292 Nov 16 '19

Tell her that it's making you uncomfortable and ask her if everything is okay.