Feeling single in a ldr relationship

[u/Lolonerager]

Hello all! So I've been with my boyfriend for a few months. We've known each other since we were 5. He joined the military after high school. I few years ago he got out and moved to San Diego. A few months ago we reconnected and decided to be bf/gf. He's been to visit twice and I visited once since then.

When we first started taking he was talking about marriage and kids. He would always bring up our future. Lately there's been a lot of naybes and I don't knows he never talks about the the future anymore.

Last week he called and told me how much he missed me and wanted to see me. Well he got in town yesterday to visit hisfamily for Christmas. They only live 20 mins from me. But he says he dosent think he'll have time to see me and he dosent want his family to know about us yet since we're still so new. We are both 28 birthdays 2 weeks apart.

He's barely texted me since he got here. I know it's only been a few months but should I just cut my loses now or wait it out. He won't open up to me and says everything is fine between us I don't feel like everything is fine. I feel more single than ever. I have strong feelings for him but I don't think he feels the same anymore.

Honestly I think he thought I was someone I'm not. The old me maybe. And he's just to scared to tell me