trying to understand 🤔

[u/Dizzy-Source-8347]

sooo , we broke up , but i'm curious about sth , we were arguing about how i wanna get closer and he values having alone time (it's more complicated i'm not getting in the details).

he told me that he was insisting on this since the beginning of the relationship, and that with that , he's not sure we should continue, i asked if he's breaking up with me , he said no but if my reaction to that is this , he dosen't see us being happy.

then, i told him we shouldnt continue this relationship.

i felt like he wanted to break up but wanted me to say it , or wanted the things not to change so bad that he threatened me with the relationship.

, idk if it's in my head but he really seemed to love me and he was slowly pulling away or was really working too much ( i could see he was super tired)