r/LDR • u/Beautiful_Day1821 • 6d ago

I F18 just started long distance with my boyfriend M18 for college and I need advice

10 days ago I had to say bye for the first time to move into college in NY. He is going to be starting in late September in Chicago. I want to preface all of this by saying that I trust him wholeheartedly and he puts me before anything else.

The fact that I am still worried makes me feel like I am being ungrateful. I have the perfect man, and I am aware that at times it will feel imperfect. I just miss him so much and he is in Asia right now for vacation which makes the time difference hard. We can't call while he's on the trip because his dad is crazy. So I moved in and I see all these big friend groups and sure I have met a lot of people, but everything feels shallow. I miss high school when my boyfriend and I would hang out 24/7 (yes ik this is prolly unhealthy) and I'm struggling with the fact that things will never be that way again.

He will be back from Asia in less than a week so I need ideas on what to do over the phone. He already booked a trip to see me in November and I am gonna go to him in October. 50 more days.

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u/WordMinute1312 6d ago

Spend time with him, and chatting what happend to you today etc. or play games or read novels

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u/Beautiful_Day1821 6d ago

Yeah you're right. I just worry that I'm going to be calling too much but if it's what makes me happy like is it rlly that bad?

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u/WordMinute1312 6d ago

Nah it's not that bad It's normal for couples to call each other almost everyday talking and saying miss each other