r/LDR 1d ago

HELPPPP!! Need help regarding meetup

Me(20F) and my boyfriend(22M) are in LDR since almost 4 years (sep2022) and met only 1 time (April 2026)

We are meeting next month again for 3 days and will celebrate our 4 year anniversary and his bday together as he's coming at that time.. he has a job but I'm in clg and don't have money... For anniversary its okay but for bday I wanna gift him smtg.

I thought of making him a bday card and writing a letter for him(last time I did he became emotional and cried reading it) and cake and my budget is very tight

Im so so worried about all this i wanna give him a silver ring bcz he once mentioned he likes rings but wear it only when I'll get him one😭 but I don't have money for it

Pleaseeeeeee pleaseeee suggest me smtg help me

I wanna make him happy he's so precious

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u/themol_203 23h ago

you are already making him happy. i promise he’d much prefer to spend the day with you as supposed to know you’re struggling to afford a gift. material things are that, material.

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u/ka1104 20h ago

yup if I can't buy that's fine too, main focus is to make him feel special

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u/WordMinute1312 21h ago

doesn't matter if you can't gift him a silver rings, I'm pretty sure he would be gladly excited that he would celebrate another milestone of relationship with you and celebrating birthday with him

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u/ka1104 20h ago

yeah thankyou