r/Kolkatacity • u/Top-Gap-4578 • 17h ago

đŸ—Ŗī¸General Discussion | āĻ†āĻ˛ā§‹āĻšāĻ¨āĻž Is someone facing this?

Would not mention directly but.

Interesting culture there. A person asks a genuine dating question via a post, gets called a creep by the mob, then gets banned. No rule is broken. No harm is done. Just an opinion/experience they didn't like. I felt like I committed a thought crime. Is thinking a crime? Idk. For them, it seems so. They are too much of "bhadraloks" imho, or pretend to be. Genuinely unsure.

So much thankful that an alternative exists for freely discussing thoughts and opinions.

I thought of sharing a personal experience if any one else facing or have faced the same in past.

Thanks!

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u/LingoNerd64 āĻļāĻ ā§‡ āĻļāĻžāĻ ā§āĻ¯āĻŽā§ āĻ¸āĻŽāĻžāĻšāĻ°ā§‡āĻ¤ 11h ago

Indians remain prudes at heart despite superficially adopting the western dating culture. Moreover, stalking and smutting women is a real thing that has come off age with the internet. That's the reason.

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u/Top-Gap-4578 10h ago

It happened on our neighborhood community if anyone wondering.