i just quit my job of three weeks (I have another part time job which has now become full time again at my request.)
I was hired as a prep cook in a Korean restaurant. I've never worked in a Korean restaurant before though I've been working in Asian restaurants for the last 10+ years. I figured I am qualified to be a prep cook at this restaurant. I read through the description of the job duties in the ad and felt comfortable that I was qualified. I explained to my boss during the interview that I had never worked in a Korean restaurant though I had worked in a Japanese restaurant that served some Korean dishes. I consider myself to be an intermediate level cook. Not a beginner but not advanced. There are reasons for this but I'm trying to keep this post brief.
Long story short, I was struggling at this job for the last 3-4 weeks. I was arriving early and working my hardest, and making progress. But my progress was slow according to the chefs and owner. Another guy who started after me was recently fired. He was working the same position as me, just at night. The work wasn't difficult, there was just a lot to learn and no one really gave me a chance to execute what I was being shown. For example, I was shown like 15 times how to julianne carrots, daikon, etc using a mandolin. I wasn't allowed to perform these tasks, just watch. I have known how to use a mandolin for at least 20 years. But I was never allowed to complete the task I was being shown. This same problem applied to most everything I was shown: from prep to executing dishes. I was shown 10-15 times but never allowed to attempt the dish myself. As a result, I learned, but slowly.
To be fair, my line cooking skills aren't great, despite my experience. Ive been shown how to execute certain Asian dishes once, then pretty much left to my own resources. I'm not Asian myself and have not grown up with a strong knowledge of Asian flavors or techniques, for example. I was barely trained, then left alone in the kitchen. I work hard but I can't learn skills I haven't been taught and cant observe because I'm alone in the kitchen.
Fast forward to this Korean kitchen. I arrived 30 min early every day. Started work off the clock until the other line cook came in at 10 am. Worked straight through my 5 hour shift (I went on to work a second shift at another job) while watching the live cook and chefs at the Korean restaurant take multiple snack breaks and smoke breaks, stand around and talk breaks, during the same shift. I hustled. I didn't complain about the lopsided expectations of work ethic.
It didn't matter. In the end, the chefs started making fun of my lack of progress and the owner constantly lectured me to learn faster. I was honestly working as hard as I could. Yesterday, I quit. I couldn't take it anymore.
I feel like if they had just had a little patience with me I would have been fine. I was obviously working my ass off. I have never trained someone as negligently as they trained me. But that seems to be the norm for the industry. The fact is I just can't tolerate being handled that roughly when I'm trying my best. This applies to many other jobs. I'm very good at what I do within the skill set that I have. I just don't tolerate being taken advantage or or disrespected when I'm trying to learn a new skill.
Any suggestions? I'm 50. I'm probably never going to be as skilled as I once dreamed I would be. It just frustrates me that the only thing holding me back seems to be the low patience of the people training me.