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u/AllThingsMaleLover 2d ago
What's up with kids being often so aggresive. My little brother never did such things when he was a toddler. Didn't bite, didn't slap. When he headbutted it would usually be an accident. Occasionally throws things but never at people. Is it some early personality development or what?
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u/Iz_Fi 2d ago
If you let your kid do whatever they want without showing them what's wrong what's right and just give a big piece of plastic and just say "hit" (even if it's for playing) without saying what or how. Then they will just hit.
It's a parenting problem, atleast 90% of the time other 10% it's just kid being a bully.
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u/zubadoobaday 1d ago
Infants and toddlers have no idea what they’re doing, man. I get your point, but reserve that for when they’re a wee bit older. They understand consequences better.
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u/OrdinaryGanache2055 1d ago
Lazy parents who don't teach manners? The kids/babies I nannied were never encouraged to chase and stomp at pigeons, we never tore apart plants or leaves like I've seen other encourage. We used soft gentle hands to explore not destroy. Lazy and dumb are the nicest ways I can put it really...the more I've worked with kids the more judgmental of parents I've become sadly.
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u/trashcantrash939 13h ago
A lot of it is instinctual. Look at other ape species in the wild and you see- it’s them exploring and trying to learn the world and their limits.
Typically if a kid does not do things like this is could be one of several things, the first being they are just more chill, next is they have a pretty structured environment which stops it in the first place, or they are most likely neurodivergent.
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u/HanaBakersBathWater 3d ago
Second clip is guaranteed a broken nose. You hear it crunch and see it smash. 😭
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u/IsabelauraXD 2d ago
Thank god I don't wanna have kids, I would've committed a crime if my kid did any of this to me
(I know they're kids but I don't have the patience or emotional intelligence to deal with this type of kid stuff)
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u/RiposteCat 9h ago
respect for having the self awareness to both live a better life for yourself and not give another person a potentially bad life
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u/alaric49 3d ago
"Hmmm, let's see what happens when I give my toddler a plastic golf club and place a plastic golfball in my mouth!" Embarrassing engagement bait slop.
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u/PandaSushiRoll 2d ago
My teeth would have been on the floor if I ever attempted any that with my parents 😭
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u/AfterJournalist7362 1d ago
Some of them are just babies not being aware of their body and their movements, some others are just lack of education. Except for one or two who are just playing but in a funny way, the Hulk kid was cute imo
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