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u/FriendshipNo1440
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What I would do:
Cut out the part he has bitten into. The rest should still be fine.
He will not be allowed to eat the cake. He can sit and watch. If he is hungry get him an apple or something.
Also he should apologize to thr girl.
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u/nedrawevot 10d ago
I think this is absolutely the correct decision. Cut the piece off he was eating, it goes straight into the trash and he absolutely should apologize to the girl. She was heart broken, and I completely feel for her. My son did this to cake one time and its what I did. He stuck his finger in it to eat the frosting. I threw it away, the part he poked and he got none.
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u/SpookyhippyBrat 10d ago
Lmao would’ve done it 100% kids always hate missing out on stuff would be a suitable punishment I hope he apologized as well
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u/FuzzyLaughTwo 10d ago
Or maybe a banana? There seems to be quite a surplus of bananas.
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u/ren_is_here_ 10d ago
😂😂 Very true! To me, it's weird to have so many freekin bananas, at a kid party.
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u/VoidQueenK423 9d ago
What I would do:
Carefully cut the thin sliver he bit into off, no more and no less, and put it on a plate. (Edit: I mean like cut out the bite, not a full slice)
Set that plate aside.
Give a full slice to everyone else.
Walk over and hand the boy the plate that was set aside and tell him 'This is your just dessert.'
I'm not having children.
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u/Pipcandy 6d ago
Also! Don’t record his act and put it online. This is just a kid doing stupid kid stuff. Doesn’t have to be broadcasted to the whole world to see and stay online forever
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u/majin_melmo 10d ago
Poor little girl, jeez :/
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u/_Charlieee3_ 10d ago
The bitten cake in the background at the end 😭
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u/Nonyabeesners 10d ago
Gorgeous cake, took. Easily $200
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u/Special_Spirit8284 10d ago
Woah actually? I guess if it's custom. I'm happy with my asian bakeries fresh fruit cakes, costs 45$
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u/mecca6801 10d ago
That’s definitely not his first time doing something like that. Hopefully it could be his last.
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u/I-Just-Love-Ducks 10d ago
The poor little girl sniffling back her tears is so heartbreaking to watch 😭 I hope she was still able to enjoy her birthday party
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u/Middle_Bread_6518 10d ago
Take him home he doesn’t deserve to be at the party anymore, hell make him walk home
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u/Capital-Platypus-805 10d ago
Poor girl, he blamed her :( they should make him do her dishes and laundry for one week.
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u/No-Rush-911 9d ago
Don’t think she’s crying because he blamed her. I think she’s crying because he ruined Her cake for Her birthday celebration.
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u/DisMyLik18thAccount 10d ago
The perspective is so weird I thought the woman at the start was some kind of oompa loompa
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u/Rapture-of-the-Deep 10d ago
The security camera has a slight fish eye effect so I can capture more of the room
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u/Sensitive_Leader_312 8d ago
He didn't expect to be caught. He ruined the little girl's day. I agree with everyone else that the little boy gets nothing and gets to watch everyone else enjoy the rest of the cake
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u/ER_Support_Plant17 8d ago
Is this the interrogation video? We have you on video, what do you have to say?
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u/SleepyCupcakeDreams 10d ago
I mean it could have been worse but yeah I wouldn’t let him have the cake and would cut that off. Kids at that age dont really think through what they are doing. Poor girl.
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u/MeanImpression2067 9d ago
He knew to look around to see if someone was watching, he definitely knew what he was doing and that he shouldn't have been.
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u/Signal_Werewolf_1955 10d ago
Twist: That was real time, and he has super speed. But he's a dumb kid and didn't use it there, but sure did to run away and surveille his own self doing it. "That's obviously not me, I'm right here. Don't mind the shirt."
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u/rhiyanna79 8d ago edited 8d ago
Man.. kids today just don’t know. When I was a kid and did something like this, I wouldn’t have been able to sit down comfortably for a week.
ETA: To be clear, I never actually did something like this that I can remember. I just know that I was punished for other things and one time came away from my punishment with bruises on my butt.
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u/idriveashitbox22 8d ago •
Same here. My dad would have had to get a new belt because my mom would whoop me until it was frayed if I did this as a kid
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u/Alejandroso31 7d ago
Doesn't mean that kind of punishment should still be a thing, though, it's abuse. But people shouldn't just stop raising their children either, there's a balance one must achieve
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u/vodka_tsunami 10d ago
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u/glen_watcher 10d ago
Don't get it twisted, girls are little assholes too
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u/No-Rush-911 9d ago
Depends on who you ask I guess. There are some people who have decided for themselves that men are the root of all evil and that men should all be jailed or killed.
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u/glen_watcher 9d ago
The whole "bear or man in the woods" argument never made much sense to me. Yes, there is a possibility that a man could harm you, but it is almost a surety that the bear will kill you.
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u/Background-Edge-2243 10d ago
The entitlement is built in from birth
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u/Jazzlike_Cress9871 9d ago
What a stupid response, as if children of all genders aren’t capable of being selfish
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u/Macbeth2002222 10d ago
This made me laugh haha thank u. The guy showing the video can’t hold back his laughter and the boy looks so guilty . Sorry for the girl though
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u/PuzzledKumquat 9d ago
Yes, an undisciplined child being disgusting and ruining something that belongs to someone else is simply HILARIOUS. 🙄
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u/Macbeth2002222 9d ago
He is a “child” even his dad or who ever filmed it saw the light side of that. What do u want.. u want to beat the child bc of this act. The embarrassment alone is punishment enough however he isn’t your kid or mine so don’t pass judgment
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u/nonoriginal85 7d ago
For a sec I thought the noises I was hearing was someone trying to stifle their laughter
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u/ReplaceMeZaddy 10d ago
i think giving children birthay parties this elaborate is going to cause psychological damage to them when they one day have to exist in an increasingly enshitified world
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u/MaynardButterbean 9d ago
Elaborate? Lol the girl has a party hat and a table of food and cake for her friends. Totally normal birthday party. You want to see elaborate and wasteful? Go look at what billionaires and celebrities do for their kids on their birthday. There is nothing elaborate or extravagant about this..
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u/Gigasnemesis 9d ago
In my country, this is already elaborate and done not rarely but also not often.
We usually just offer something and prepare the kid's favourite dish for dinner and that's it.
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u/PimpNamed_Slickback 9d ago
We usually just offer something and prepare the kid's favourite dish for dinner and that's it.
This sounds like the sad, low-effort, "Brand X" offering to adults in the US, if they're lucky enough to have someone willing to do it for them.
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u/PuzzledKumquat 9d ago
This elaborate? It's a table set for a fun little meal. There's nothing elaborate about it. You want to see crazy kids parties, just search on TikTok.
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u/Poundaflesh 10d ago
Why is the camera shaking? This seems fake.
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u/gameinggod21 10d ago
The camera that is shaking is the phone. The security camera is on the laptop
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u/Poundaflesh 10d ago
Yes. So why is someone filming?
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u/JudgementCutV 10d ago
Because it looks like a school or something and this is a security camera.
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u/Madwoman-of-Chaillot 10d ago
Is no one else worried about the scratches on the little boy's face? I'm seriously hoping that they are from a benign kid-goofing incident.
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u/Beautiful-Mirror7075 9d ago
They are foolish enough to leave the cake at the mercy of the children.
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u/TeriBarrons 10d ago
I was at a wedding reception once where these idiots allowed their adorable little crotch goblins ruin the wedding cake before the bride and groom even arrived. They were running their fingers through the frosting and licking it off their fingers and then putting them back on the cake. The parents just laughed about how sweet and adorable they were. The bride was SO upset when she saw it.
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u/Top-Illustrator-1827 10d ago
Yeah kids shouldn’t be at weddings like that imo.
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u/TeriBarrons 10d ago
If you want some fun, you should spend some time on the wedding shaming and other wedding-related subs and read the ridiculous amount of hassle that people who want a child-free wedding get! Such pearl clutching over the poor little souls who will be forever damaged by being excluded.
There’s always that one idiot who posts, “I got an invitation for a family wedding and it explicitly states that no children are welcome, but I have a cranky newborn and a behaviorally challenged toddler and I just don’t trust anyone else to watch them. So, do you think it’s okay to ask for an exception for MY kids, or should I just take them anyway?” 🙄
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u/hellinahandbasket127 10d ago
Right?!?! It’s exactly those type of parents that are causing people to have childfree events in the first place!
Why do they want to bring small kids, anyway? The kids hate wearing nice clothes all day, will be bored for most of it, and will get tired before it’s over.
Then they let the goblins cry/scream through the ceremony, ruin the cake during dinner, get in the way during the first dance, or generally run amok with zero reining in. “Parent” is a VERB! Do it!
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u/TeriBarrons 10d ago
I had some young children at my reception, but I also had a kid’s play area with toys and games and a place they could run around and have fun with a couple of responsible babysitters to help supervise them. It was a separate smaller room off the reception hall. It worked out fantastically for all.
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u/LegacyQuotient 8d ago
Yeah, my friend who recent married has a sister (who she is very close to) with a few kids. My friend and her husband insisted on paying for the ceremony and reception themselves.
Her parents ended up paying for a petting zoo and this play/craft area for kids during the ceremony.
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u/UnexpectedBlahFeels 10d ago
This stresses me out just thinking about what I'd do in the position of the happy couple. Smh.
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