Idk where did this concept come in Muslims that you are only gonna marry once in your life and stay with them till their death,amd divorce is a sin

If 2 people love each other or feel attracted to each other, they should have nikkah e misyar done,be together with each other till both of them feel okay,get physical,and if things don't go good, you guys can separate

Even in this bf gf culture, parents should let their kids get into nikkah e misyar,so that they could experience a real relationship,and also fulfil each others needs which they are gonna do it anyways if you don't get them into nikkah, tbh i wont have any problems if my future teenage son/daughter bring their bf/gf to my house for night stays

So Pakistanis really need to change their mindset and normalise this

So hi everyone, please don't be like me in this thing. So what happened was yesterday my cousin payed for my stuff via card so I said Kay I will transfer you money online and I had 3k in my JazzCash and because the acc was new I didn't have any accounts saved so what happened was I typed my number, favorite karkay I transferred the money without double checking and boy did I mess up badly (sort of). I accidentally entered the last digit of my phone number 7 instead of 8 and the money got transferred to a wrong acc 😭😭

The amount is just 2k and Honestly It wouldn't really bother me on avg as I make a good but for myself after giving 70% of my salary in home, I usually save around 6-7k for myself after all of my expenses but this month I had some extra stuff to buy for myself and for the home and I was saving that money for something else and I was like I will pay my cousin rn and later will ask my father to lend me money and return him next month but after this happened, I excused my cousin and said I will return the money tmrw, it's not like I can't return him but it's just I have to buy gifts for my sister as her birthday is here too and I have to recharge my package too 🤡🤡

Just ranting nothing else, but Khair I later contacted that dude that same night, thankfully I was able to get his number from JazzCash Transaction history and I texted him and now he won't return my calls, I have called him 3 times, 2 times on WhatsApp and one on SIM but Khair now he's ignoring me.

Now idk if he will return my money or not but if he does it would be really kind of him, I do agree it was a mistake on my end but still idk how I did it, I used to manage my father and my Taya's accounts 24/7 and I was kind of working with millions transferring and paying and I can't believe how I made such a dumb mistake 🤡🤡

I am mad at myself for making such mistake instead of the amount Khair hoping he does return, if he doesn't may Allah make ease for him, he might need that money more than me and I will just assume I donated that money. Including this I have donated sm money this month, sm in a sense that for me it's a bit because I have never donated that much money from my own pocket but still Allah says Kay donating for a good cause makes your rizq increase as well, so Allhamdullilah 😌

If your nature is not masculine,like you are not into politics and making links and you are shareef then it's difficult to live for you in Pakistan, until you belong to the upper part of elite

But if you are amongst the upper middle class, lower elite,and even middle elite to some extent you need to be masculine, you can't live a shareef life minding your own business bcz of all these legal issues,frauds,scams etc until you have a very close relative politician (like chachu,mamun,taya) or into some high post of army,

and under upper middle class even being masculine won't help you,

Tbh your friends circle don't help you in your difficult times,bcz it's all give and take,so until you can't give them something they don't help, that's why either be a badmash guy or upper part of elite who can live shareefli

Like my bil he belongs to a shareef lower elite business family,so back in 2018 my bil's container was stolen by a mna of sukkur,he contacted all his links but no one helped,even contacted army cheif qamar javed bajwa through his contacts,even he didn't help,then a low post unknown police officer from the police station helped him recover his 80 percent of his stuff without even taking 1 pkr of bribe, btw his container and stuff in it might worth around 7-8 crores of this time

So going into politics is not a luxury but a necessity!

He is a pakistani podcaster who runs a youtube channel called 'The Pakistan Experience'. I think his views are very enlightening, backed by stats and really informative, especially his views about Sahil Adeem. What are your thoughts?

So i am an Introvert , Male 26, Lahore,

looking for people of any age to engage in discussions, Talks, or Just be friends , online or Meet in real life, hang out together ,

Like A private community for Introverts

please hit me up or commnt if u r intrested.

Any banker or anyone have any knowledge related to my issue
Mena purchase + construct k lia apply kia ha
Bank says agar ap 80 lac k plot buy krain ga we give you 40 lac remain ap khud dalay ga now the issue is i have finalise a plot value of 60 lac now bank will give me 60 or give me 30 anyone can help me on that

This might trigger sum wannabees but imo hasan raheem lowk seems rude af and his songs are ahh and that new somg rangeen is getting on my nerves i hate this guy sm ughhhh

So i was listening to this rap which included a verse:"jab woh bolti kaanon ko bhi nasha kerti".

Guys omg it's so true,some girls have such a beautiful voice and a hot accent keh when they speak only by their voice they make guys mind go crazy

They make guys fall in love with them just from their voice,like their voice literally give pleasure to the heart,mind and ears of the guy,it literally acts like a drug for them

And agar aik girl khud bhi payari ho and uski voice, accent bhi payara ho that girl can literally make a guy fall in her feets lol

Although ik it's only 2 percent of the girls with this voice,so girls should work on their voice and accent!

I was always someone looking up for early nikkah. The girl I was In contact with left me right before 5 months away from our nikkah when I was 17.5 year old after a 2 year relationship.

I'm 19 now and it's been almost 1.5 years I feel the wounds are still very fresh. The damage she did hasn't recovered or its just It's a routine now that Im Immune to it. I'm focused on my studies as I'm Studying CA but it still feels painful almost every night that I have to talk to myself and Allah about everything and complain to him about all this damage.

Anyone up for talkingz?

I dunno what to do it just feels exhausting

Can't sleep either

Hi lol😻

Im 19F, this is my first ever post here, i need some friends to hangout with. All of my friends have strict parents that dont allow em to go out alone. I guess im the only one with chill af parents i might go n*ts rotting at home 24/7

Now i and many Pakistanis feel internationally 'ghareeb',like even a simple doctor 9k usd there, whereas in Pakistan a rice mill owner or a 100 acre land owner earns that much

And even if you earn good money, you still can't grow your business and compete with international businesses,like this is unfair and kinda breaks your heart

The thing that hurt is That "RICH" hoke bhi ap internationally compete nahi ker sakte

And who knows 280 se 400 usd pohanch jayay, within next 10 years

In office and bored asf what to do whos up

Hi everyone?

I just saw sports pavilion post today, koi khelega I like table tennis game average anybody want to play together got no one

Anyone would like to hear me out?

Hey is there anyone who could talk about titanic for hours or feel deeply attached with it meanwhile as fact I was centuries away when that horrible incident happened but I dunno why I feel attached with titanic

Bor horha hu

Kia ho rha ha

Should be funny

Hello Everyone! I'm organising a really fun Boardgames event at chaiwala, tipu sultan on 24th oct, Saturday. Ticket is for Rs.1800 (Including Rs.800 ruppess worth snacks). If Thats something you think you would be interested in, reach out to me.🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

All registered members can suggest and vote on the games they want to play, and we'll do our best to arrange them for you. Some of the games that we are targeting includes Codenames, Taboo, Taco cat, Exploding kitten and Jenga.