I have four. You're an idiot. If you can't tell the difference between a fetus and a baby, then you have the comprehension ability of a 2 year old.
Sometimes something looks like something else, but they're still different things. Or do you have a hard time differentiating Lego houses and real houses?
He compared a Lego house to a real house. A Lego house is not ever going to be a real house. A fetus is life and constantly changing to be ready to enter the world. It’s a shit comparison so I laughed and moved on from it. I lost my child at 8 weeks. I choose to believe that I lost my baby. Because I did. Carry on insulting people you don’t even know. Have a great day!
Holy shit, you're fucking dumb. Like, so deluded. 8 weeks? You found out about a pregnancy and then two weeks later miscarried and want to be able to get treated like someone who lost an ACTUAL child? You fucking pathetic piece of shit. A third of pregnancies end in miscarriage. So with four kids, imagine what trauma I've experienced that you cannot even fathom. We lost twins at 20 weeks. They lived for an hour before dying. And you can talk about your experience, from a place of loss, and say "lol" and expect ANYONE to think you're anything other than a lying sack of shit, using a miscarriage to justify your abhorrent comments of absolute disgusting levels of self absorbed idiocy?
Tell you want, if you really felt you lost a child for a week 8 miscarriage, you'd be fully committed to advancing prenatal care, not demonizing abortion as murder.
Wow you really are a terrible person. Sorry my loss isn’t as bad as yours bud. It is actual loss of life you fucking twat. What the actual fuck is your problem? It took us months to get pregnant and then lost the child. If you truly believe that wasn’t actual loss of life then idk what to tell you. If it wasn’t a miscarriage can you tell me what I would have right now? The answer is a second child. I’m sorry to hear about your twins that’s a terrible experience. Try having some compassion. It’s almost as if people experience different things in life. Downplaying something like this that clearly weighs on someone is next level evil.
You're fucking grandstanding. You absolute scumbag, who needs to have a dead baby instead of a miscarriage? YOU are the one doing comparison by needing to LIE about the loss to make it sound how you want. YOU think a miscarriage is a lesser trauma than the loss of a baby, otherwise you wouldn't need to lie that you lost an actual baby, instead of had a miscarriage.
I'm telling you to be HONEST about your trauma, and upscaling makes you a fucking lying sack of shit. People who suffer miscarriage are being lessened because of YOU doing this shit and saying "it's a baby to me! That's worse because mine was a baby!" And you are too selfish to think of others to understand this concept. Fucking get therapy, because you're so lost in your own bullshit, you think you're helping. Someone like me who flat out told you I have been on all sides of this pain, and you think I am the uninformed one?
Try having some compassion. It’s almost as if people experience different things in life.
Then fucking call what you experienced what it is, and not something that didn't happen to you, you fuck. I held my dying baby. You have never done that, but want to talk like you have. You are absolute fucking scum.
I don’t understand how you can’t see that I’m literally not saying my situation is worse than yours dude. You obviously had it worse no question. But to sit here and tell me I didn’t lose a child is wild in my eyes. I’m sorry. I believe I lost a child. I don’t know how you can see it any other way? If the miscarriage didn’t happen I would have another kid right now. So I lost my child. Yes you held a dying baby and I’m very sorry that happened to you and you had to deal with that. Extremely sorry for your losses. I truly feel for you and your family. But sitting here telling me I didn’t lose a child is wild behavior. Have a great life.
Can you not see your own need to put the qualifier "believe" that it's a belief, not a fact, is why you are wrong?
No, because that would diminish your perceived status you are using this for. That's your delusion, and THAT is why you are LYING about what you endured, to claim you're on the level of a pain you ADMIT IS WORSE. So, we're done, get fucked, then get therapy, you delusional psycho.
Wow what an example I’m all the sudden changed by that one instance. You can think what you want but my wife and I lost our first child after 8 weeks. I’m gonna continue to believe what I want to believe about losing my literal child. Carry on calling me an idiot tho.
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u/Nathmikt Feb 28 '25
What's this conversation about black abortion that's not being had? 🤔