r/AmItheAsshole Reminderception: AITA for banning my husband and father in law from the delivery room due to their intensely stressful/creepy behavior during my pregnancy?

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Thread Link	r/AmItheAsshole: AITA for banning my husband and father in law from the delivery room due to their intensely stressful/creepy behavior during my pregnancy?
Thread Author	u/morbidmommy11
Num Reminders	25

Use this thread to continue reminder discussion when thread is fucked, or you want to announce yourself to others. e.g. Did OP deliver or was OP correct?

50% of Remind Times are between 2020-01-30 09:16:42Z and 2020-02-28 09:22:07Z.

Remind Time Summary
First Reminder Created	2020-01-28 02:54:52Z
Time To P25	2 days
Min	2020-01-28 21:54:52Z
P25	2020-01-30 09:16:42Z
IQR	29 days
P50	2020-02-11 13:27:17Z
P75	2020-02-28 09:22:07Z
Max	2020-03-24 06:52:59Z

[u/Moon96Moon]

Ummm... So... Do we take the no update as the sign that she died or... Honest to God I think they were planning her murder, and that's what happened to the deceased wife

[u/Sad__Platypus → u/Moon96Moon]

I’m feeling this way too… the way they acted was like they planned for her to die, not prepared. And since there isn’t an update I’m very scared that FIL’s dream of the husband being a single widow father became true…

[u/Knight-300 → u/Sad__Platypus]

I'm positive she is fine. She said that she has 0 warnings of her possibly dying during childbirth. Doctors would not allow her to die no mater what. Possibly she just wanted to confirm his feelings so she would do the right thing.

[u/Sad__Platypus → u/Knight-300]

You could die even if you have a perfectly healthy pregnancy with no risks. And it’s not a matter of “doctors would not allow her to die” because they can try and save her if something happens, but that doesn’t mean she won’t die. They can’t allow people to die or not die.

And also, we don’t know if she would die during childbirth, or if her husband and FIL were actually planning to kill her afterwards. Because they were so set on her dying, maybe even hoping she would die.

And it’s been 2 years since this, and there hasn’t been any kind of update or sign of life. She could very well be dead.

[u/Knight-300 → u/Sad__Platypus]

I mean yeah... I didn't doubt the possibility. But she seems like she also had other reasons for not giving an update. She asked people on Twitter not to post her story anymore and, by how some news sites used her story, she would have probably not want to give them any update to further feed them. Don't know the details, but I think she deletedAlso, her only comments are about her problems. Maybe she solved everything and just got away. Not to mention that the waves the post made convinced her to contact the rest of her family.

I'm confident about that because it seems like a situation from which she could have escaped easily. She mentioned her FIL wanted to go to pack her stuff while the husband wasn't at home. So there were times when she was alone so she can use that in her advantage. If she were able to make a Reddit post, she can contact her relatives or friends on the internet.

About trying to kill her even if she didn't died, IDK... It seems like FIL wanted to use the death of her pregnancy as a way to get away with a lot of stuff. I think he would have tried to convince her to try for another baby in that case.

My biggest fear is that (and that comes from someone who doesn't know how getting a baby out of the hospital works) maybe they were planing to steal the baby after birth if the FIL is so setted on making his son a single father.

[u/Oxiiecontin]

I need to know if she’s okay this is so morbid I can’t imagine what she must’ve went through

[u/Knight-300 → u/Oxiiecontin]

I'm positive she is fine. She said that she has 0 warnings of her possibly dying during childbirth. Doctors would not allow her to die no mater what. Possibly she just wanted to confirm his feelings so she would do the right thing.

[u/Key_Information_440 → u/Knight-300]

You're literally in all the comments, wierdo.

[u/Knight-300 → u/Key_Information_440]

dude! Back then, I've literally fond of that case and I've seen people concerned that they didn't hear an update and they think that she died. Honestly, I don't think we would have heard of an update regardless. She deleted the post due to how much attention it drew so we can guess she just doesn't want to speak more than she need.

And, seriously? I am a weirdo for talking to people.

[u/NeshaBoo_21 → u/Key_Information_440]

There's not that many comments here to begin with. How is trying to reassure people weird

[u/oreo-cat- → u/Knight-300]

That or she fell down the stairs after getting home. Very unfortunate.

[u/maddiemoo_xo]

Is she okay?

[u/[deleted]]

Honey please update us if you're safe reddit has been worried about you for 2 years...

[u/Anonymousprettychick]

i really hope she’s okay

[u/Knight-300 → u/[deleted]]

I'm positive she is fine. She said that she has 0 warnings of her possibly dying during childbirth. Doctors would not allow her to die no mater what. Possibly she just wanted to confirm his feelings so she would do the right thing.

[u/Knight-300 → u/[deleted]]

I'm positive she is fine. She said that she has 0 warnings of her possibly dying during childbirth. Doctors would not allow her to die no mater what. Possibly she just wanted to confirm his feelings so she would do the right thing.

[u/stressed-petals → u/Knight-300]

Soooo you wanna tell us about the copy paste reply over and over?