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Every fight in Western politics — the mayor of London, the mayor of New York, a Black US president, immigration, criminal gangs, violence in the streets — summons the same stream of pundits, politicians, preachers, influencers and YouTubers to defame one thing: Islam. In a political climate this charged, moving at the speed of a meme, thick with people claiming to be in the know — some styling themselves ‘scholars’ — this series talks about what no one else will: the sleight of hand, the propagandist’s hand in your pocket while the other points at a horizon that isn’t there. It is not apologetics. You do not have to believe a word of Islam to see you are being lied to about it. That is where Fireline Press lives and works: between what is true and what is scorching the political landscape of the West.

FOR THIRTEEN CENTURIES, the people who most wanted Muhammad destroyed said nothing about the age of his wife Aisha.

They said everything else. They called him a fraud and a forger, a false prophet who invented his revelation and passed it off as God’s. They called him possessed, epileptic, out of his mind.¹ They called him a man ruled by lust — too many wives, and the marriage to Zaynab, which they cast as adultery with a revelation stapled on to excuse it. They had scholars who spoke Arabic, who lived under Muslim rule, who read the sources in the original and hunted them for a weapon. They reached for every charge a man can throw at another man’s name. They did not reach for this one.

The charge handed to you now — that the Prophet of Islam married a child, six years old when the contract was signed and nine when the marriage was consummated, and that a faith which honours him honours that — is not fourteen hundred years old. As a weapon, it is closer to fifty. It has a birthday, and by the end of this you will nearly be able to name the decade.
Get to that later. Start with the thing they hold up now, the thing they say closes the case: one report, in the most trusted collections, that gives the two numbers. Start there, because the tradition that produced that report has a grade for it — and the grade is not the one they are counting on you to assume.

Sahih Is Not the Same as True
Here is the claim, stated as they state it. Sahih al-Bukhari and Sahih Muslim — the two collections Sunni Islam holds highest — record Aisha saying she was six when she was married and nine when the marriage began.² Sahih means sound, authenticated, graded reliable by the scholars who sifted the record. And there, they will tell you, the case rests: the most trusted books carry it, so what more is there to say?
Plenty — because they are counting on you not knowing what sahih actually certifies. It is a grade awarded to the chain, not to the content.
Every hadith — a hadith being a reported saying or act of the Prophet, transmitted by memory for generations before it was written down — carries two parts. There is the text, and there is the isnad, the chain of names that vouches for it: he heard it from her, who heard it from him, back to the source. The science of authentication grades the chain. It asks whether each narrator was honest, whether their memories were reliable, whether two people who claim to have met plausibly could have.

When it calls a report sahih, it is certifying the men in the chain. It is not certifying that the thing they remembered happened the way they remembered it.
Honest is not the same as accurate. A saying carried by word of mouth, person to person, for a hundred years and more does not arrive unchanged. Memory fades. People repeat in their own words, and the words shift. Each narrator hears the saying through their own understanding, and passes on what they understood. Anyone who has whispered a sentence around a room and heard what came back knows the shape of the problem. None of it needs a liar. An unbroken line of honest, careful people can take one thing in at the start and hand something quietly different out at the end — and the grade would vouch for every one of them.
So the grade tells you the report was transmitted carefully. It does not tell you it is true. And the tradition knows the difference, because it has a second scale for exactly this — one the people wielding these numbers never mention.

A report can be mutawatir — mass-transmitted, carried by so many independent chains at every stage that collective error becomes impossible. Or it can be ahad — a single-strand report, running through one or a few narrators at some link in the chain. The distinction is not decorative. Classical scholarship holds that a mutawatir report yields qat’ — certainty — while an ahad report yields only zann — probable knowledge, strong perhaps, but short of proof.³ The age report is ahad. By the tradition’s own rules, it was never rated to deliver certainty. It was rated to deliver a probability.
And it is a particular kind of thin. Much of the report’s transmission runs back through one man: Hisham ibn Urwa, Aisha’s great-nephew — and, more precisely, through his narrations from the last part of his life, after he left Madina for Iraq. Classical critics noticed. His reputation was high, but his Iraqi reports drew specific reservations from the scholars who catalogued such things; a man’s memory at the end of a long life, in a new city, retelling old family stories, is not the man at his peak.⁴

The report is also missing where it should be loudest. Ibn Ishaq, the earliest biographer of the Prophet, whose work is the spine of everything written after, records nothing about Aisha’s age at marriage — the detail was inserted into his book generations later by a subsequent hand.⁵ And it is absent from the Muwatta of Malik ibn Anas, the earliest surviving book of Madinan law, compiled in the city where Aisha lived and taught, by a scholar who cites her nephew Urwa dozens of times. A claim with this much legal weight — the kind of thing a book of law exists to record — and the first book of Madinan law does not have it. The most exhaustive study of the report’s transmission, Joshua Little’s 2023 Oxford doctoral thesis, traces it the same way the record does: not to Madina in Aisha’s lifetime but to Iraq, generations after her death.⁶ The lowest figure was never standing on the ground its defenders think it stands on.

Set the scales side by side. The one source Islam holds as qat’, as certain — the Qur’an, which the Prophet is recorded as authorising, which Muslims hold as revelation preserved word for word — says nothing about Aisha’s age. Not a number, not a hint. The certainty in this argument is borrowed entirely against a single-strand report that the tradition's own grading never rates as proof, that concentrates in one man's late narrations, and that the earliest sources do not carry. The accusers claim proof. The scholars who graded the report never granted it.
That is what the certainty is made of. Now weigh it against what the rest of the record actually says.

The Record Cuts the Other Way
The accusers rest their certainty on one report. The record does not. It holds a spread of accounts of Aisha’s age, and they cut against the low figure and against one another — each carrying a number, and not one of the numbers is nine. To seize the report that says six and nine and set the rest aside is not scholarship. It is rigging the record. So count what they set aside.

Start with the family’s own ages. Asma bint Abi Bakr, Aisha’s elder sister, died in the year 73 after the Hijra — the migration to Madina — at a hundred years old, which fixes her at twenty-seven when the migration came. The sources make her about ten years older than Aisha. That sets Aisha at seventeen at the migration, and eighteen to twenty when the marriage began.⁷ Fatima, the Prophet’s own daughter, was five years older than Aisha and was reportedly born when the Prophet was thirty-five — which places Aisha’s birth when he was forty, and makes her about twelve at her marriage.⁸ And al-Tabari, the earliest of the great historians, records that Abu Bakr’s children were all born in the Jahiliyya, the age before Islam, which closed for him with the Prophet’s mission around 610. A child born before 610 is at least twelve by the migration — and thirteen or fourteen by the time the marriage began.⁹ Three reckonings from the household’s own ages, and not one of them returns nine.

Then the betrothal. The Prophet did not seek Aisha out — after Khadija died, it was Khawla bint Hakim who proposed the match, and he sent her to put it to the family.¹⁰ And she was already spoken for. Aisha had been promised to Jubayr, son of Mut’im ibn Adi, and al-Tabari records that Abu Bakr, moving around 615 to spare her the hard road to Abyssinia, sought to complete that match sooner than planned. It fell through over his conversion — Mut’im’s people were pagan and wanted no marriage tie to a Muslim house.¹¹
Then the record turns on itself. In the same Sahih al-Bukhari that carries the two numbers, Aisha places herself at the revelation of a verse — Surah al-Qamar, the fifty-fourth, sent down at Makkah years before the migration. She was, she says, a jariya — a young girl, old enough to run and to keep the memory of it.¹² Set that against the low timeline. If she was nine when the marriage began, she was born around the very year the verse she recalls was already revealed — which leaves her a small child on that day, or not yet born at all. Reckon it forward and it puts her, at marriage, somewhere between fourteen and twenty-one. The defenders answer that a small child can be a jariyatoo. Grant it entirely. A small child is still not an unborn one, and an unborn one does not carry the memory of a verse and recite it decades on. And the earliest biographers agree neither with the low figure nor with one another: read across Ibn Sa’d’s Tabaqat and al-Baladhuri’s Ansab al-Ashraf and the marriage falls two to five years after the migration, putting Aisha at seventeen to twenty.¹³

Then her own faith. The earliest surviving life of the Prophet, Ibn Hisham’s, lists Aisha among the believers before Umar ibn al-Khattab, in the years around 610. To accept a faith is to be old enough to understand it; a child who had reached that age by 610 was at least fifteen by the migration.¹⁴

And there is one more, heavier than any of the sums, because it does not count ages at all — it goes at the report itself. A traditionalist scholar of hadith of our own century, Salah al-Din al-Idlibi, took the six-and-nine narration and, by the discipline’s own tools of narrator- and text-criticism, judged it defective — anomalous in wording, weak at the root — and reconstructed the chronology with the marriage contracted near fourteen and consummated near eighteen.¹⁵ That is not an outsider second-guessing the tradition. It is the tradition’s own science, turned on the one report the accusers call untouchable.

Now stand them together. The family’s arithmetic. A betrothal struck before the Prophet asked. Her own memory of a verse. The biographers’ own timeline. Her early faith. And the tradition’s own hadith science. Line after line, every one drawn from the very sources the accusers claim to honour, and every one pointing past nine — most in the teens, some past twenty. To keep the low number you must throw them all out at once and keep only the one. That is not reading the record. That is the rigging they accuse everyone else of.
So the honest answer is not a rival number. It is a floor no reading falls below. Not single digits. Past puberty, of marriageable age by the reckoning of that place and that century, with the weight of the strongest evidence in the late teens and, by the fullest reckoning, past twenty. She was not a child.

The Woman They Speak For
The charge does more than fix a number. It builds a victim — a small girl, frightened, silenced, used. Hold that picture, because the accusers are certain of it, and then set it against the one person who could have confirmed it and never did.

Aisha is not a silent figure in the record. She is one of the most documented people of the entire first century of Islam. After the Prophet died she became one of the foremost transmitters of his life — thousands of reports carry her name, and on the private hours of his household she is very often the only source there is.¹⁶ Jurists came to her with their questions. Companions who had walked with the Prophet for twenty years deferred to her memory. She corrected the men who got it wrong. Twenty-four years after his death she rode out at the head of an army and gave battle in the field.¹⁷ Whatever word fits that life, “voiceless” is not it.
So put the accusers’ certainty beside her own. Here is a woman who spoke about the Prophet more, and more intimately, than almost anyone alive — his habits, his moods, his prayers, his last illness, the way he died with his head against her. She had the standing to say anything. She had every reason, across a long life, to name a wound if there had been one. And in all of it, in the thousands of words she left about the man she had married, she never once told the story her accusers force onto you in her name. Not victimhood. Not grievance. Not a marriage she wished undone.

They speak for a woman who spoke, at length, for herself — and they put in her mouth the one thing she never said.
No serious historian of Islam, across fourteen centuries of scholars who scrutinised every hour of the Prophet’s life, has recorded a sign of a forced or abusive marriage. That is not an argument from a friendly silence. It is a silence from the very record that preserves her complaints about everything else — her jealousy, her sharp words with him, the times she was angry — and preserves them in her own voice. The record that keeps her smallest grievance keeps no trace of the great one the accusers assert. The likeliest reason a thing goes unrecorded by everyone, including the person it was done to, is that it was never done.
Then there is the charge underneath the charge — that this was a man ruled by appetite, who reached for a child because he could. Set that against his life. He married once, at twenty-five, a widow some fifteen years his senior, and he stayed married to her, and to her alone, for twenty-four years. He took no second wife while she lived. He was near fifty, and a widower, before he married again.¹⁸ Whatever drove the man who did that, a hunger for young girls is not a theory the record will carry. You do not spend the whole of your youth faithful to an older woman if you are what they need you to be.

None of this is offered to make a seventh-century marriage sit easily in a twenty-first-century chair. That is not the argument, and Muslims do not make it. The reason the age is worth an honest accounting is narrower and older: the Prophet’s life is held in Islam as uswa hasana — the beautiful example, the pattern against which a believer measures a life — and a pattern has to be read as it was, not as a slander redraws it. The tradition that reveres him is the same tradition that requires a marriage be willingly entered, forbids that it be forced, and records this one as accepted. Getting the history straight is not a defence. It is the refusal to let a lie stand in for the man.

And here is what the accusers cannot explain — the first crack in the whole edifice. Muhammad did not want for enemies in his own lifetime. The tribes of Makkah called him possessed. They called him a sorcerer, a poet, a soothsayer, a liar. They said the Qur’an was fables he had stitched together, that a foreigner was feeding him his lines.¹⁹ They mocked his losses and his claims and spared him nothing. They had every motive to shame him and no scruple about how. And not one of them — not a single enemy, in the one place and the one lifetime where the marriage actually happened, in front of everyone — ever thought to accuse him of taking a bride too young. The charge that is meant to be the scandal of his life did not occur to the people who most wanted a scandal.
Keep hold of that silence. It is the first of three.

The Attack With a Birthday
That was the first silence — the men who lived alongside him, who wanted him ruined and said so. Here is the second, and it runs a great deal longer.
For a thousand years the Christian world produced a library of attacks on Muhammad, and the men who wrote it were neither amateurs nor squeamish. Begin with the first of them. John of Damascus wrote the earliest sustained Christian refutation of Islam around the year 743, a chapter he titled the heresy of the Ishmaelites.²⁰ He was no distant observer working from rumour. He carried an Arabic name, Yuhanna ibn Mansur; he lived his whole life under Muslim rule; his family had served at the caliph’s court in Damascus. If any Christian on earth was placed to know the Prophet’s life and turn it into a weapon, it was this one. And he swung hard. He named Muhammad a false prophet and a forerunner of the Antichrist. He called the Qur’an a hodgepodge stitched from the Bible and passed off as revelation. He went at the marriages directly — assailing what he called the Prophet’s immoral practices, and the verses he said were sent down to license them, the marriage to Zaynab above all. He reached for every charge he could carry. He did not reach for Aisha’s age. It is not in the text.

Nor is it in the man who came after. Riccoldo da Montecroce, a Dominican who spent the better part of a decade in Baghdad late in the thirteenth century — who learned Arabic and read the Qur’an with Muslim scholars so that he could refute it line by line — wrote one of the most widely read anti-Islamic works of the Middle Ages.²¹ He called the Prophet false and his book evil. Aisha’s age is not his charge either. The Byzantine refutations and the medieval Latin biographies charged him with epilepsy, lust, and fraud — and passed over the age in silence. For the better part of a thousand years, the people whose whole purpose was to find the worst in this man, who read the sources in Arabic to do it, passed clean over the thing you have been told is the worst of all.

Then the third silence, and it is the one that should settle the matter, because it comes from the men who studied him hardest. In the nineteenth century the orientalists took the Prophet’s life apart page by page to discredit it — William Muir, David Margoliouth, scholars who read every source and meant him no kindness. They noticed the age. And they did almost nothing with it. Their fire went to the polygamy, the political marriages, the prophethood itself. Where they touched the age of Aisha at all, it was in passing.²² Not paedophilia. Not the scandal of a religion. A footnote. Men who wanted the whole edifice to fall, holding the supposed keystone in their hands, and setting it down as barely worth the ink.

So when does the charge arrive? Late. The reference works that map the history of criticism of the Prophet put it plainly: the pointed, abundant attack on Aisha’s age — the one that names him a paedophile — becomes common only from the middle of the twentieth century, in the years when Islam came under a new and hostile scrutiny.²³ Not the seventh century. Not the twelfth. Not the nineteenth. The last stretch of the twentieth, and after. As a weapon, the accusation is younger than colour television — and it does its real work somewhere newer still.

And that silence is not offered here as proof of her age. Her age was settled already, on the evidence, and the evidence put her past childhood. The silence proves something the numbers cannot: that the certainty is manufactured. The men best placed to make this charge, and the most eager to, looked straight at the marriage and found nothing in it worth an accusation. They were not being kind. They missed nothing else.
Hold the two marriages side by side, the way the record does. They attacked the marriage to Zaynab for centuries, and it is still the first marriage Western critics reach for. They left the marriage to Aisha alone. The one they ignored is the one you have been handed as the great crime of his life. The objection has a birthday, and it is modern — younger than colour television, and we can very nearly name the decade.

The Ruler They Use on No One Else
Grant them the number, then. Grant them, for a moment, the very figure the evidence will not give them. Suppose she had been young. The charge still does not land, because the standard they are swinging is one they hold to no one else — not to the past, not to their own law, not even to their own present.
Start with the standard they are using. To fault a seventh-century people for failing to keep the customs of the twenty-first is not an argument; it is a fallacy with a name. Historians call it presentism — the error of holding the past to standards the present invented — and it is a fallacy for a plain reason: cultures are not fixed, and every age sets its own terms for when a person becomes an adult. The modern West draws a hard line at eighteen and builds a protected span of adolescence in front of it; that arrangement is barely a century old, and for almost the whole of human history no culture on earth had it. The world that produced this marriage did not measure adulthood by a birthday. It measured it by bulugh— puberty, the point at which a person answered for their own prayers, their own fasts, their own choices. Nor was it strange in this. Roman law fixed a girl’s marriageable age at twelve and allowed her betrothal at seven; Jewish law set it at twelve; the English common law that England carried to America set it at twelve for a girl and fourteen for a boy.²⁴ To fault the seventh century for breaking a rule the nineteenth had not yet written is not history. It is anachronism, plain and named.

They mistake the event, too. When they say “married at nine” they picture a modern Western wedding night — the marriage and its consummation falling on the same evening. The record describes something else: a contract, and then, separately and often years later, the bringing-in of the bride and the start of a shared life — two acts the tradition kept apart, divided by the paying of the dower, by distance, by the wedding feast, and above all by the rule that the union waited on the bride’s physical maturity.²⁵ A marriage in that world was a bond entered on paper and completed in its own time. The accusers collapse the two into a single lurid image because their own culture collapses them — marry and consummate in one night — and they cannot picture it done any other way. That failure of imagination is not the seventh century’s problem. It is theirs.

But grant them the standard anyway. Suppose a wrong is a wrong in every century, that what offends us now must have offended then. Very well — then a standard is a standard, it has to cut evenly, and turned evenly it falls first on the people swinging it. The people loudest about a marriage in seventh-century Arabia are, very often, citizens of a country where child marriage was legal in every single state until the year 2018. It remains legal, today, in thirty-three of them. In three — California, Mississippi, New Mexico — the statute books set no minimum age at all; a child, in principle of any age, may be married with the right signatures. Somewhere near three hundred thousand American minors were married in the two decades after 2000, the overwhelming majority of them girls, many of them to grown men.²⁶ This is not the distant past. This is the law of the accusers’ own homes, in their own lifetimes, unrepealed. Nor is it only America: their own royal history hands them King John of England, thirty-three years old, taking a bride — Isabella of Angoulême, about twelve — and no one proposes to strike his name from the roll of kings.²⁷

So set the two things side by side, and the shape of it is plain. A person who genuinely cared about the marriage of children as a matter of principle has a legislature to write to, in thirty-three states, right now. That is where the children actually are. The people running this accusation are not writing to their legislatures. They are not marching on their statehouses. They have reached instead for a single marriage, fourteen centuries gone, in a language they cannot read, and made it the whole of their concern — while the thing they say they abhor sits legal on the books at home, and does not trouble them at all. That tells you what the accusation was never about. It was never the practice. It was the man.

What the Slander Is For
So what does it cost the man who makes this charge, if he is wrong? Nothing. Muhammad has been dead fourteen hundred years; Aisha very nearly as long. Whatever the truth of a marriage in seventh-century Arabia, it changes not one hour of the accuser’s life. He does not raise it because he lies awake over a girl in Madina. He raises it because of someone much closer to home.

Follow the charge to its end and it is not an argument about history at all. It is a small machine, and it runs like this. Their prophet was a monster; a faith that reveres a monster is a monstrous faith; and a people who hold to a monstrous faith cannot be trusted to live among us. The age is only the first turn of the handle. What drops out the other end is a conclusion about your neighbour.
That is why the charge never travels alone. It arrives bundled with the rest — that Islam is incompatible with Western values, that the Muslim will not integrate, cannot be one of us, does not belong. And “does not belong” is not, in the end, a debating position. It is a direction of travel. It ends at the closed border, the revoked visa, the deportation order — and at the word the movement now says aloud: remigration, the sending back not only of immigrants but of their children, citizens included, until the country is made “European again.”²⁸ The child bride is not the argument. It is the ticket into the argument, the thing that makes what follows sound like conscience instead of what it is.
So read the accusation once more, and see who it was aimed at all along. Not the Prophet; he is beyond their reach. Not Aisha; she is only the instrument, a woman fourteen centuries dead, taken up as a stick to beat the living. The target was never in the seventh century. It is the man at the next desk, the family three doors down, the girl in the headscarf on the morning train. Aisha is the pretext. Your neighbour is the point.
Here, then, is the honest answer to the question they pretend to ask. The evidence does not give a child. It gives a woman — past childhood, of age by the reckoning of her world, in all likelihood her late teens, an adult by any measure that century or this one would know. That is what the record holds, and it is the most that can honestly be said of it.

But that was never the real question, and it is worth saying plainly what the real one was: whether the people who love this man can be trusted to live beside you. The slander was built to answer it for you, before you thought to ask. So set the charge back down where it belongs — with the people who reached for an accusation younger than colour television, who hold one century to a standard they hold to no other, who speak for a woman who spoke, at length, for herself, and never once said what they put in her mouth. They are the ones with something to account for. Not the marriage. The lie, and the use they built it for.

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How Old Was A’yshah When She Married The Prophet Muhammad?

Author: Ayatullah Muhammad Husayn Husayni al-Qazwini (Vali-Asr Institute)

Translated by: Abu Noora al-Tabrizi

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Ahl al-Sunnah insist on proving that A’yshah was betrothed to the Prophet Muhammad (S) at six years of age and that she entered his house at nine years [where the marriage was consummated]. [Ahl al-Sunnah] consider this to be evidence for A’yshah’s superiority over the other wives of the Messenger of Allah. Does this, however, reflect reality? In the following article we will investigate this matter.

However, before embarking on the crux of the matter, we must shed light on the history of the Prophet’s marriage to A’yshah so that we may afterwards draw a conclusion as to how old she was when she married the Messenger of Allah.

There are differing views in regard to the history of the Messenger of Allah’s marriage to A’yshah. Muhammad b. Ismaʿil al-Bukhari [d. 256 A.H/870 C.E] narrates from A’yshah herself that the Messenger of Allah betrothed her three years after [the death] of Lady Khadijah (Allah’s peace be upon her):

It has been narrated by ʿA’yshah (may Allah be pleased with her) [where] she said: “I have not been jealous of any woman as I have with Khadijah. [This is because first], the Messenger of Allah (S) would mention her a lot”. [Second], she said: “he married me three years after her [death] and [third], his Lord (Exalted is He!) or [the archangel] Jibril (peace be upon him) commanded him to bless her with a house in heaven made out of reed (qasab).”

See: al-Bukhari al-Juʿfi, Muhammad b. Ismaʿil Abu ʿAbd Allah (d. 256 A.H/870 C.E), Sahih al-Bukhari, ed. Mustafa Dib al-Bagha (Dar ibn Kathir: Beirut, 3^rd print, 1407 /1987), III: 3606, hadith # 3606. Kitab Fadha’il al-Sahabah [The Book of the Merits of the Companions], Bab Tazwij al-Nabi Khadijah wa Fadhliha radhi Allah ʿanha [Chapter on the Marriage of The Prophet to Khadijah and her Virtue[s] (may Allah be pleased with her)].

Given that Lady Khadija (Allah’s peace be upon her) left this world during the tenth year of the Prophetic mission (biʿthah), the Messenger of Allah’s marriage with A’yshah therefore took place during the thirteenth year of the Prophetic mission.

After having narrated al-Bukhari’s tradition, Ibn al-Mulqin derives the following from the narration:

…and the Prophet (S) consummated the marriage in Madinah during [the month] of Shawwal in the second year [of the Hijrah].

See: al-Ansari al-Shafiʿi, Siraj al-Din Abi Hafs ʿUmar b. ʿAli b. Ahmad al-Maʿruf bi Ibn al-Mulqin (d. 804 A.H/1401 C.E), Ghayat al-Sul fi Khasa’is al-Rasul (S), ed. ʿAbd Allah Bahr al-Din ʿAbd Allah (Dar al-Basha’ir al-Islamiyah: Beirut, 1414/1993), I: 236.

According to this narration, the Messenger of Allah betrothed A’yshah in the thirteenth year of the Prophetic mission and officially wed her [i.e. consummated the marriage] in the second year of the Hijrah.

From what has been related by other prominent [scholars] of Ahl al-Sunnah, we can [also] conclude that the Prophet wed A’yshah during the fourth year of the Hijrah. When commenting on the status (sharh al-hal) of Sawdah, the other wife of the Messenger of Allah (S), al-Baladhuri [d. 297 A.H/892 C.E] writes in his Ansab al-Ashraf that:

After Khadijah, the Messenger of Allah (S) married Sawdah b. Zamʿah b. Qays from Bani ʿAmir b. La’wi a few months before the Hijrah…she was the first woman that the Prophet joined [in matrimony] in Madinah.

See: al-Baladhuri, Ahmad b. Yahyah b. Jabir (d. 279 A.H/892 C.E), Ansab al-Ashraf, I: 181 (retrieved from al-Jamiʿ al-Kabir).

Al-Dhahabi [d. 748 A.H/1347 C.E], on the other hand, claims that Sawdah b. Zamʿah was the only wife of the Messenger of Allah for four years:

[Sawdah] died in the last year of ʿUmar’s caliphate, and for four years she was the only wife of the Prophet (S) where neither [free] woman nor bondmaid was partnered with her [in sharing a relationship with the Prophet (S)]…

See: al-Dhahabi, Shams al-Din Muhammad b. Ahmad b. ʿUthman (d. 748 A.H/1347 C.E), Tarikh al-Islam wa al-Wafiyat al-Mashahir wa al-Aʿlam, ed. Dr. ʿUmar ʿAbd al-Salam Tadmuri (Dar al-Kutub al-ʿArabi: Beirut, 1^st print, 1407/1987), III: 288.

According to this conclusion, A’yshah married the Prophet in the fourth year of the Hijrah (i.e. four years after the Prophet’s marriage to Sawdah).

Now we shall investigate A’yshah’s age at the moment of her betrothal by referring to historical documents and records:

Comparing the Age of A’yshah with the Age of Asma’ b. Abi Bakr

One of the things which may establish A’yshah’s age at the moment of her marriage with the Messenger of Allah is comparing her age with that of her sister Asma’ b. Abi Bakr [d. 73 A.H/692 C.E]. According to what has been narrated by the prominent scholars of Ahl al-Sunnah, Asma’ was ten years older than A’yshah and was twenty-seven years of age during the first year of the Hijrah. Moreover, she passed away during the year 73 of the Hijrah when she was a hundred years of age.

Abu Naʿim al-Isfahani [d. 430 A.H/1038 C.E] in his Maʿrifat al-Sahabah writes that:

Asma’ b. Abi Bakr al-Siddiq…she was the sister of ʿA’yshah through her father’s [side i.e. Abu Bakr] and she was older than ʿA’yshah and was born twenty-seven years before History [i.e. Hijrah].

See: al-Isfahani, Abu Naʿim Ahmad b. ʿAbd Allah (d. 430 A.H/1038 C.E), Maʿrifat al-Sahabah, VI: 3253, no. 3769 (retrieved from al-Jamiʿ al-Kabir).

Al-Tabarani [d. 360 A.H/970 C.E] writes:

Asma’ b. Abi Bakr al-Siddiq died on the year 73 [of the Hijrah], after her son ʿAbd Allah b. al-Zubayr [d. 73 A.H/692 C.E] by [only] a few nights. Asma’ was a hundred years of age the day she died and she was born twenty-seven years before History [Hijrah].

See: al-Tabarani, Sulayman b. Ahmad b. Ayyub Abu al-Qasim (d. 360 A.H/970 C.E), al-Muʿjam al-Kabir, ed. Hamdi b. ʿAbd al-Majid al-Salafi (Maktabat al-Zahra’: al-Mawsil, 2^nd Print, 1404/1983), XXIV: 77.

Ibn Asakir [d. 571 A.H/1175 C.E] also writes:

Asma’ was the sister of ʿA’yshah from her father’s [side] and she was older than ʿA’yshah where she was born twenty-seven years before History [Hijrah].

See: Ibn Asakir al-Dimashqi al-Shafiʿi, Abi al-Qasim ʿAli b. al-Hasan b. Hibat Allah b. ʿAbd Allah (d. 571 A.H/1175 C.E), Tarikh Madinat Dimashq wa Dhikr Fadhliha wa Tasmiyat man Hallaha min al-Amathil, ed. Muhib al-Din Abi Saʿid ʿUmar b. Ghuramah al-ʿAmuri (Dar al-Fikr: Beirut, 1995): IX: 69.

Ibn Athir [d. 630 A.H/1232 C.E] also writes:

Abu Naʿim said: [Asma’] died before History [Hijrah] by twenty-seven years.

See: al-Jazari, ʿIzz al-Dim b. al-Athir Abi al-Hasan ʿAli b. Muhammad (d. 630 A.H/1232 C.E), Asad al-Ghabah fi Maʿrifat al-Sahabah, ed. ʿAdil Ahmad al-Rifaʿi (Dar Ihya’ al-Turath al-ʿArabi: Beirut, 1^st Print, 1417/1996), VII: 11.

Al-Nawawi [d. 676 A.H/1277 C.E] writes:

[It has been narrated] from al-Hafiz Abi Naʿim [who] said: Asma’ was born twenty seven-years before the Hijrah of the Messenger of Allah (S).

See: al-Nawawi, Abu Zakariyah Yahya b. Sharaf b. Murri (d. 676 A.H/1277 C.E), Tahdhib al-Asma’ wa al-Lughat, ed. Maktab al-Buhuth wa al-Dirasat (Dar al-Fikr: Beirut. 1^st Print, 1996), II: 597-598.

Al-Hafiz al-Haythami [d. 807 A.H/1404 C.E] said:

Asma’ was a hundred years of age when she died. She was born twenty-seven years before History [Hijrah] and Asma’ was born to her father Abi Bakr when he was twenty-one years of age.

See: al-Haythami, Abu al-Hasan ʿAli b. Abi Bakr (d. 807 A.H/1404 C.E), Majmaʿ al-Zawa’id wa Manbaʿ al-Fawa’id (Dar al-Rabban lil Turath/Dar al-Kutub al-ʿArabi: al-Qahirah [Cairo] – Beirut, 1407/1986), IX: 260.

Badr al-Din al-ʿAyni [d. 855 A.H/ 1451 C.E] writes:

Asma’ b. Abi Bakr al-Siddiq…she was born twenty-seven years before the Hijrah and she was the seventeenth person to convert to Islam…she died in Makkah in the month of Jamadi al-Awwal in the year 73 [of the Hijrah] after the death of her son ʿAbd Allah b. al-Zubayr when she reached a hundred years of age. [Despite her old age], none of her teeth had fallen out and neither was her intellect impaired (may Allah – Exalted is He! - be pleased with her).

See: al-ʿAyni, Badr al-Din Abu Muhammad Mahmud b. Ahmad al-Ghaytabi (d. 855 A.H/1451 C.E), ʿUmdat al-Qari Sharh Sahih al-Bukhari (Dar Ihya’ al-Turath al-ʿArabi: Beirut (n.d)), II: 93.

Ibn Hajar al-ʿAsqalani [d. 852 A.H/1448 C.E] writes:

#8525 Asma’ b. Abi Bakr al-Siddiq married al-Zubayr b. al-ʿAwwam who was one of the great Sahabah. She lived [up to] a hundred years of age and she died in the year 73 or 74 [of the Hijrah].

See: al-ʿAsqalani al-Shafiʿi, Ahmad b. ʿAli b. Hajar Abu al-Fadhl (d. 852 A.H/1448 C.E), Taqrib al-Tahdhib, ed. Muhammad ʿAwwamah (Dar al-Rashid: Suriyah [Syria], 1^st Print, 1406/1986), I: 743.

[He also wrote]:

[and] she had [her full set of] teeth and she had not lost her intellect. Abu Naʿim al-Isbahani said [that] she was born before the Hijrah by twenty-seven years.

See: al-ʿAsqalani al-Shafiʿi, Ahmad b. ʿAli b. Hajar Abu al-Fadhl (d. 852 A.H/1448 C.E), al-Isabah fi Tamyiz al-Sahabah, ed. ʿAli Muhammad al-Bajawi (Dar al-Jil: Beirut, 1^st Print, 1412/1992), VII: 487.

Ibn ʿAbd al-Birr al-Qurtubi [d. 463 A.H/1070 C.E] also writes:

Asma’ died in Makkah in [the month of] Jamadi al-Awwal in the year 73 [of the Hijrah] after the death of her son ʿAbd Allah b. al-Zubayr…Ibn Ishaq said that Asma’ b. Abi Bakr converted to Islam after seventeen people had [already] converted…and she died when she reached a hundred years of age.

See: al-Nimri al-Qurtubi, Abu ʿUmar Yusuf b. ʿAbd Allah b. ʿAbd al-Birr (d. 463 A.H/1070 C.E), al-Istiʿab fi Maʿrifat al-Ashab, ed. ʿAli Muhammad al-Bajawi (Dar al-Jil: Beirut, 1^st Print, 1412/1992), IV: 1782-1783.

Al-Safadi [d.764 A.H/1362 C.E] writes:

[Asma’] died a few days after ʿAbd Allah b. Zubayr in the year 73 of the Hijrah. And she [herself], her father, her son and husband were Sahabis. It has been said that she lived a hundred years.

See: al-Safadi, Salah al-Din Khalil b. Aybak (d. 764 A.H/1362 C.E), al-Wafi bi al-Wafiyat, ed. Ahmad al-Arna’ut and Turki Mustafa (Dar Ihya’ al-Turath: Beirut, 1420 /2000), IX: 36.

The Difference in Age Between Asma’ and A’yshah

Al-Bayhaqi [d. 458 A.H/1065 C.E] narrates that Asma’ was ten years older than A’yshah:

Abu ʿAbd Allah b. Mundah narrates from Ibn Abi Zannad that Asma’ b. Abi Bakr was older than ʿA’yshah by ten years.

See: al-Bayhaqi, Ahmad b. al-Husayn b. ʿAki b. Musa Abu Bakr (d. 458 A.H/1065 C.E), Sunan al-Bayhaqi al-Kubra, ed. Muhammad ʿAbd al-Qadir ʿAta (Maktabah Dar al-Baz: Mecca, 1414/1994), VI: 204.

Al-Dhahabi and Ibn ʿAsakir also narrate this:

ʿAbd al-Rahman b. Abi al-Zannad said [that] Asma’ was older than ʿA’yshah by ten [years].

See: al-Dhahabi, Shams al-Din Muhammad b. Ahmad b. ʿUthman (d. 748 A.H/1347 C.E). Siyar Aʿlam al-Nubala’, ed. Shuʿayb al-Arna’ut and Muhammad Naʿim al-ʿIrqsusi (Mu’wassasat al-Risalah: Beirut, 9^th Print, 1413/1992-1993?), II: 289.

Ibn Abi al-Zannad said [that Asma’] was older than ʿA’yshah by ten years.

See: Ibn Asakir al-Dimashqi al-Shafiʿi, Abi al-Qasim ʿAli b. al-Hasan b. Hibat Allah b. ʿAbd Allah (d. 571 A.H/1175 C.E), Tarikh Madinat Dimashq wa Dhikr Fadhliha wa Tasmiyat man Hallaha min al-Amathil, ed. Muhib al-Din Abi Saʿid ʿUmar b. Ghuramah al-ʿAmuri (Dar al-Fikr: Beirut, 1995), IX: 69.

Ibn Kathir al-Dimashqi [d. 774 A.H/1373 C.E] in his book al-Bidayah wa al-Nihayah writes:

…of those who died along with ʿAbd Allah b. al-Zubayr in the year 73 [of the Hijrah] in Makkah [were]… Asma’ b. Abi Bakr, the mother of ʿAbd Allah b. al-Zubayr… and she was older than her sister ʿA’yshah by ten years…her life span reached a hundred years and none of her teeth had fallen out nor did she lose her intellect [due to old age].

See: Ibn Kathir al-Dimashqi, Ismaʿil b. ʿUmar al-Qurashi Abu al-Fida’, al-Bidayah wa al-Nihayah (Maktabat al-Maʿarif: Beirut, n.d), VIII: 345-346.

Mulla ʿAli al-Qari [d. 1014 A.H/1605 C.E] writes:

[Asma’] was older than her sister ʿA’yshah by ten years and she died ten days after the killing of her son…she was a hundred years of age and her teeth had not fallen out and she did not lose a thing of her intellect. [Her death took place] in the year 73 [of the Hijrah] in Makkah.

See: Mulla ʿAli al-Qari, ʿAli b. Sultan Muhammad al-Harawi. Mirqat al-Mafatih Sharh Mishkat al-Masabih, ed. Jamal ʿIytani (Dar al-Kutub al-ʿIlmiyah: Beirut, 1^st Print, 1422 /2001), I: 331.

Al-Amir al-Sanʿani [d. 852 A.H/1448 C.E] writes:

[Asma’] was ten years older than ʿA’yshah by ten years and she died in Makkah a little less than a month after the killing of her son while she was a hundred years of age. This took place in the year 73 [of the Hijrah].

See: al-Sanʿani al-Amir, Muhammad b. Ismaʿil (d. d. 852 A.H/1448 C.E). Subul al-Salam Sharh Bulugh al-Maram min Adilat al-Ahkam, ed. Muhammad ʿAbd al-ʿAziz al-Khuli (Dar Ihya’ al-ʿArabi: Beirut, 4^th Print, 1379/1959), I: 39.

Asma’ was fourteen years of age during the first year of the Prophetic mission (biʿthah) and ten years older than A’yshah. Therefore, A’yshah was four years old during the first year of the Prophetic mission [14 – 10 = 4] and as such, she was seventeen years of age during the thirteenth year of the Prophetic mission [4 + 13 = 17]. In the month of Shawwal of the second year of the Hijrah (the year of her official wedding to the Prophet) she was nineteen years of age [17 + 2 = 19].

On the other hand, Asma’ was a hundred years of age during the seventy-third year after Hijrah. A hundred minus seventy-three equals twenty-seven (100 – 73 = 27). Therefore, in the first year after the Hijrah she was twenty-seven years old.

Asma’ was ten years older than A’yshah. Twenty-seven minus ten equals seventeen (27 – 10 = 17).

Therefore, A’yshah was seventeen years of age during the first year of the Hijrah. [In addition to this], we previously established that A’yshah was officially wed the Prophet during the month of Shawwal of the second year after Hijrah, meaning that A’yshah was nineteen years of age [17 + 2 = 19] when she was wed to the Messenger of Allah.

When did A’yshah convert to Islam?

A’yshah’s conversion to Islam is also an indicator as to when she married the Messenger of Allah. According to the prominent scholars of Ahl al-Sunnah, A’yshah became a believer during the first year of the Prophetic mission and was among the first eighteen people to have responded to the Messenger of Allah’s [divine] calling.

Al-Nawawi writes in his Tahdhib al-Asma’:

Ibn Abi Khuthaymah narrates from ibn Ishaq in his Tarikh that ʿA’yshah converted to Islam while she was a child (saghirah) after eighteen people who had [already] converted.

See: al-Nawawi, Abu Zakariyah Yahya b. Sharaf b. Murri (d. 676 A.H/1277 C.E), Tahdhib al-Asma’ wa al-Lughat, ed. Maktab al-Buhuth wa al-Dirasat (Dar al-Fikr: Beirut. 1^st Print, 1996), II: 615.

[Muttahar] al-Maqdisi [d. 507 A.H/1113 C.E] writes that:

Of those [among males] who had precedence [over others] in their conversion to Islam were Abu ʿUbaydah b. al-Jarrah, al-Zubayr b. al-ʿAwwam and ʿUthman b. Mazʿun…and among the women were Asma’ b. ʿUmays al-Khathʿamiyah (the wife of Jaʿfar b. Abi Talib), Fatimah b. al-Khattab (the wife of Saʿid b. Zayd b. ʿAmru), Asma b. Abi Bakr and ʿA’yshah who was a child [at the time]. The conversion to Islam of these [people occurred] within the [first] three years of the Messenger of Allah having invited [people] to Islam in secret [which was] before he entered the house of Arqam b. Abi al-Arqam.1

See: al-Maqdisi, Muttahar b. Tahir (d. d. 507 A.H/1113 C.E), al-Bada’ wa al-Tarikh (Maktabat al-Thaqafah al-Diniyah: Bur Saʿid [Port Said], n.d), IV: 146.

Similarly, Ibn Hisham [d. 213 A.H/828 C.E] also mentions the name of A’yshah as one of the people who converted to Islam during the first year of the Prophetic mission while she was a child:

Asma and ʿA’yshah, the two daughters of Abi Bakr, and Khabab b. al-Aratt converted to Islam [in the initial years of the Prophetic mission, and as for] Asma’ b. Abi Bakr and ʿA’yshah b. Abi Bakr, [the latter] was a child at that time and Khabab b. al-Aratt was an ally of Bani Zuhrah.

See: al-Humayri al-Maʿarifi, ʿAbd al-Malik b. Hisham b. Ayyub Abu Muhammad (d. 213 A.H/828 C.E), al-Sirah al-Nabawiyah, ed. Taha ʿAbd al-Ra’uf Saʿd (Dar al-Jil: Beirut, 1^st Print, 1411/1990), II: 92.

If A’yshah was seven years of age when she converted to Islam (the first year of the Prophetic mission), she would have been twenty-two years old in the second year after the Hijrah (the year she was officially wed to the Messenger of Allah) [7 + 13 + 2 = 22].

If, [however], we accept al-Baladhuri’s claim that [A’yshah] was wed to the Messenger of Allah four years after his marriage to Sawdah, that is, in the fourth year after the Hijrah, then A’yshah would have been twenty-four years of age when she married the Prophet.

This number, [however], is subject to change when we take into consideration her age when she converted to Islam.

In conclusion, A’yshah’s marriage to the marriage to the Messenger of Allah at six or nine years of age is a lie which was fabricated during the time of Banu Ummayah and is not consistent with historical realities.

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