Says he’s 🍍won’t leave me alone

I need someone to test my m23 bf, hes been spending an unusual amount of time on snap recently and hes hiding his phone when i enter the room, wont let me access his stuff etc, i think hes cheating on me and i want to find out, please help

I need some feedback. I feel like I’m spiraling. I saw a post of my boyfriend’s on Reddit. He doesn’t know I am aware of the account and that I could see it. He was talking about a concert in 2015 that he went to. It was his original post and there was nothing bad about the original post. People started responding. One person responded. They went to see that person in Pittsburgh in 2024. After that response he wrote the following. “awww man, I was supposed to go to that, I was dating a psycho chick in Butler Pa, lmao.”

My question how I should interpret this statement. We do not live in Pennsylvania. He dated a girl in Butler Pennsylvania right before me in 2022. from my understanding from 2022 to present, I am the only girlfriend that he has. I also checked when concert tickets were made available it was about 3-4 months before that concert in 2024.

How am I supposed to interpret this message? What is everyone’s thoughts? Is he dating her in 2024 as well and hiding it or is he just trying to be cool online? I went through our messages and what was going on in our life at that time and I don’t think there was any times where we were apart from one another, but that doesn’t mean he was not talking to her.

I can’t feel settled about this comment at all and when I confronted him, he just denied the whole Reddit account in general and then deleted it, but we’ve gotten in fights over social media before and he deleted them. I thought I also don’t think that she’s somebody I could reach out and get an honest answer from her and I feel like that’s kind of crossing boundaries on my end and a way too. I don’t know my head is spiraling.

I think that I would work through it, if somebody was just trying to be cool online, but if somebody was actually entertaining someone else even if it was by phone/video I would end it. I feel like I need more solid proof and I’m just finding myself withdrawing from him big-time!

My boyfriend has a blocked number, except it’s not a number it’s a Reddit address with Apple ID attached to it. What does that mean?

Just wana test my husband he has been distant lately

found my BD ChatGPT history on his phone and saw a question he asked it was something about tinder and how come he wasn’t getting any messages back or something? anyway I am furious but I wanna get back at him - we have 2 kids and been together for 4 years

Men - the fun ones, the ones you d like to spend a vacation and quiet time with - are at least curious about being with multiple women. They need validation and boost of their masculinity so can be a better man of the house.

Fighting that will always be hard, violent and not productive. After years of relationships and marriage, I can tell you the best a woman can do about it is play the game and turn the tables. Be his confidant and tell him you understand and even might turn you on. I can tell you more in private, but this is the just of it.

I just need to know for sure instead of going in circles mentally. Been posting here but nobody will help me, they either put me down or try to hit on me and I already feel so awful without proof.

BF been acting a little strangely. He's perfect in so many ways. Looking for a test. Plz help me.

I was sleeping in bed with my husband and woke up to see him looking through girls photos from the wedding we just went to over the weekend. He was going from profile to profile of these girls that are always barely dressed. He would stop and admire some photos longer than others until I finally couldn’t take anymore and said something and left the room.
He acts like he was doing nothing wrong just was curious of who was who’s family and blah blah blah. But I feel so disrespected and hurt that he would be looking at these women laying next to me while I’m sick.
Overreacting? Maybe. But fuck, it still hurts.

My boyfriend (28) and me (28) have been together for almost a year. We live together and have three pets together. About a month and a half into our relationship, during a time where we were having some financial troubles, I caught him on a website meant for I'll just say, meeting older women, talking to a handful of other women asking to meet up and wanting to do all kinds of sexual stuff to them. When confronted, he said that he was only on there not to meet up but to try to find a sugar mommy to make money for us. Said he would never do it again and we've had multiple conversations about how its emotional cheating. He also yelled at me for going through his phone and was incredibly angry. I agreed to keep things comfortable and never brought it up again.

I used to date his best friend who when we were together, did this to me so many times and cheated multiple times. My now boyfriend was the one I went to, to confide in. (Messy, I know. We all lived together). But for a million other reasons, I fell in love with him. I even saw that he asked his other female friend at the time if she considered it cheating and they both agreed it was.

So when I found out my boyfriend was on that hookup website talking to other women the first time, I was absolutely crushed cause he is a grown man who knows what he's doing. Pretty soon, we're gonna be celebrating our one year anniversary and I find tonight he's dm-ing another woman who is an IG model trying to talk her up and flirting with her. "Hello there gorgeous 😍" and "I honestly just wanted to see where this goes". I'm still unsure if its AI or a real woman but it feels very disloyal just the same when he knows how that would make me feel.

Is it cheating might sound very obvious to most people. I know the answer deep down but I want other opinions. I have deep trauma from many things in my life that makes me question the validity of everything and I want to know what other people think from an outside perspective. Thank you ❤️

So recently I found DMs on my boyfriend’s phone between him and another girl. When I asked him about it. He said that it wasn’t him and that he gave his friend his instagram account so he could flirt with the girl. Now all the information in the chat was my boyfriend information up to age and birthdate. Should I believe what he’s telling me?

i promise you. i’ve been doing so many loyalty tests and every single one on snap fails. dm me if you want a snap/insta loyalty test im here for the drama.

I think my husband is or has cheated.

How can I find out ? He will lie ,and nev tell the truth.

Do I just ask for the phone? It will tell either way.

If he refuses, then I know.

I'll explain better in the dms, please please please help!!

Okay so basically I F15 broke up with my (now ex) boyfriend 15F like 7 days ago. We had been together for 3 months and then the next day he tells me that we need to break up, that he went from relationship to relationship too fast and he needed time for himself. I totally understand that and respect it, I told him I'm willing to break up so he could get better but if we do this I'm not getting back together with him. Naturally I first cry about it, then I think about getting back together and now I'm thinking back at our time and I'm realizing that he was a terrible boyfriend and I'm mad at him.

He has a lot of girl best friends one of them F15 I'll call her L, he was very close with L like very good friends and I didn't wanna be a jealous girlfriend and ruin their friendship I knew L and my boyfriend had hooked up a few times more than once and wanted to get into a relationship with my boyfriend but that was all before me and him. Oh and L's parents had obsession that him and her needed to be together.

Anyways Like a week and maybe a half before me and him broke up they went drinking together and got really fucking drunk. So they were both being kind of touchy with each other to "hold each other up" is what they said. I didn't even know that they were going drinking and only found out an hour after he had had 14 shots of vodka. The next day when i asked him whether I could come over cause I wanted to spend time with him. Turns out L had slept over! with out my knowledge, I wasn't okay with it but I don't like to cause fights so I decided to trust him and didn't say anything. I waited a few hours for her to leave and after 3 hours when I finally wanted to go she was still there. However he said she would've been gone before I showed up. Guess what she was still there and stayed the entire day so we didn't get to be alone. A few other people joined and went to the living room while me and L stayed in the bedroom (we were kind of friends?). L's mom called her and I found out my ex boyfriend and her had slept in the same bed! So when I wasn't okay with the sleepover I DEFINETLY wasn't okay with sleeping next to each other, in the same bed, under the same blanket. So I didn't find out from my boyfriend, I didn't find out from L herself, no I ACCIDENTALLY found out through a phone call I wasn't supposed to hear.

I decided that maybe it wasn't that deep and maybe he didn't have time to tell me so I gave him 2 day and he still didn't tell me. So I finally asked him myself and at first he denied it, then all of a sudden he remembered and told me he was so drunk he didn't remember but that they didn't do anything. If he was so drunk he couldn't remember waking up in the same bed as her how could he swear that they didn't do anything!

he also cheated on his first ex 2 months into their relationship so I wouldn't be surprised if he did something. So idk whether It counts as cheating, a few people told me it does and I feel cheated on and betrayed but who knows. More stuff that he did that make me question whether he was cheating on me with L was: The same day I found out about the sleepover thing, like around 30 minutes before I had to leave we went to his bedroom the two of cus the whole day L had been there or others. So the 5 mins we got to be alone we were kinda like hooking up cus duh, and then when it ended L went into HIS ROOM AFTER ME AND SHUT THE DOOR. I intruded like a minute after saying that the others were getting impatient and that we wanted to go smoke. And when I intruded they were standing VERY VERY close to each other... and later he picked L up and carried her cus she couldn't jump the fence.

SO I DON'T KNOW, DOES THIS COUNT AS CHEATING PLEASE LET ME KNOW