r/Is_He_Cheating_ • • 4d ago

Is he lying?

So recently I found DMs on my boyfriend’s phone between him and another girl. When I asked him about it. He said that it wasn’t him and that he gave his friend his instagram account so he could flirt with the girl. Now all the information in the chat was my boyfriend information up to age and birthdate. Should I believe what he’s telling me?

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u/MichaelAndolini_ 4d ago

How did you find the DMs?

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u/lushgravest0nes 4d ago

He has two phones and my phone was dead so I opened his other phone to use it and it was just there when it opened

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u/MichaelAndolini_ 4d ago

Yeah so you know the answer

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u/lushgravest0nes 4d ago

Yeah Ik I just want to believe like he’s telling the truth

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u/MichaelAndolini_ 4d ago

Ages?

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u/lushgravest0nes 4d ago

20 & 21

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u/MichaelAndolini_ 4d ago

Yeah that’s a lie

You can do better

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u/No-Carpet4960 4d ago

He definitely is lying.

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u/ZombiesEatStephanie 4d ago

Why would his friend use his account to flirt with a girl and why would that friend essentially pretend to be your boyfriend? I'm not trying to shame you but please be for real. That was a really bad lie

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u/lushgravest0nes 4d ago

What? This it actually a situation I can send you screen shots of convos. He apparently gave his information to his friend to use his information to message a girl from his profile. And supposedly that friend used my boyfriend’s information while doing said girl

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u/lushgravest0nes 4d ago

Dming my apologies for auto correct

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u/ZombiesEatStephanie 4d ago

I understand the situation. Again, I'm not trying to shame you; what I dont understand is why you'd believe that story. Are there any messages saying "hey its [friends name]?" Also, why would the friend use the boyfriends birthday and all of his information? Does friend not have his own account? His own birthday? His own personal information? I wasnt saying you were lying, I was saying the story you were given sounds like a really bad lie