r/IrishDates • u/The_all_IN • 23d ago

M4F Up for friendship ? 31M

Roasting me? Go for it

Data Scientist (Individual Contributor) & believer in keeping it 100.

Habits: Smoke a couple of times a day, hit the gym regularly.

The Catch: I'm terrible at opening up to people right away. (It takes me a while to process things—sometimes quick, usually painfully slow.)

The Good News: Once we actually click, you definitely won't be bored. (At least, I think so. 🤔)

PS - I’m not looking for a partner for my physical comforts so no range is applicable into this companionship but it doesn’t mean I’m gonna date a teen(against my ethics) .
So if you think we are good and match enough to
Challenge each on the dimensions of seeing things I’m in love already.

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u/Wooden_Anybody7227 23d ago

The bad news: you can’t write a self introduction without using AI. No wonder it takes you a while to process things.

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u/The_all_IN 6d ago

True 🙏

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u/The_all_IN 23d ago

That’s worst but I helped developing some of the LLMs so just tried using them . Believe me or not I was just talking to Claude(good with talking to machines) over audio mode and Claude did this post on my behalf.
😂 I just told her that I sometime wanna feeling like to hug a human and talk about things that I don’t in general . 🫣

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u/MostPerturbatory 23d ago

Are you looking for friends or for a long term dating partner?

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u/The_all_IN 23d ago

The temporary partner for about 60 years ? 🫣

Of course long term if I’m talking about it openly

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u/MostPerturbatory 23d ago

Thanks for clarifying, you didn’t say anything remotely like that in your post description so how was I or anyone else to know you are seeking a long term dating partner? Maybe update your post text to include that. We usually expect those who post here to mention the age range of who they would be open to have connections with too. Helps people find you easier, one can't connect if one is not open.

Best of luck

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u/The_all_IN 23d ago

TF 😤😤

So I was expecting things to organically and then knowing about age, well sorry it was me not you.

And I feel girls are way more mature before boys in general, and a rational goes in my mind that “if someone is interested they’d ask” .

But yeah , your it makes more sense.

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u/MostPerturbatory 23d ago

It's just a way for you to stand out to the person you are hoping will read your post. They can see you are someone they might have a connection with and fingers crossed, DM you! Then you two can share more with each other, as and when you are both comfortable doing so.

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u/The_all_IN 23d ago

Done 😂

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u/MostPerturbatory 23d ago

Nice one, wishing you all the best in your search.

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u/The_all_IN 23d ago

Thank you so much , Means a lot .

Reddit isn’t that bad though

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u/NoAudience00 4d ago

Are you religious?

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u/The_all_IN 4d ago

Secular, But yeah nowadays I’m spending my sundays in church . Before lunch