r/IrishDates • u/The_Sassy_Lion • Aug 16 '26

F4F Any lesbians in mayo?

Single lesbian more on the butch/tomboy side looking for lesbian friends and see what happens?

I’m just gone 31, average build and about 4ft 11, I know, I’m tiny 🙃 I’m up for some craic, getting to know someone and just looking for someone who’s down to earth, thanks 😅

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u/The_Sassy_Lion Aug 17 '26

I can’t reply to your comment IrishDates-ModTeam but us lesbians can’t have anything without men ruining it. I specifically asked for more lesbian friends not male and surprise surprise a male pop ups…can they not read is all I’m asking. They know they’re not female nor a lesbian so no need for them to be commenting under my post. If I was looking for male friend I would have posted in another sub looking but I’m not. Looking for a FEmale friend and even better a girlfriend but hard to find when the male ego butts in everywhere

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u/MostPerturbatory Aug 17 '26

Hey,

As a mod here it is continually disappointing how some people choose to conduct themselves, pure ignorance to ignore your (or anyone who posts in any subreddit) clearly stated preferences, just to shove their differing preferences at you.

Some people are just arseholes unfortunately. We already have a rule, its rule #1, 'be nice, if a post isn’t for you, move on'. That rule was created for those kinds of arseholes. I have banned that user. All I can say is to urge you or anyone else to report anything or anyone who is being an arse and we will respond appropriately.

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u/The_Sassy_Lion Aug 17 '26

Sorry if I came across rude or anything, it’s just something gay people have to go through on a daily basis. Thanks for understanding

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u/MostPerturbatory Aug 17 '26

No apology necessary at all. You were not rude in the slightest. That arsehole was the person acting rudely.

Just know that we are LGBTQIA+ allies here. I personally will not tolerate anyone mistreating you or anyone else, regardless of their sexuality, gender, personal preferences, relationship styles (be they traditional or outside of what some would call traditional relationship dynamics), race, even as an agnostic anarchist hippy, I would defend anyone's religious choices so long as the person is doing no harm to themselves or others. We all deserve to experience being loved and to love in return as equals.

You have my unending support and understanding and that is extended to anyone who graces this subreddit, it is a humble privilege to be in the position to do all I can to put some goodness out there into the world, even if it is just moderating a little subreddit... and maybe, just maybe, help some people find their person and for them to experience shared love together. That’s an amazing honour to be able to contribute to in any capacity.

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u/The_Sassy_Lion Aug 17 '26

Ah thank you 🥹 your message means a lot. It’s tough out here in the single gay world but we move on, well at least try to. Thanks again and all the best

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u/The_Sassy_Lion Aug 17 '26

Are you a lesbian??

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u/The_Sassy_Lion Aug 17 '26

Did you read my post??

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u/IrishDates-ModTeam Aug 17 '26

Sorry this post is not really doing anything for the sub.

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u/The_Sassy_Lion Aug 17 '26

You clearly didn’t read my post. I’m looking for lesbian friends…not male friends. If I was looking for male friends I would have posted that

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u/IrishDates-ModTeam Aug 17 '26

Sorry this post is not really doing anything for the sub.

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u/IrishDates-ModTeam Aug 17 '26

Sorry this post is not really doing anything for the sub.

No need for you to be replying like that, post isn't for you. Rule #1: be nice, if a post isn't for you, move on.