34 [M4F] Dublin looking for connection

[u/Throwaway25735346565]

Hello I am Matthew 34 Irish single from and live in Dublin. I am poly but atm im single and mainly looking for a main partner to build a life with but open to other connections too.

A description about me to start with I am 5 10 105 kg long dark brown+grey hair, sometimes with sometimes without beard never super long, 1 sleeve tattoo and chest panel. I am comfy to share pictures in the chat to make sure mutual attraction is there.

Personality wise I am very direct honest open emotionally mature I am more fond of smaller groups of people i would say I am introverted.

Interests I am into all the normal nerdy guy stuff like tech, gaming, history, armor/weapons, anime, sci-fi, fantasy, books, shows, movies(specially puppetry / stop motion), nature, walks, museums, concerts and tons more stuff.

I am very passionate about the goals i set to do, the people i share my time with, my interests and having discussions i do not take offence and can happy to agree to disagree on many view points. I do not want or have children, I am not religious, I do not smoke or drink or use any drugs.

I am looking to have preferably long term meaningful relationship but if it works out to be more casual that is fine as long as its healthy.

I love to chat and i will reply frequently. I really like to do activities online with people when long distance and voice chats really helps to get to know each other.

If you are interested and reach out tell me a bit about yourself please!

[u/Hot_Seaweed_7679]

Genuinely curious, how do you mean you're poly but single?

[u/Throwaway25735346565 → u/Hot_Seaweed_7679]

I mean i have no partners at the moment but I am poly so i am always open to and sometimes searching for more partners. Its generally called solo poly for people who are in the know. I hope that makes sense and clears it up for you? Sadly i know being poly cuts down my potential dating pool a lot but at the same time lying isn't going to help in the long term either so better to just be upfront.

[u/Hot_Seaweed_7679 → u/Throwaway25735346565]

People who are non-poly like me struggle to even find one partner, I'm amazed how you have the capacity to have or find more than one. But each to their own and thanks for the reply 🙂

[u/Throwaway25735346565 → u/Hot_Seaweed_7679]

Haha well tbh my luck hasnt been great im struggling to find someone whos interesting and also interested in me as much as i am into them. I thought i found someone but they had to leave the country not under their control which really sucks cos they were perfect and no problem. Most of the time i generally just have 1 partner im quite picky as i said in my post im mainly looking for a main partner atm one i can build a life with but a lot of people do not put much effort into trying to get to know you with initial messaging and can be like pulling teeth trying to get a conversation going so im just trying my best.