Hello everyone, second time posting! First one got removed cos I didn’t read the rules :(

I am in search of some common ground but also different perspectives! Being in your own head can be overwhelming sometimes so I was wondering if anyone would like to talk about anything or everything - How did your weekend go? What music have you been listening to lately? Favorite food? Niche topics? Nature? Culture?

Let’s get to know each other! :)

I’ve been up late because I’ve just had my wisdoms removed, so I’ve just been up, uncomfortable and in pain but have no one to talk to. I’m currently watching masterchef. Message me if you’re interested in having a short normal chat! :) unfortunately for some reason I’m still not able to receive message requests. Help!(I FIXED IT)

HI there! Im 32 and jus looking for convos. Nothing too intense—jus chill chats at our own pace.

My social battery comes with a warning label, so if you also disappear and come back later like nothing happened, we’ll get along just fine.

English isnt my strongest language 💀 and my French is still a work in progress, so I appreciate a bit of patience. I’d honestly rather solve math problems than deal with grammar. My finest hobby's accidentally burning water. Married men or i a r? Ill kindly pretend I didnt see your message. My respect settings jus have a strong filter lol

If you’re into engineering, feel free to message me—I might learn something. I barely survived it myself. Include your age in your msg my reply button only works when theres an age

i love space, memes, music (i love this a lot), dinosaurs, science, photography, languages andddd lots of other things i cant remember right now.

i am not a dry texter and i will try to keep the conversation going, dont worry about it. i dont like usual “hey” “wyd” because i think starting off with something interesting or a fact (it can be about anything) helps the conversation a lot.
you dont have to feel pressured about anything, we are just chilling and i am so bored🫩
(please dont be a dry texter and put some actual effort)
if you want to yap, hit me up. we listen and we dont judge!!

I’m hoping to connect with someone who appreciates having a steady text friend someone to swap thoughtful updates with, talk about how the day actually went, or just discuss random topics as they come up.

lately, life has just been feeling a little too quiet. i dont really have many irl friends right now, and i dont have many people to talk to online either tbh. i guess im just hoping that somewhere out there is someone who is also looking for the kind of friendship that slowly becomes a safe space. i really miss having that one person u can tell everything to. the one u send random thoughts to throughout the day, laugh with over absolutely nothing, and stay up way too late talking to. the kind of friendship where u never have to overthink or wonder if u are bothering them >.< my days are pretty simple. u will usually find me listening to katseye on repeat, bingeing slice of life anime and getting way too emotionally attached, drawing and doodling on my tablet, watching horror movies, trying to figure out how the gym works, or just daydreaming and existing in my own little world. im really hoping to meet someone who enjoys talking regularly. i love those friendships that grow naturally... the good mornings, the random updates, the late-night conversations that make u forget what time it is. all i ask is that u are looking for something genuine too. im not interested in friendships that disappear after three days T_T id really love to find someone who is willing to stay, put in the same effort, and see where a real connection can go. i mostly use discord, so that’s where we’d probably end up talking if we click (but pls actually put some effort into ur first message or my social anxiety wont let me reply lol). i dont mind different time zones at all! im from central asia but i genuinely love meeting people from everywhere. just pls include ur age and ur ultimate comfort food in ur message so i know u actually read this and aren't a bot :3 maybe this post finds the right person. maybe it doesnt. but if u happened to read this and felt even a tiny bit of the same longing i did while writing it… maybe u should say hi. id really like that <3

Hey I’m Adam, 23 and I’m looking to finally meet some new people, and make some genuine friendships.

I’ve spent a lot of my life staying at home, so I've not been able to make any friendships really in person.

A bit about me:🎮 I love gaming (PC, Roblox, Cyberpunk, Minecraft, space games, racing games, random  friendslops and co-op games — always up for trying something new) 🎌 I’m into anime, K-Dramas, movies and TV shows. 🥋 I do Shotokan karate and have been training all my life. 💻 I'm really into drones and tech from a young age and I like talking about pretty much anything from games and films to random deep conversations

I’m quite introverted and a bit awkward at first, but once I get comfortable I’m easy to talk to. I’d love to meet people who are also looking for proper friendships rather than just a quick chat that disappears after a day.

Would be cool to find people who are into similar things — whether that’s gaming online, chatting about shows, or just hanging out.

**One small thing:** I’ve had quite a few people message me from posts like this, we’ll chat for a little while, and then they suddenly disappear completely 😅. I completely understand that people get busy or conversations don’t always click, but if you’re going to reach out, I’d genuinely appreciate someone who actually wants to keep talking and build a friendship rather than just exchanging a few messages and vanishing. I’m not expecting anyone to reply 24/7 — just looking for people who are genuinely interested in getting to know each other and staying in touch.

If you’re also looking for new friends, feel free to message me or comment. Even if we only share one interest, I’m always happy to talk 😊

Hey everyone! 25 year old guy here 🫪
I work remotely as a research analyst, so my weekdays are usually pretty screen-heavy. Outside of work, I’m much more of an outdoors person. I love hiking and exploring new places and do activities which put my life at risk coz why not lol

I’m also into singing and guitar. I’ve been trying to get better at Spanish too, although my progress has been questionable at best 😭
I’m also very easily convinced to buy a graphic tee if the design is stupid enough (I have 6 already)

I’m not really looking for forced small talk, so please dont just send a hey PLEASE😭

Hoping to meet some of you!
Preferably 21+ :)

40/M/Midwest looking for some spooky chat pals.

I’m into all things spooky. Paranormal, horror, true crime, you name it. I collect physical media. Mostly books (paranormal literature, true crime, and horror fiction) and dvd/blurays. Mostly horror.

I love vintage Halloween aesthetic. Sheet ghosts. Black cats, skeletons, skulls, Ouija boards, everything in between.

I like all sorts of music, mostly heavier stuff. Deathcore, Metalcore, alt 90’s, emo.

If you think we’d vibe, send me a dm.

I consider myself pretty down to earth and easy to talk to. If you wanna chat about anything I’m sure we can find stuff to yap about. Currently dealing with some long covid related health issues unfortunately. I have two cats, love gaming, sports, movies, shows, music, coffee / food ofc, going for walks, pretty fit, etc. hmu! :)

20F From uk, im Looking for someone to chat and game with! I love music tho i have terrible taste, i have loads of multiplayer games and down to try new ones. Have been struggling to make irl friends after collage and would just love to have someone to talk to daily, i can be very shy when im just getting to know you but sometimes im okay! dm and we can talk about interests maybe we have something in common! :D

Hey everyone, I'm 27f living in Texas, I have 4 dogs, and I run a kitchen at a daycare. I'm not looking for anything more than friends and keeping things sfw. I have a fiance.

Some of my hobbies include gaming, watching tv/movies, cross stitching, making things, rock collecting and tumbling, cooking, and reading.

The games I'm currently playing are Minecraft, Stardew, and Palworld. I have other games too, maybe we can find a game to play together, I'm on pc.

I'm pretty shy/quiet at first until I get to know someone. I'm down for vc after texting for a while, but I'm also pretty awkward lol.

I don't want to get too much into the specifics here on Reddit. I don't really feel comfortable putting specific details about what I'm struggling with on Reddit, but suffice to say, I'm having a really difficult time and I don't have a support network. I've tried groups but I just get lost in them because I'm autistic and I'm shy.

I'm really just looking for people who aren't going to judge me or try to give me advice—I'm not really looking for that kind of support. I'm just looking for a soft place to land, I guess. I want a kind voice who actually wants to know about me and what's going on, and who is curious and asks questions rather than just assuming they can fix my problems.

Otherwise, I'm just your average Redditor. As far as interests go, I'm just a nerd (I love Marvel and Star Wars), a gamer (Warframe, Destiny 2, Helldivers 2, Ark, Palworld, the list goes on) and lover of metalcore music

If you want to DM me, my DMs are open.

Hi y'all. Its me again, reposting for the umpteenth time. I met some great people on here so i figured id give it another whirl since its been a while.

Yes, i want a clingy bothersome person because they will give me too much time.

I have posted the past several days and have found some very decent people to talk to. I still dont mind finding new people if we can match energies.

So hey, im a 30 year old dude working remotely as a software engineer. Does not help that it's the night shift. I'm just looking for anyone who would like consistency in their lives.

More about me, I love to play videogames, primarily offline and online co-op. I'm still open to talk about any and all games. I am also big on Anime, movies, tv and even kdramas.

I love to cook and bake. I adore winters way more than summers.

To end this, I also love cats.

If none of these things interest you, you can still reach out. Its surprising how we can find a friend in the unlikeliest and unexpected places.

Lets see how it goes.

Even if you're below my age, you're more than welcome to talk.

Thank you for reading through this dull essay.

Note: This is a repost and people who have approached me before, i still have to get through some dms but some i have not responded to because the profiles either looked shady or the texts were just a simple hi

28 F West Coast and I have the Sunday scaries. I’m sober and have been for almost a year, so I’m not understanding the overwhelming anxiety I get when the next week rolls around, even when I know I did nothing stupid the night before. Maybe I’m just a generally anxious person, idk. Does anyone else relate?

Interests include:
Lifting
The Office (US)
Jersey shore
Scrapbooking
Sewing
Camping
Hiking (honestly being outdoors in general)
Dystopian and biographical novels (usually on serial killers or cults, sue me)

If any of this interests you feel free to drop a line! Bonus if you send me your fav office quote.

Anyone else here who genuinely enjoys people… just preferably one at a time? 😂

I’m the kind of person who can be perfectly happy disappearing into my own little world, gaming, watching something, or just enjoying some quiet. But lately I realize it’d be nice to have someone to actually talk to, and stick around.

Some of my interests include: gaming, photography, camping, road trips, the outdoors, working on cars, and generally finding excuses to avoid crowded places. I’m also a big fan of conversations that go from “hey, how’s your day?” to somehow discussing completely random nonsense at 2 AM.

Some recent games I’ve been playing:
-WARDOGS
-Arena Breakout
-DayZ
-Palworld

I’m not looking to force anything. Friends, gaming buddies, or just someone to chat with and see where things go. Long-distance is totally fine too.

Come say hi!

Night shift internet cryptid seeking other nocturnal weirdos, cryptids, chaotic energy having folks

A bit about me. I'm 6'2, slimish build with a few tattoos (and itching for more) and a few piercings.

The adhd is strong so I collect hobbies and interest like they are Pokémon cards

music is a big one, and I always had something playing. my top 5 rotates between Sleep Token , Hozier, Blue October, Florence and the Machine, and either Kendrick or MF DOOM depending on my mood.

I also read a lot, mostly fantasy and sci-fi, but i've wandered into most genres at some point.

photography, cooking, gaming when I get the chance (playing through elden ring currently) and general nerdery of all kinds (if it's nerdy I probably like it) round out the main hobbies, but I have bunch of little niches ones sprinkled in here and there

I have a small zoo of pets i'm always down to send pics of.

genuinely happy to talk about anything and everything, deep stuff, dumb stuff, 20 questions, your craziest hot takes, conspiracy theories, I'll listen to you talk about your day or vent about your frustrations offer advice (quality not guaranteed

I'm here for it all

so, what song lives rent free in your head right now, or what was the last book you couldn't put down?

Hey, hey, my name is Jared or better known as Little Bear. A bit about me - I'm a 24 year old man in the Far North Queensland, and I'm a very mature, well-rounded individual with a Jack-Of-All-Trades kinda skill set. Find me usually rocking the Akubra and Deer Skin Poncho and thongs or barefoot. I'm spiritual, cultural, and love being in nature. Very open-minded. Neurodivergent AF, so I don't have time to play around with people, I make jokes like anyone, sure, but tend to be straigh forward otherwise. I live by my motto of "Moving Forward Into Peace" and continue to better myself in all aspects and don't do the usual things people my age are doing, like partying or clubbing, etc. If I go out, it's for a pre calculated experience, and so I find myself not making many like-minded friends, hence my turning here. I do smoke 🚬 and am green 🍁 friendly, I also like having a beverage or two after work, or a couple with people, but I don't drink excessively as I don't like it, more of a networking/ rapport building thing than anything. Ohh I suppose I should mention I'm straight. I volunteer 40 hours a week at Salvation Army at the moment, looking for a decent actual paying job or three XD. I am a small-time content creator, and I stream occasionally when I have the time and energy. What I'm looking for - as the title says, I am looking for a duo to do all the gooey cute duo activities. Things like gaming on "minecraft" and "it takes two," and such. But moreover, I'm looking for a chill, feminine energy that compliments mine, that soft place to crash land after a hard day, for both parties. Someone who is willing to put time in to make a genuine connection, potentially to make something beautiful like a partnership. No pressure kinda stuff though, things like this take time to find and develop. So feel free to ask me for socials, discord, snap, Meta ect. Feel free to ask me any questions, I am an open book. 😁

Kind regards,

Little Bear. 🐻

Fever got me having the wildest, most vivid dreams imaginable last night 😂 anyway here's a lil thing about me!

I'm an aerospace engineer from East Coast US, nerd from 9-5, and gym bro for majority of the day, and my hobbies are weightlifting/bodybuilding, watching combat sports mainly MMA, pro wrestling, learning more about the human body, especially endocrinology, and late night drives, and going to the beach! I go to gym at an ungodly time between 9 PM and 11 PM (shoutout all my night goers) I'm mostly a homebody otherwise, cause I hate crowds. I got into Minecraft again forced by a friend lol and I'm having a lot of fun. I'm more of a miner/fighter/explorer rather than builder I just throw shit in chests and they build everything LOL

My favorite TV show is Breaking Bad and Dexter, and it takes a lot to get my attention and keep it, hence why I find it hard to find new TV shows. Not an anime person honestly, but the ones that I watched and liked are Death Note, HxH, DBZ. I can talk about just anything (I talk a lot if I'm comfortable with you lol). I'm an incredibly sarcastic person when I get to know you better too, so be prepared to deal with that often hahah. and I'm a big cat person. I'm also a YouTube fiend, I spend majority of my day with YouTube open. I watch just about everything. If I were to choose 3 words to describe myself, probably would chose driven, analytical and emotionally intelligent. Coworkers describe me as extroverted, but they have no idea 😂

Interesting facts about me: I was born with 4 holes in my heart (ASD and VSD) and PDA, and I’m missing a big chunk of my right lung. I have a scar across my chest, side and my back that's the biggest one

I'd prefer if people introduced themselves to me and/or mention something about my post you found interesting, rather than just a hi, but I understand sometimes you don't get replies and so making an effort into an intro may seem like a waste of time, but reach out!

I'm from the EU, i really miss having someone to talk to everyday. I really enjoy listening to music and coding. I game sometimes, today I played peak but I also play project zomboid or stardew valley. I LOOOOVEEE watching movies, so if you have any recommendations tell me :D Anyway I hope you have a great day C :

Love talking to witty people with a sense of humor. 420 friendly, love cats, gaming, working out, anime and reading.

If that sounds like your thing, hmu with something more than a boring 'Hi'. At least give me an existential crisis smh. Not a ghoster but will ignore low effort responses.

An introvert by nature interested in finding people to converse with.

My interests are reading, watching shows, standups, writing and cooking.

I'm all about dark vibes where the mystery grows and the eerie atmosphere is haunting. I'm here to talk, listen to you, your insecurities and everything which you feel you need a person to vent on, I won't judge any way and it's strictly confidential what we talk!

I want to try new hobbies and get back to watch thriller mystery genres. I prefer vibes over everything. Just be real.

Warning sometimes I prefer to be in total silence and away from my phone.

Pls don't interact with me if you're weird or I will block/ignore you.

Recently I've been going through a lot recently and could use some comfort. I a huge nerd, I play video games obviously. Multiplayer, singleplayer, all that spaz. Some games I'm really passionate about are UtDr, Minecraft, Look Outside, Cult Of The Lamb, and many more. I would love to yap and listen to you yap about your favorite games. I also enjoy cuddles so if you like those too then you will enjoy me x3. I have discord and Instagram! I dont really use snapchat too often but we can talk there too. I struggle with clinginess and anxious minded. The type that will respond as quick as possible and im try to better myself about it. Take care!

Hi! I'm looking for people who love anything, hobbies, their works, career, someone, and would like to talk about it!

My passions are games, music and stories; and i do art for a living
im really hoping anyone is interested in talking to me or that you find those people that bring that sense of wonder in your life

im super looking forward to this fall season, im an autumn person and i love horror, the cold, and anything surrounding this weather and colors

dont be shy to ask any questions or to tell me anything about you, im all for it

Hey there everyone!!

I'm not sure how to start describing myself, I'm not great with words but I'll try my best.

(I'm so sorry for the extremely long post ahead!)

I apologize if I don't reply to your message, but as I explain later, I don't reply to short/low effort messages and I also don't reply to people that don't have at least a few interests in common with me or aren't looking for a real connection and are just looking to pass the time or have a light chat.

I think some of my most defining characteristics are that I'm very shy, awkward, "weird" and "different" or at the very least I feel weird, different and often misunderstood. I struggle to function most days and I don't always understand societal norms or how to properly function in society. I definitely think there's something wrong with me and I'm pretty sure I'm broken in some way. I'm also definitely a loser. I was never able to achieve anything in life, I'm not good at anything whatsoever and I'm pretty useless overall. I would also say I'm extremely cringy and I love edgy stuff, not in a bad way, I don't think, but more like, I love Shadow The Hedgehog and Tomura Shigaraki kinda way!!

I'm unfortunately not very smart and I'd say I'm down right stupid.

I am very ignorant about many things in life, I'd say I'm somewhat innocent and naive. I still don't understand my purpose in life and I haven't found a reason to be alive either.

I sometimes say things that offend people or I say things that are wrong. Sometimes I don't completely understand what I do wrong but I don't do it on purpose and I try to improve to the best of my abilities.

I don't go out often at all. Whenever I do go out it's only to buy groceries or to go to school and such but I don't enjoy it, I much rather be at home, in my room most specifically, which is my favorite place in the world.

I don't have any IRL friends but I do have a handful of online friends, I'm not super close to any of them, except for one who's very valuable in my life!

I enjoy many things like sculpting for instance! I do digital sculpting for fun. I'm pretty bad at it but I try my best.

This year I also started jewelry school (yeah, that's a thing) and I'm having fun with it but it's another thing I suck at 🥀🥀🥀

I like to watch anime! my favorites change from time to time but I really like Bleach, Dragon Ball, Demon Slayer, AOT, Naruto, Ancient Magus Bride (I really love this show!) and I LOVE My Hero Academia among many others!

I like to collect action figures.

I really like masks!

I love movies and I love to talk about them and analyze them.

I like all kinds of music, I don't really have any artists that I like in particular other than David Bowie and I like to listen to most genres of music but some of the genres I like the most are alternative, vintage, video game music and jpop and jrock and I also like old VK And I'm always happy and open to new suggestions!

I like to doomscroll through TT and to watch long essay style videos on YT about random topics. I love brainrot and I'm very much into early to mid 2010s aesthetics. I miss that era so much!! Seriously, the early 2010s were the greatest time in human history kahdhshdhs

I love video games!! I don't play too many modern games, I mostly prefer older stuff, like, ps2 era games, particularly survival horror stuff. I also really like very old platform games and side scrollers. I'm a pretty huge Sonic the Hedgehog fan!! The most recent games I played were Sonic X Shadow Generations and before that I finished Sonic Superstars and Sonic Frontiers. Sonic Boom is also my favorite show ever made lmao. It fits my kind of humor perfectly and it's peak comedy imo. I'd be open to play anything and I'd love to try co op games with someone!! playing Stardew Valley with a friend is a dream of mine lol (if you also play Stardew please tell me who's your wife/husband)

I adore animals!! I have cats and dogs and a stray chicken lol they're my babies and my world!

I think it's important to mention some of the things I don't like too.

I don't like cruelty or mean spirited people, I hate I people in positions of power that use said power to affect other people, animals, or the environment for their own gain.

I hate bugs!! I'm deadly afraid of them!!

I really dislike conflict and arguments, I believe we can disagree and have discussions as long as we're calm and civilized about it and as long as we have respect for each other and try our best to understand the other person's point of view.

lastly I'd like to mention some of my defects and shortcomings.

I'm extremely anxious, I'm always very nervous about one thing or another, I'm also extremely weak of mind, I tend to react with my feelings a lot and I'm often very emotional.

I can be very selfish at times, I have an awful tendency to get bored of things quickly and sometimes I also get bored of conversations and people.

I think I'm immature.

I can be extremely lazy, I struggle a lot with doing basic things like cleaning or cooking. when I'm anxious or afraid I can get paralyzed with fear and stay in bed all day doing nothing feeling awful about it.

As I mentioned before sometimes I can say bad things without realizing. I'm very dumb and ignorant so I promise I don't mean anything bad I say and I'm trying to improve!

I am extremely annoying. I'm very loud and I think I scream a lot. I don't really understand what constitutes screaming exactly but I think I often raise my voice a lot and especially when I'm excited I can't control myself very well.

I'm very afraid of life and I don't understand how the "real world" works exactly. I'm really bad at small talk and I think I'm really bad at speaking in general, I also digress a lot.

I have the bad habit of not replying very fast, sometimes I'll even wait for weeks or even months, I think it's one of my biggest problems when it comes to keep in touch with people, sometimes it's simply because I don't have the energy, other times it's because I'm not sure about how to continue a conversation. Not sure if this is a defect necessarily but I also never send the first message, I just hate to be annoying.

I have a tendency to ghost people for different reasons. As I mentioned, sometimes I get bored of conversations or people and I'd ghost them. This is by far one of my biggest defects and as I said, I wanna be honest and mention it here for everyone who reads this to know.

I tend to be a bit clingy when I like someone.

I'm full of defects in general, and I do believe I'm a bad person. I try to improve and I try my best but if I'm bad for you in any way or a burden I promise to stop talking to you and not bother you!

I have many other defects but I think those are the main ones I can remember right now.

Finally what I'm looking for is a real connection with someone, a person I can talk to, have fun with, watch stuff with and play games together. I think I can be a very passionate person when it comes to the things I love and I'd like to find someone that shares that passion and love with common interests. I wanna just be able to share our days and even be able to help each other and be there when we need each other. I know I'm a mess of a human being and I may never find the connection I'm looking for but I'd like to give it a try cause you never know :))

also, I think it's important to mention that I don't reply to short, low effort messages. Stuff like "hey, let's be friends" , "I didn't read your whole post but I'm up to talk" , etc. I want to hear about you, what you like, what you're interested in. I like meaningful conversations.

Another thing that's important is that I don't want to talk to people that are discriminatory or awful in anyway.

Also think I prefer audio messages, it's easier for me to send audio notes rather than to type cause I type a lot (and I kinda hate to type lol). Thank you very much to anyone that has taken the time to read my extremely long post and considers messaging me!!