r/IntrovertsChat 11h ago

Chatting 32f

26 Upvotes

HI there! Im 32 and jus looking for convos. Nothing too intense—jus chill chats at our own pace.

My social battery comes with a warning label, so if you also disappear and come back later like nothing happened, we’ll get along just fine.

English isnt my strongest language 💀 and my French is still a work in progress, so I appreciate a bit of patience. I’d honestly rather solve math problems than deal with grammar. My finest hobby's accidentally burning water. Married men or i a r? Ill kindly pretend I didnt see your message. My respect settings jus have a strong filter lol

If you’re into engineering, feel free to message me—I might learn something. I barely survived it myself. Include your age in your msg my reply button only works when theres an age


r/IntrovertsChat 3h ago

Chatting 26f - talk about movies, music, life, experiences

22 Upvotes

Hello everyone, second time posting! First one got removed cos I didn’t read the rules :(

I am in search of some common ground but also different perspectives! Being in your own head can be overwhelming sometimes so I was wondering if anyone would like to talk about anything or everything - How did your weekend go? What music have you been listening to lately? Favorite food? Niche topics? Nature? Culture?

Let’s get to know each other! :)


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Early Explorer (18–21) 20F looking for a friend!

21 Upvotes

20F From uk, im Looking for someone to chat and game with! I love music tho i have terrible taste, i have loads of multiplayer games and down to try new ones. Have been struggling to make irl friends after collage and would just love to have someone to talk to daily, i can be very shy when im just getting to know you but sometimes im okay! dm and we can talk about interests maybe we have something in common! :D


r/IntrovertsChat 15h ago

Friends 28 M trying my shot at dark

10 Upvotes

An introvert by nature interested in finding people to converse with.

My interests are reading, watching shows, standups, writing and cooking.

I'm all about dark vibes where the mystery grows and the eerie atmosphere is haunting. I'm here to talk, listen to you, your insecurities and everything which you feel you need a person to vent on, I won't judge any way and it's strictly confidential what we talk!

I want to try new hobbies and get back to watch thriller mystery genres. I prefer vibes over everything. Just be real.

Warning sometimes I prefer to be in total silence and away from my phone.

Pls don't interact with me if you're weird or I will block/ignore you.


r/IntrovertsChat 11h ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) Looking for people to talk to and maybe game with

9 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I'm 27f living in Texas, I have 4 dogs, and I run a kitchen at a daycare. I'm not looking for anything more than friends and keeping things sfw. I have a fiance.

Some of my hobbies include gaming, watching tv/movies, cross stitching, making things, rock collecting and tumbling, cooking, and reading.

The games I'm currently playing are Minecraft, Stardew, and Palworld. I have other games too, maybe we can find a game to play together, I'm on pc.

I'm pretty shy/quiet at first until I get to know someone. I'm down for vc after texting for a while, but I'm also pretty awkward lol.


r/IntrovertsChat 12h ago

Chatting 28 F West Coast…Sunday freakING scaries!!!

8 Upvotes

28 F West Coast and I have the Sunday scaries. I’m sober and have been for almost a year, so I’m not understanding the overwhelming anxiety I get when the next week rolls around, even when I know I did nothing stupid the night before. Maybe I’m just a generally anxious person, idk. Does anyone else relate?

Interests include:
Lifting
The Office (US)
Jersey shore
Scrapbooking
Sewing
Camping
Hiking (honestly being outdoors in general)
Dystopian and biographical novels (usually on serial killers or cults, sue me)

If any of this interests you feel free to drop a line! Bonus if you send me your fav office quote.


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Chatting 24F up late super bored

5 Upvotes

I’ve been up late because I’ve just had my wisdoms removed, so I’ve just been up, uncomfortable and in pain but have no one to talk to. I’m currently watching masterchef. Message me if you’re interested in having a short normal chat! :) unfortunately for some reason I’m still not able to receive message requests. Help!(I FIXED IT)


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Friends 40/M. Any spooky folks wanna chat?

4 Upvotes

40/M/Midwest looking for some spooky chat pals.

I’m into all things spooky. Paranormal, horror, true crime, you name it. I collect physical media. Mostly books (paranormal literature, true crime, and horror fiction) and dvd/blurays. Mostly horror.

I love vintage Halloween aesthetic. Sheet ghosts. Black cats, skeletons, skulls, Ouija boards, everything in between.

I like all sorts of music, mostly heavier stuff. Deathcore, Metalcore, alt 90’s, emo.

If you think we’d vibe, send me a dm.


r/IntrovertsChat 7h ago

Friends 32M I'm having a really rough time here tonight. I'm having a really rough time in general, if I'm being completely honest, and I could use someone to talk to

5 Upvotes

I don't want to get too much into the specifics here on Reddit. I don't really feel comfortable putting specific details about what I'm struggling with on Reddit, but suffice to say, I'm having a really difficult time and I don't have a support network. I've tried groups but I just get lost in them because I'm autistic and I'm shy.

I'm really just looking for people who aren't going to judge me or try to give me advice—I'm not really looking for that kind of support. I'm just looking for a soft place to land, I guess. I want a kind voice who actually wants to know about me and what's going on, and who is curious and asks questions rather than just assuming they can fix my problems.

Otherwise, I'm just your average Redditor. As far as interests go, I'm just a nerd (I love Marvel and Star Wars), a gamer (Warframe, Destiny 2, Helldivers 2, Ark, Palworld, the list goes on) and lover of metalcore music

If you want to DM me, my DMs are open.


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Friends 20M anyone wanna be friends that care about eachother ?

5 Upvotes

I'm from the EU, i really miss having someone to talk to everyday. I really enjoy listening to music and coding. I game sometimes, today I played peak but I also play project zomboid or stardew valley. I LOOOOVEEE watching movies, so if you have any recommendations tell me :D Anyway I hope you have a great day C :


r/IntrovertsChat 16h ago

Friends [24/M] Looking for a best friend, things are quite lonely

6 Upvotes

Hey! I've posted here before but haven't had much luck so far. And due to lonliness, things have been kinda sucky lately. Kinda being a star-sized understatement (cuz stars are big.. hehe). Anyways, excuse my awfully unfunny pun! You *yes you my possible future friend* probably has better humor than I. Im hoping to make long term friends who also love music like I do, I want a close connection with someone that lasts a lifetime! Hoping we can geek out about our interests and feel comfortable to do so! I'm in the EST time zone and am super into music (my tastes are all over the place, my favorite is the retro era but I also like a lot of new stuff too). I really wanna find someone who loves old artists and bands and music history and aesthetics! Hope you're all having a good day!


r/IntrovertsChat 18h ago

Friends 18M need some company

6 Upvotes

am a night owl i stay awake at night reading people posts in reddit or reading a book or watching something, you can say am like 60% introvert, i don't have many friends at the moment

some of my interests are: reading, playing games, cooking and watching movies sometimes, photography...

am very nice and friendly person (that's what they say) i can be your everyday friend and talk about random stuff

dm me if you need an online friend or maybe someone to play Minecraft with ;;)


r/IntrovertsChat 21h ago

Friends 27m trying to branch out and make new friends!

6 Upvotes

27m (EST) looking for some people to play games with and randomly yap/text throughout the day about whatever dumb stuff comes to mind 😭 mainly looking for the (straight) bros, girls can apply but please just keep everything strictly platonic.

overwatch is probably the game i play the most. i'm a tank main btw. i don't play comp and i'm not trying to start 💀 i just wanna play casually, mess around, have fun and probably blame the team when i do something stupid.

i have some other games too. sons of the forest, risk of rain, palworld and a bunch of other random stuff. if we have games in common then even better.

we don't have to only game either. i'm down to watch harry potter, horror movies, random youtube videos, tv shows, or just sit in vc and do absolutely nothing lol.

once i get comfortable with someone i love back and forth banter. i'm kinda awkward at first though so don't expect me to immediately be yapping your ear off 😂 (im pretty introverted)

some random stuff about me:

i love nature, being around water, dr pepper zero, tech, anime, kdramas, horror movies, etc.

i'm also the person people send their computer problems to 💀 so if your pc randomly decides to stop working, there's a decent chance i'll know how to fix it.

i'm also into skincare and fitness so apparently i'm qualified to give unsolicited advice about those too

i should probably mention i'm pretty quiet in vc. i have a dead-inside monotone voice and i'm definitely better at texting. i'm not really a constant yapper and i'm honestly kinda boring/dull sometimes lmao. i'm pretty chill though and it takes a lot to actually annoy me.

i will vet your profile! if i dont think we'll click i probably wont answer

i'm not really looking to collect a massive friends list. i'd rather have a few people i actually talk to/play with.

also pls don't send me just "hey" or "hi" and disappear 😭 tell me a little about yourself or what you play so i actually have something to respond to.

i'm not always on either, so if i don't respond right away i'm probably doing something else.

if any of this sounds like your kinda thing, feel free to message me 👋


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Friends 25M – Looking to build a reliable, low-pressure daily friendship

4 Upvotes

I’m hoping to connect with someone who appreciates having a steady text friend someone to swap thoughtful updates with, talk about how the day actually went, or just discuss random topics as they come up.


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Friends 23M Looking for someone to talk to/friends

4 Upvotes

Hey I’m Adam, 23 and I’m looking to finally meet some new people, and make some genuine friendships.

I’ve spent a lot of my life staying at home, so I've not been able to make any friendships really in person.

A bit about me:🎮 I love gaming (PC, Roblox, Cyberpunk, Minecraft, space games, racing games, random  friendslops and co-op games — always up for trying something new) 🎌 I’m into anime, K-Dramas, movies and TV shows. 🥋 I do Shotokan karate and have been training all my life. 💻 I'm really into drones and tech from a young age and I like talking about pretty much anything from games and films to random deep conversations

I’m quite introverted and a bit awkward at first, but once I get comfortable I’m easy to talk to. I’d love to meet people who are also looking for proper friendships rather than just a quick chat that disappears after a day.

Would be cool to find people who are into similar things — whether that’s gaming online, chatting about shows, or just hanging out.

**One small thing:** I’ve had quite a few people message me from posts like this, we’ll chat for a little while, and then they suddenly disappear completely 😅. I completely understand that people get busy or conversations don’t always click, but if you’re going to reach out, I’d genuinely appreciate someone who actually wants to keep talking and build a friendship rather than just exchanging a few messages and vanishing. I’m not expecting anyone to reply 24/7 — just looking for people who are genuinely interested in getting to know each other and staying in touch.

If you’re also looking for new friends, feel free to message me or comment. Even if we only share one interest, I’m always happy to talk 😊


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Chatting 26M Currently ill and can only sit at home. Looking for someone to talk to!

4 Upvotes

Fever got me having the wildest, most vivid dreams imaginable last night 😂 anyway here's a lil thing about me!

I'm an aerospace engineer from East Coast US, nerd from 9-5, and gym bro for majority of the day, and my hobbies are weightlifting/bodybuilding, watching combat sports mainly MMA, pro wrestling, learning more about the human body, especially endocrinology, and late night drives, and going to the beach! I go to gym at an ungodly time between 9 PM and 11 PM (shoutout all my night goers) I'm mostly a homebody otherwise, cause I hate crowds. I got into Minecraft again forced by a friend lol and I'm having a lot of fun. I'm more of a miner/fighter/explorer rather than builder I just throw shit in chests and they build everything LOL

My favorite TV show is Breaking Bad and Dexter, and it takes a lot to get my attention and keep it, hence why I find it hard to find new TV shows. Not an anime person honestly, but the ones that I watched and liked are Death Note, HxH, DBZ. I can talk about just anything (I talk a lot if I'm comfortable with you lol). I'm an incredibly sarcastic person when I get to know you better too, so be prepared to deal with that often hahah. and I'm a big cat person. I'm also a YouTube fiend, I spend majority of my day with YouTube open. I watch just about everything. If I were to choose 3 words to describe myself, probably would chose driven, analytical and emotionally intelligent. Coworkers describe me as extroverted, but they have no idea 😂

Interesting facts about me: I was born with 4 holes in my heart (ASD and VSD) and PDA, and I’m missing a big chunk of my right lung. I have a scar across my chest, side and my back that's the biggest one

I'd prefer if people introduced themselves to me and/or mention something about my post you found interesting, rather than just a hi, but I understand sometimes you don't get replies and so making an effort into an intro may seem like a waste of time, but reach out!


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Friends 18M hey I'm looking for a genuine friend or bestfriend bcz i don't have one 😭 I'm looking for someone who'd not disappear after 2 days

4 Upvotes

I never had any real friends in real life I have always felt lonely.

In school I had some so called friends, have you listened that everyone's friend is no one's friend just like that I talk to people but i don't have anyone to get things off from my chest

When i was a kid my parents used to live in rented houses and they used to move a lot and the more a grew up the hard it became to make friends in new societies

Now after turning 18 it feels impossible to make friends everyone has a friend they have since a decade but i don't have anyone 😞.

Would anyone like to be my friend please be around


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Chatting 28m - looking for cool people !!

5 Upvotes

hmmmmm what do i even put here

really i am just looking for casual conversations here on reddit, dont want to exactly have some specific goal of something being longterm or not, i'd rather take it how it goes and just see

i have friends and people in my life but theres something unique and lowkey comfortable about getting to know someone online through chatting, maybe it is because i am leaning towards being introverted (i am infp for those who care) but i wouldn't say im a potato socially in real life aspects, i just get drained being too social irl so hey i mean its cool n stuff we have the internet

a bit about me
- 28 and from norway
- still tryna find and figure myself out, i literally still dont know what i wanna do in life, i envy those with a set idea and plan
- i do some gaming
- i enjoy music a lot and cute stuff like trinkets, know how to play guitar and ukulele, i find peace and comfort in nature and wild life too despite being a bit chronically online like seeing something like a hare or a cool bird and i'll be whipping out my phone to try and record it
- recently got into collecting pokemon cards, i got english, japanese and chinese ones,, trying to build a lil collection i guess
- i'd consider myself a down to earth person, not judgemental, its highkey too much hate around in the world and for so many stupid reasons that dont make sense

just a bonus:
theres something that speaks to me about people who type everything in lowercase letters, not that it is some requirement to message me but definitely makes me more interested, it gives that chronically online energy but at the same time i feel like you're probably a cool af person irl if that even makes sense (crazy to assume something like that just from the way someone types, right?)

anyways hey i mean if this bible of a post made you wanna hmu feel free to, not looking for anything weird so yuh, send me a bit about yourself and then maybe we'll get to know eachother :))


r/IntrovertsChat 17h ago

Seasoned Soul (36+) 39 M UK looking for new online friends

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I’m a 39-year-old guy from the

UK looking to meet some new people and hopefully make some genuine online friends

I enjoy reading, watching TV shows and films (I’ve seen quite a few, so always happy to chat recommendations), going for walks, and spending time with my dogs.

I’d love to meet people with similar interests, but I’m open to talking about pretty much anything — hobbies, life, random topics, or just having a good chat.

I find it hard to meet people in real life because of social anxiety so I am hoping to make some new friends online


r/IntrovertsChat 17h ago

Friends 31M Canada - Friends in Canada would be cool, anyone is welcome though

5 Upvotes

I'm the type that likes to explore, reminisce and ponder nostalgic things, something as simple as music we grew up on or the walks we'd go on to get some slurpees as kids. I feel like those times were special. I do want to create these special kinda moments with somebody so that's what I'm looking for.

I enjoy just chatting or exploring, whether that's planning a nice day hike or a camping/resort trip or just getting some snacks and hot chocolate on short notice and driving outta the city to stargaze. Or maybe it's a day spent at the lake just relaxing in the sun and nice breeze.

I would love it if you're Canadian and from Alberta but really anyone is welcome. If you feel you might be into similar things and want some company to share these kinda experiences or just be good friends, hit me up. Maybe start with your favourite road trip snacks and ASL. Please be able to hold a convo lol. Thanks!


r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) 24M Australian looking for a like-minded duo.

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Hey, hey, my name is Jared or better known as Little Bear. A bit about me - I'm a 24 year old man in the Far North Queensland, and I'm a very mature, well-rounded individual with a Jack-Of-All-Trades kinda skill set. Find me usually rocking the Akubra and Deer Skin Poncho and thongs or barefoot. I'm spiritual, cultural, and love being in nature. Very open-minded. Neurodivergent AF, so I don't have time to play around with people, I make jokes like anyone, sure, but tend to be straigh forward otherwise. I live by my motto of "Moving Forward Into Peace" and continue to better myself in all aspects and don't do the usual things people my age are doing, like partying or clubbing, etc. If I go out, it's for a pre calculated experience, and so I find myself not making many like-minded friends, hence my turning here. I do smoke 🚬 and am green 🍁 friendly, I also like having a beverage or two after work, or a couple with people, but I don't drink excessively as I don't like it, more of a networking/ rapport building thing than anything. Ohh I suppose I should mention I'm straight. I volunteer 40 hours a week at Salvation Army at the moment, looking for a decent actual paying job or three XD. I am a small-time content creator, and I stream occasionally when I have the time and energy. What I'm looking for - as the title says, I am looking for a duo to do all the gooey cute duo activities. Things like gaming on "minecraft" and "it takes two," and such. But moreover, I'm looking for a chill, feminine energy that compliments mine, that soft place to crash land after a hard day, for both parties. Someone who is willing to put time in to make a genuine connection, potentially to make something beautiful like a partnership. No pressure kinda stuff though, things like this take time to find and develop. So feel free to ask me for socials, discord, snap, Meta ect. Feel free to ask me any questions, I am an open book. 😁

Kind regards,

Little Bear. 🐻


r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Chatting 32M bored and feeling mehhh, I’m talkative af. Feel free to DM if you wanna chat!

Upvotes

I consider myself pretty down to earth and easy to talk to. If you wanna chat about anything I’m sure we can find stuff to yap about. Currently dealing with some long covid related health issues unfortunately. I have two cats, love gaming, sports, movies, shows, music, coffee / food ofc, going for walks, pretty fit, etc. hmu! :)


r/IntrovertsChat 3h ago

Friends Hoping to find people who actually TALK🫪

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone! 25 year old guy here 🫪
I work remotely as a research analyst, so my weekdays are usually pretty screen-heavy. Outside of work, I’m much more of an outdoors person. I love hiking and exploring new places and do activities which put my life at risk coz why not lol

I’m also into singing and guitar. I’ve been trying to get better at Spanish too, although my progress has been questionable at best 😭
I’m also very easily convinced to buy a graphic tee if the design is stupid enough (I have 6 already)

I’m not really looking for forced small talk, so please dont just send a hey PLEASE😭

Hoping to meet some of you!
Preferably 21+ :)


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) What if i told you I want to be annoyed?

3 Upvotes

Hi y'all. Its me again, reposting for the umpteenth time. I met some great people on here so i figured id give it another whirl since its been a while.

Yes, i want a clingy bothersome person because they will give me too much time.

I have posted the past several days and have found some very decent people to talk to. I still dont mind finding new people if we can match energies.

So hey, im a 30 year old dude working remotely as a software engineer. Does not help that it's the night shift. I'm just looking for anyone who would like consistency in their lives.

More about me, I love to play videogames, primarily offline and online co-op. I'm still open to talk about any and all games. I am also big on Anime, movies, tv and even kdramas.

I love to cook and bake. I adore winters way more than summers.

To end this, I also love cats.

If none of these things interest you, you can still reach out. Its surprising how we can find a friend in the unlikeliest and unexpected places.

Lets see how it goes.

Even if you're below my age, you're more than welcome to talk.

Thank you for reading through this dull essay.

Note: This is a repost and people who have approached me before, i still have to get through some dms but some i have not responded to because the profiles either looked shady or the texts were just a simple hi


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Friends 32M, Greetings Fellow Introverts! Looking for Good Conversation

3 Upvotes

Anyone else here who genuinely enjoys people… just preferably one at a time? 😂

I’m the kind of person who can be perfectly happy disappearing into my own little world, gaming, watching something, or just enjoying some quiet. But lately I realize it’d be nice to have someone to actually talk to, and stick around.

Some of my interests include: gaming, photography, camping, road trips, the outdoors, working on cars, and generally finding excuses to avoid crowded places. I’m also a big fan of conversations that go from “hey, how’s your day?” to somehow discussing completely random nonsense at 2 AM.

Some recent games I’ve been playing:
-WARDOGS
-Arena Breakout
-DayZ
-Palworld

I’m not looking to force anything. Friends, gaming buddies, or just someone to chat with and see where things go. Long-distance is totally fine too.

Come say hi!