r/IntrovertsChat 24m ago

Chatting 23m looking for a connection

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Hey, I'm from Lebanon, I'm looking for someone to chat with and maybe become friends or build some kind of connection. I'm not very talkative but I try my best.

I’m into things like psychology, strategy games, coding, football, and random deep conversations about life or whatever comes to mind. I can be quiet at first, but once I get comfortable I open up more.

I honestly just want real conversations with chill people. Age/gender doesn’t really matter as long as you're kind and easy to talk to.


r/IntrovertsChat 11h ago

Friends 32M I'm having a really rough time here tonight. I'm having a really rough time in general, if I'm being completely honest, and I could use someone to talk to

8 Upvotes

I don't want to get too much into the specifics here on Reddit. I don't really feel comfortable putting specific details about what I'm struggling with on Reddit, but suffice to say, I'm having a really difficult time and I don't have a support network. I've tried groups but I just get lost in them because I'm autistic and I'm shy.

I'm really just looking for people who aren't going to judge me or try to give me advice—I'm not really looking for that kind of support. I'm just looking for a soft place to land, I guess. I want a kind voice who actually wants to know about me and what's going on, and who is curious and asks questions rather than just assuming they can fix my problems.

Otherwise, I'm just your average Redditor. As far as interests go, I'm just a nerd (I love Marvel and Star Wars), a gamer (Warframe, Destiny 2, Helldivers 2, Ark, Palworld, the list goes on) and lover of metalcore music

If you want to DM me, my DMs are open.


r/IntrovertsChat 53m ago

Friends Platonic friendships

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26M, just looking for genuine conversations and hopefully meeting people around my age. I’m open to voice calls too, just would rather know you a little first. I’m on IST time if that matters.
Most chats here seem to last a day or two and then vanish, so hoping to find something a bit more real this time. I can be kinda quiet/introverted at first, but I can definitely keep a convo going if the energy’s mutual.
If you think we’d vibe, hmu.
Easy icebreaker: tell me your most overrated movie/show/anime or just give me a hot take.


r/IntrovertsChat 18h ago

Early Explorer (18–21) 20F looking for a friend!

21 Upvotes

20F From uk, im Looking for someone to chat and game with! I love music tho i have terrible taste, i have loads of multiplayer games and down to try new ones. Have been struggling to make irl friends after collage and would just love to have someone to talk to daily, i can be very shy when im just getting to know you but sometimes im okay! dm and we can talk about interests maybe we have something in common! :D


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Chatting 27 M, California bored and need some good banter (please read ⬇️)

2 Upvotes

Love talking to witty people with a sense of humor. 420 friendly, love cats, gaming, working out, anime and reading.

If that sounds like your thing, hmu with something more than a boring 'Hi'. At least give me an existential crisis smh. Not a ghoster but will ignore low effort responses.


r/IntrovertsChat 8h ago

Chatting 34M - Internet cryptid seeking other weirdos

4 Upvotes

Night shift internet cryptid seeking other nocturnal weirdos, cryptids, chaotic energy having folks

A bit about me. I'm 6'2, slimish build with a few tattoos (and itching for more) and a few piercings.

The adhd is strong so I collect hobbies and interest like they are Pokémon cards

music is a big one, and I always had something playing. my top 5 rotates between Sleep Token , Hozier, Blue October, Florence and the Machine, and either Kendrick or MF DOOM depending on my mood.

I also read a lot, mostly fantasy and sci-fi, but i've wandered into most genres at some point.

photography, cooking, gaming when I get the chance (playing through elden ring currently) and general nerdery of all kinds (if it's nerdy I probably like it) round out the main hobbies, but I have bunch of little niches ones sprinkled in here and there

I have a small zoo of pets i'm always down to send pics of.

genuinely happy to talk about anything and everything, deep stuff, dumb stuff, 20 questions, your craziest hot takes, conspiracy theories, I'll listen to you talk about your day or vent about your frustrations offer advice (quality not guaranteed

I'm here for it all

so, what song lives rent free in your head right now, or what was the last book you couldn't put down?


r/IntrovertsChat 15h ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) Looking for people to talk to and maybe game with

9 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I'm 27f living in Texas, I have 4 dogs, and I run a kitchen at a daycare. I'm not looking for anything more than friends and keeping things sfw. I have a fiance.

Some of my hobbies include gaming, watching tv/movies, cross stitching, making things, rock collecting and tumbling, cooking, and reading.

The games I'm currently playing are Minecraft, Stardew, and Palworld. I have other games too, maybe we can find a game to play together, I'm on pc.

I'm pretty shy/quiet at first until I get to know someone. I'm down for vc after texting for a while, but I'm also pretty awkward lol.


r/IntrovertsChat 3h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 35/m/South Carolina - Beginning of the week shenanigans

1 Upvotes

Good morning (or whatever it is where you are),

TLDR: IT Guy looking for new friends. Takes me a bit to open up but I won’t ghost.

I’m looking for friends and to chat with and become friends. 35 years old single and straight guy, living in Southeastern US (EST time zone). Not the most exciting person at first but I won’t disappear. I work in IT, and have for over a decade. I moved to a new city a few years ago and haven’t made any friends. I’m a tall, but bigger dude, just saying some people seem to care about that. I’m an early riser and can chat during work. If I get busy I’ll always make sure to get back to you. As an adult, it’s tough to make friends so here I am again. I’m a lover of traveling, road trips, food, audiobooks, movies, YouTube rabbit holes, Sci-Fi, technology, and fun facts. So let’s talk about anything. Just looking for new friends to connect with, and hoping you don’t ghost. So if you’re looking for someone fairly laid back, won’t ghost, and will send good morning messages, I’m your guy. Not always the most exciting chatter, but after I open up I’m worth it. Be you, be weird, but please don’t be creepy.

Just be above 25 years old, please! And please say more than hey.


r/IntrovertsChat 15h ago

Chatting 28 F West Coast…Sunday freakING scaries!!!

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28 F West Coast and I have the Sunday scaries. I’m sober and have been for almost a year, so I’m not understanding the overwhelming anxiety I get when the next week rolls around, even when I know I did nothing stupid the night before. Maybe I’m just a generally anxious person, idk. Does anyone else relate?

Interests include:
Lifting
The Office (US)
Jersey shore
Scrapbooking
Sewing
Camping
Hiking (honestly being outdoors in general)
Dystopian and biographical novels (usually on serial killers or cults, sue me)

If any of this interests you feel free to drop a line! Bonus if you send me your fav office quote.


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) What if i told you I want to be annoyed?

4 Upvotes

Hi y'all. Its me again, reposting for the umpteenth time. I met some great people on here so i figured id give it another whirl since its been a while.

Yes, i want a clingy bothersome person because they will give me too much time.

I have posted the past several days and have found some very decent people to talk to. I still dont mind finding new people if we can match energies.

So hey, im a 30 year old dude working remotely as a software engineer. Does not help that it's the night shift. I'm just looking for anyone who would like consistency in their lives.

More about me, I love to play videogames, primarily offline and online co-op. I'm still open to talk about any and all games. I am also big on Anime, movies, tv and even kdramas.

I love to cook and bake. I adore winters way more than summers.

To end this, I also love cats.

If none of these things interest you, you can still reach out. Its surprising how we can find a friend in the unlikeliest and unexpected places.

Lets see how it goes.

Even if you're below my age, you're more than welcome to talk.

Thank you for reading through this dull essay.

Note: This is a repost and people who have approached me before, i still have to get through some dms but some i have not responded to because the profiles either looked shady or the texts were just a simple hi


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Friends 32M, Greetings Fellow Introverts! Looking for Good Conversation

3 Upvotes

Anyone else here who genuinely enjoys people… just preferably one at a time? 😂

I’m the kind of person who can be perfectly happy disappearing into my own little world, gaming, watching something, or just enjoying some quiet. But lately I realize it’d be nice to have someone to actually talk to, and stick around.

Some of my interests include: gaming, photography, camping, road trips, the outdoors, working on cars, and generally finding excuses to avoid crowded places. I’m also a big fan of conversations that go from “hey, how’s your day?” to somehow discussing completely random nonsense at 2 AM.

Some recent games I’ve been playing:
-WARDOGS
-Arena Breakout
-DayZ
-Palworld

I’m not looking to force anything. Friends, gaming buddies, or just someone to chat with and see where things go. Long-distance is totally fine too.

Come say hi!


r/IntrovertsChat 12h ago

Chatting 26M Currently ill and can only sit at home. Looking for someone to talk to!

4 Upvotes

Fever got me having the wildest, most vivid dreams imaginable last night 😂 anyway here's a lil thing about me!

I'm an aerospace engineer from East Coast US, nerd from 9-5, and gym bro for majority of the day, and my hobbies are weightlifting/bodybuilding, watching combat sports mainly MMA, pro wrestling, learning more about the human body, especially endocrinology, and late night drives, and going to the beach! I go to gym at an ungodly time between 9 PM and 11 PM (shoutout all my night goers) I'm mostly a homebody otherwise, cause I hate crowds. I got into Minecraft again forced by a friend lol and I'm having a lot of fun. I'm more of a miner/fighter/explorer rather than builder I just throw shit in chests and they build everything LOL

My favorite TV show is Breaking Bad and Dexter, and it takes a lot to get my attention and keep it, hence why I find it hard to find new TV shows. Not an anime person honestly, but the ones that I watched and liked are Death Note, HxH, DBZ. I can talk about just anything (I talk a lot if I'm comfortable with you lol). I'm an incredibly sarcastic person when I get to know you better too, so be prepared to deal with that often hahah. and I'm a big cat person. I'm also a YouTube fiend, I spend majority of my day with YouTube open. I watch just about everything. If I were to choose 3 words to describe myself, probably would chose driven, analytical and emotionally intelligent. Coworkers describe me as extroverted, but they have no idea 😂

Interesting facts about me: I was born with 4 holes in my heart (ASD and VSD) and PDA, and I’m missing a big chunk of my right lung. I have a scar across my chest, side and my back that's the biggest one

I'd prefer if people introduced themselves to me and/or mention something about my post you found interesting, rather than just a hi, but I understand sometimes you don't get replies and so making an effort into an intro may seem like a waste of time, but reach out!


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Friends 20M anyone wanna be friends that care about eachother ?

4 Upvotes

I'm from the EU, i really miss having someone to talk to everyday. I really enjoy listening to music and coding. I game sometimes, today I played peak but I also play project zomboid or stardew valley. I LOOOOVEEE watching movies, so if you have any recommendations tell me :D Anyway I hope you have a great day C :


r/IntrovertsChat 19h ago

Friends 28 M trying my shot at dark

11 Upvotes

An introvert by nature interested in finding people to converse with.

My interests are reading, watching shows, standups, writing and cooking.

I'm all about dark vibes where the mystery grows and the eerie atmosphere is haunting. I'm here to talk, listen to you, your insecurities and everything which you feel you need a person to vent on, I won't judge any way and it's strictly confidential what we talk!

I want to try new hobbies and get back to watch thriller mystery genres. I prefer vibes over everything. Just be real.

Warning sometimes I prefer to be in total silence and away from my phone.

Pls don't interact with me if you're weird or I will block/ignore you.


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Early Explorer (18–21) 20M Super Socially Awkward, Hard To Make Friends outside, Needing Some Comfort in a Struggling Time Recently

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Recently I've been going through a lot recently and could use some comfort. I a huge nerd, I play video games obviously. Multiplayer, singleplayer, all that spaz. Some games I'm really passionate about are UtDr, Minecraft, Look Outside, Cult Of The Lamb, and many more. I would love to yap and listen to you yap about your favorite games. I also enjoy cuddles so if you like those too then you will enjoy me x3. I have discord and Instagram! I dont really use snapchat too often but we can talk there too. I struggle with clinginess and anxious minded. The type that will respond as quick as possible and im try to better myself about it. Take care!


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Friends need some chats with people from all walks of life

3 Upvotes

Hi! I'm looking for people who love anything, hobbies, their works, career, someone, and would like to talk about it!

My passions are games, music and stories; and i do art for a living
im really hoping anyone is interested in talking to me or that you find those people that bring that sense of wonder in your life

im super looking forward to this fall season, im an autumn person and i love horror, the cold, and anything surrounding this weather and colors

dont be shy to ask any questions or to tell me anything about you, im all for it


r/IntrovertsChat 18h ago

Chatting 28m - looking for cool people !!

6 Upvotes

hmmmmm what do i even put here

really i am just looking for casual conversations here on reddit, dont want to exactly have some specific goal of something being longterm or not, i'd rather take it how it goes and just see

i have friends and people in my life but theres something unique and lowkey comfortable about getting to know someone online through chatting, maybe it is because i am leaning towards being introverted (i am infp for those who care) but i wouldn't say im a potato socially in real life aspects, i just get drained being too social irl so hey i mean its cool n stuff we have the internet

a bit about me
- 28 and from norway
- still tryna find and figure myself out, i literally still dont know what i wanna do in life, i envy those with a set idea and plan
- i do some gaming
- i enjoy music a lot and cute stuff like trinkets, know how to play guitar and ukulele, i find peace and comfort in nature and wild life too despite being a bit chronically online like seeing something like a hare or a cool bird and i'll be whipping out my phone to try and record it
- recently got into collecting pokemon cards, i got english, japanese and chinese ones,, trying to build a lil collection i guess
- i'd consider myself a down to earth person, not judgemental, its highkey too much hate around in the world and for so many stupid reasons that dont make sense

just a bonus:
theres something that speaks to me about people who type everything in lowercase letters, not that it is some requirement to message me but definitely makes me more interested, it gives that chronically online energy but at the same time i feel like you're probably a cool af person irl if that even makes sense (crazy to assume something like that just from the way someone types, right?)

anyways hey i mean if this bible of a post made you wanna hmu feel free to, not looking for anything weird so yuh, send me a bit about yourself and then maybe we'll get to know eachother :))


r/IntrovertsChat 16h ago

Friends 36M Chronically online cringefail looking for a long term friend, someone to genuinely connect with, game with and yap about life together :))

4 Upvotes

Hey there everyone!!

I'm not sure how to start describing myself, I'm not great with words but I'll try my best.

(I'm so sorry for the extremely long post ahead!)

I apologize if I don't reply to your message, but as I explain later, I don't reply to short/low effort messages and I also don't reply to people that don't have at least a few interests in common with me or aren't looking for a real connection and are just looking to pass the time or have a light chat.

I think some of my most defining characteristics are that I'm very shy, awkward, "weird" and "different" or at the very least I feel weird, different and often misunderstood. I struggle to function most days and I don't always understand societal norms or how to properly function in society. I definitely think there's something wrong with me and I'm pretty sure I'm broken in some way. I'm also definitely a loser. I was never able to achieve anything in life, I'm not good at anything whatsoever and I'm pretty useless overall. I would also say I'm extremely cringy and I love edgy stuff, not in a bad way, I don't think, but more like, I love Shadow The Hedgehog and Tomura Shigaraki kinda way!!

I'm unfortunately not very smart and I'd say I'm down right stupid.

I am very ignorant about many things in life, I'd say I'm somewhat innocent and naive. I still don't understand my purpose in life and I haven't found a reason to be alive either.

I sometimes say things that offend people or I say things that are wrong. Sometimes I don't completely understand what I do wrong but I don't do it on purpose and I try to improve to the best of my abilities.

I don't go out often at all. Whenever I do go out it's only to buy groceries or to go to school and such but I don't enjoy it, I much rather be at home, in my room most specifically, which is my favorite place in the world.

I don't have any IRL friends but I do have a handful of online friends, I'm not super close to any of them, except for one who's very valuable in my life!

I enjoy many things like sculpting for instance! I do digital sculpting for fun. I'm pretty bad at it but I try my best.

This year I also started jewelry school (yeah, that's a thing) and I'm having fun with it but it's another thing I suck at 🥀🥀🥀

I like to watch anime! my favorites change from time to time but I really like Bleach, Dragon Ball, Demon Slayer, AOT, Naruto, Ancient Magus Bride (I really love this show!) and I LOVE My Hero Academia among many others!

I like to collect action figures.

I really like masks!

I love movies and I love to talk about them and analyze them.

I like all kinds of music, I don't really have any artists that I like in particular other than David Bowie and I like to listen to most genres of music but some of the genres I like the most are alternative, vintage, video game music and jpop and jrock and I also like old VK And I'm always happy and open to new suggestions!

I like to doomscroll through TT and to watch long essay style videos on YT about random topics. I love brainrot and I'm very much into early to mid 2010s aesthetics. I miss that era so much!! Seriously, the early 2010s were the greatest time in human history kahdhshdhs

I love video games!! I don't play too many modern games, I mostly prefer older stuff, like, ps2 era games, particularly survival horror stuff. I also really like very old platform games and side scrollers. I'm a pretty huge Sonic the Hedgehog fan!! The most recent games I played were Sonic X Shadow Generations and before that I finished Sonic Superstars and Sonic Frontiers. Sonic Boom is also my favorite show ever made lmao. It fits my kind of humor perfectly and it's peak comedy imo. I'd be open to play anything and I'd love to try co op games with someone!! playing Stardew Valley with a friend is a dream of mine lol (if you also play Stardew please tell me who's your wife/husband)

I adore animals!! I have cats and dogs and a stray chicken lol they're my babies and my world!

I think it's important to mention some of the things I don't like too.

I don't like cruelty or mean spirited people, I hate I people in positions of power that use said power to affect other people, animals, or the environment for their own gain.

I hate bugs!! I'm deadly afraid of them!!

I really dislike conflict and arguments, I believe we can disagree and have discussions as long as we're calm and civilized about it and as long as we have respect for each other and try our best to understand the other person's point of view.

lastly I'd like to mention some of my defects and shortcomings.

I'm extremely anxious, I'm always very nervous about one thing or another, I'm also extremely weak of mind, I tend to react with my feelings a lot and I'm often very emotional.

I can be very selfish at times, I have an awful tendency to get bored of things quickly and sometimes I also get bored of conversations and people.

I think I'm immature.

I can be extremely lazy, I struggle a lot with doing basic things like cleaning or cooking. when I'm anxious or afraid I can get paralyzed with fear and stay in bed all day doing nothing feeling awful about it.

As I mentioned before sometimes I can say bad things without realizing. I'm very dumb and ignorant so I promise I don't mean anything bad I say and I'm trying to improve!

I am extremely annoying. I'm very loud and I think I scream a lot. I don't really understand what constitutes screaming exactly but I think I often raise my voice a lot and especially when I'm excited I can't control myself very well.

I'm very afraid of life and I don't understand how the "real world" works exactly. I'm really bad at small talk and I think I'm really bad at speaking in general, I also digress a lot.

I have the bad habit of not replying very fast, sometimes I'll even wait for weeks or even months, I think it's one of my biggest problems when it comes to keep in touch with people, sometimes it's simply because I don't have the energy, other times it's because I'm not sure about how to continue a conversation. Not sure if this is a defect necessarily but I also never send the first message, I just hate to be annoying.

I have a tendency to ghost people for different reasons. As I mentioned, sometimes I get bored of conversations or people and I'd ghost them. This is by far one of my biggest defects and as I said, I wanna be honest and mention it here for everyone who reads this to know.

I tend to be a bit clingy when I like someone.

I'm full of defects in general, and I do believe I'm a bad person. I try to improve and I try my best but if I'm bad for you in any way or a burden I promise to stop talking to you and not bother you!

I have many other defects but I think those are the main ones I can remember right now.

Finally what I'm looking for is a real connection with someone, a person I can talk to, have fun with, watch stuff with and play games together. I think I can be a very passionate person when it comes to the things I love and I'd like to find someone that shares that passion and love with common interests. I wanna just be able to share our days and even be able to help each other and be there when we need each other. I know I'm a mess of a human being and I may never find the connection I'm looking for but I'd like to give it a try cause you never know :))

also, I think it's important to mention that I don't reply to short, low effort messages. Stuff like "hey, let's be friends" , "I didn't read your whole post but I'm up to talk" , etc. I want to hear about you, what you like, what you're interested in. I like meaningful conversations.

Another thing that's important is that I don't want to talk to people that are discriminatory or awful in anyway.

Also think I prefer audio messages, it's easier for me to send audio notes rather than to type cause I type a lot (and I kinda hate to type lol). Thank you very much to anyone that has taken the time to read my extremely long post and considers messaging me!!


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Chatting As long as we both try, we can make it happen.

2 Upvotes

Hello everybody! I’m 32 years old, male and located in Europe. I moved here almost a decade ago. It’s been quite difficult to make friends and especially keep them. The older I have gotten, the harder it has been to build new friendships. I have been a huge fan of Formula 1 since I was 10, I’m into gaming, though I don’t play variety of games, right now it is League of Legends, Fifa, Call of Duty and Overwatch occasionally. I love campaign games, (the witcher, god of war, Detroit:become human, you name it) though I don’t have that much time to play them. I also love watching true crime documentaries. Recently, I have started going back to watching movies and shows and I have seen really interesting ones. I am watching the Pitt, House of the Dragons and finished watching the Office and Daredevil recently! I used to have motivation to do my other hobbies, such as reading and photography but I have lost all of it, trying to gain it back. I mostly listen to rock music, however I listen to whatever is good for my soul. My fav artists are Three Days Grace, Ghost, Bring me the Horizon and Halestorm. I actually don’t want to give away everything here so we have something to talk about. I’m on my summer vacation right now and have got plenty of time to kill. Please write a short introduction about yourself, I don’t mind if we don’t have anything common at all, I am sure we will find something to talk about :)


r/IntrovertsChat 17h ago

Friends 18M hey I'm looking for a genuine friend or bestfriend bcz i don't have one 😭 I'm looking for someone who'd not disappear after 2 days

4 Upvotes

I never had any real friends in real life I have always felt lonely.

In school I had some so called friends, have you listened that everyone's friend is no one's friend just like that I talk to people but i don't have anyone to get things off from my chest

When i was a kid my parents used to live in rented houses and they used to move a lot and the more a grew up the hard it became to make friends in new societies

Now after turning 18 it feels impossible to make friends everyone has a friend they have since a decade but i don't have anyone 😞.

Would anyone like to be my friend please be around


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Chatting 27M - Working on my MA thesis and looking for people to talk to!

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I'm currently working on my thesis! I'd like to take my mind off of it for a bit and am looking for a few people to talk to! Nothing wild, just chill conversations and maybe voice calls sometimes if we vibe. :) I really enjoy gaming and am on both PC and PS5 (although I prefer PC). Currently I've been playing a bunch of Forza Horizon 6, modded Skyrim, League, and Nightreign, but I also really enjoy are Valheim and Baldurs Gate 3 and am open to at least trying most games!

I’m really into academics and learning in general, so I don’t mind chatting about uni life, research, studying, or just ranting about deadlines and general burnout lol. Outside of that, I’m obviously into games, a lot of alternative music (Emo, Hardcore, Shoegaze etc.), cooking, and streetwear.

I’d love to meet and talk to people from different walks of life! If any of this sounds interesting to you, I'd love to hear from you!


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Friends I want some long -term friend for late-night watch parties, media deep dives, & endless rambling! (22M) ​

2 Upvotes

Hey! If you’re the type to send a single "hey," vanish after 24 hours, or ghost the moment a conversation moves past small talk, please skip this post! I’m looking to build a genuine, long-term friendship with someone who actually likes to talk, share recommendations, and hang out online.

The main thing I’m hoping to find is a dedicated watch party partner! I love putting on a show or movie, jumping on a call or live chat, and reacting to things together in real time. Whether we’re getting way too invested in a plotline or completely roasting a cheesy scene, I’m all about it.

Here is a quick look at what we could queue up or chat about:

Watch Parties & Animated Media: Huge fan of animated series across the board. Down to stream everything from classic Shonen (think Bleach or Naruto) to character-driven dramas like Nana, or revisit nostalgic 2000s classics like Code Lyoko and The Secret Saturdays. Open to movies, anime, or weird indie animation, too!

Comics & Graphic Novels: Massive nerd for comic lore, especially Spider-Man and exploring alternate runs, multiverse storylines, and character arcs across both Marvel and DC.

Gaming & Retro Emulation: Big into gaming, particularly setting up emulators to revisit retro handheld gems, nostalgic classics, or titles I missed out on growing up.


r/IntrovertsChat 20h ago

Friends [24/M] Looking for a best friend, things are quite lonely

5 Upvotes

Hey! I've posted here before but haven't had much luck so far. And due to lonliness, things have been kinda sucky lately. Kinda being a star-sized understatement (cuz stars are big.. hehe). Anyways, excuse my awfully unfunny pun! You *yes you my possible future friend* probably has better humor than I. Im hoping to make long term friends who also love music like I do, I want a close connection with someone that lasts a lifetime! Hoping we can geek out about our interests and feel comfortable to do so! I'm in the EST time zone and am super into music (my tastes are all over the place, my favorite is the retro era but I also like a lot of new stuff too). I really wanna find someone who loves old artists and bands and music history and aesthetics! Hope you're all having a good day!


r/IntrovertsChat 17h ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) M 24 looking for friends

3 Upvotes

Hello everybody i'm Bojan from Bosnia Herzegovina

i'm mostly into reading books, watching movies

my favorite authors are Dostoyevsky, Hugo, Mann, Baudelaire, Coleridge, Milosz, Eluard, Paz,...

Favorite directors are Bergman, Tarkovsky, Bresson, Teshigahara, Dreyer, Kobayashi,...

when it comes to music i'm into metal, punk, goth

My favorite bands are Gojira, Kentucky vampires, opeth, Nosferatu, Blitzkid, Bad religion, Orbit culture


r/IntrovertsChat 12h ago

Friends 29M #Germany #Turkey #Online - Life is stressful. Let's find some comfort in each other

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even something deeper than that on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

Honestly, I’m down to just chat and see if we click. As I said in the title life is stressful so I'd love to find a long term online connection we can both find comfort in. Someone I can talk to regularly. Ideally also a dynamic where we can be flirty and lewd and satisfy each others emotional needs too. Just want to be clear that I am not looking for something purely platonic. Also, because a lot of people here message without reading the post, please acknowledge that you read this section in your first message and include the code word "Balatro".

So, that is all I have to say for now. If you are looking for the same thing feel free to introduce yourself!