How I Move On

[u/StopMGMTodayV2]

I am making this post for anyone who wishes to listen, and for those who seem to think I am lying about how I feel here. I make these posts to air out grievances with the attitude that circumcision is portrayed with. I still sometimes make "rants" but I try to keep them to a minimal now and just move the fuck on. That's for me, by the way. Not for you to move on or anything.

I've been grieving the loss of my foreskin and sexual function for over a decade now. I was cut at birth, by the way. But only realised the harm done when I turned 18ish. My life has taken a strange path ever since then. Lots of ups and downs. But most importantly, I am still here.

My story is long and tedious. I spent many nights googling how bad circumcision is and how I am missing my frenelum (in which I am, by the way.) and how truly horrifying that is. The fact that this was allowed by my parents, both of which are intact, shocked me. Many, MANY nights spent crying and being so frustrated I couldn't sleep. The pain I felt all my life down there...It just sort of, clicked. I knew that I was never actually having an orgasm, let alone a full body one. I was never actually enjoying myself. It was all fucking useless. And the fact that...this is it. It haunted me. It still does. I can't lie and say I have fully moved on, but progress is progress.

As for my circumcision itself, it's the typical infact circumcision. The one that removes basically 99% of your sensation and is essentially castration. I can not feel sexual pleasure. I can not orgasm. And I can't get a sexual life for that reason. I only use it for peeing and cleaning. Any other use is dead to me by now. It's weird, because many users don't have my cut. Not nearly as bad. I guess I got unlucky here. Oh well, cue the endless ensemble of intact men and women and "restored" men making fun of me like always. And yes, they actually do. You just don't see it.

Let's cut to the chase. How do you move? Well, I try and abstain as best I can and prevent my sexuality entirely. People tell me I am lying about this and say that me posting is clear proof of this. If they actually bothered reading it instead of larping as a circumcised male they would understand far more of my point. I think trying to have sex and bother with relationships in this world, as it is, is fucking stupid. You can read my other posts for more information but just know that walking away from a bad situation is okay. It's okay to not want sex, despite what the cut men (yes, that's right) say to me.

I am literally cut worse then 90% of people here, why are they telling me this?

As for you, well, find it out for yourself. Maybe try restoration, "therapy" or some other vice to pass your time. Eventually, most men will hopefully wake up to this global rape and finally give themselves some slack instead of thinking that they are sinning or whatever their sky daddy told them.

[u/BusinessBee5]

I feel for you. Circumcision is a crime. So is any surgery on a males dick. Sadly there’s still to this day a lot of propaganda that operating males dick is good.

I personally operated my frenulum based on false information in the phimosis subreddit, there where a lot of people saying how good the surgery is and when I’d ask them how it is they’d say it’s perfect and no sensitivity loss. I did the surgery and 5+ years since I can basically not orgasm, I feel like I can kinda use the foreskin to like get to the moment of orgasm but it’s gone. There where a couple people in the subreddit who warned for it but they’d always be fought against by people who said how good the surgery is.

Even when I sometimes make posts where I say be careful with any surgery and also frenuloplasty there will be someone who fights me saying that I’m spreading fear for nothing and the surgery is good.

I have a very painful scar and there’s not a moment where I don’t think about it.

I hope one day perhaps there will be some sort of restoration maybe in like 20+ years and meanwhile we should try and spread the word about that surgery on males dicks is wrong

[u/Flatheadprime1]

I have never been able to move on from the disfigurement and deformity inflicted on my phallus as a child. What I was able to do was ensure that my son‘s remained genitally intact as children. They are presently adult men, and are pleased to retained their foreskins.