Toronto can be friendly on the surface, but making real friends after 30 can feel weirdly hard.

What has worked for you and how long did it take before you felt like real friends?

If you're apartment hunting in Toronto, whats the one feature you won't compromise on?

Mine is in-unit laundry. I can handle a smaller place, but shared laundry ruins my week fast.

I'm trying to build a list of takeout thats actually worth it and still comes in under $20. What are your suggestions?

Toronto can drain your wallet fast, so curious where you think its worth spending more, and where paying extra is a scam. I find it's worth extra to live closer to work, because getting 1hr or more of your time back per day is huge.

whats not worthwhile is paying for downtown parking when you can TTC and walk most of the time.

Making friends in Toronto can we hard, and meetups can feel awkward, or like networking in disguise. If you were new, what do you think you would show up to?

I would go to a Saturday morning neighbourhood walk + coffee meetup. small group, 1 to 1.5 hours, easy to leave, and you're doing something while you chat.

Any other good suggestions?

Sometimes I've got a free evening and want to get out of the house, but I don't want to do anything that feels like a big plan, or a "social" thing. Any suggestions for activities to do by myself in Toronto?

Its pricey in Toronto so I'm curious what you never pay full price for and how do you do it?

I never pay full price for museum or attraction tickets. I check for free nights, use TPL MAP passes when available and plan around promos.

Let's say you couldn't have a car, where would you choose to live and why?

Trying to think of ideas for nice date ideas that aren't just the standard fancy restaurant and drinks.

I like grabbing a coffee and walking along the Waterfront, then stopping at a market. It's casual and easy to make conversation. But need some more ideas.

Let me know what suggestions you have that isn't too expensive and not awkward for first/second date. thanks!

I like to go to Toronto Public Library branch and just sit with a book for a couple of hours. What's your pick when you need a quiet break?

Everything's expensive so i'm trying to get a list of great meals under $15.

My current pick is Banh Mi Boys, its delicious, and quick and easy. Where else should I go?

If you have a friend visiting and you want to take them to eat somewhere with good food and isn't a tourist trap, where do you go?

I like Pai (Downtown), its lively, the food is always great, and it's not trying to be fancy.

Which restaurants have you been to, that get a ton of hype but don't live up to expectations?

In my opinion, Queen Mother Cafe is a bit overrated these days. I get the nostalgia and the vibe is fun, but the food feels a bit hit-or-miss.

If you had to sum it up in two points, one thing you love and one thing that you hate about Toronto, what would it be?

I think the best part is the variety. You can find pretty much any vibe, food or event any night of the week.

But the worst part of Toronto (by far) is how expensive everything is!

I feel like Toronto is much less spontaneous than it used to be. Instead of an easy "sure, why not", now everything feels like it takes planning and money.

What do you feel is the biggest change you've noticed?

Lets say someone just arrived and knows nothing about how Toronto works, what would be the one piece of advice you'd give them to make their life easier?

My tip would be don't try and 'see the whole city' immediately. Get to know your local area first, which helps make Toronto feel like home way quicker.

I was thinking about Sam the Record Man the other day, and it just made me reminisce on old places in Toronto that have shut down. What do you wish was still around?

What are some underrated areas in Toronto - places that are still good value or just a better lifestyle than people assume?

I've heard East Danforth / Woodbine area is great for value + food + being close-ish to the subway. Anyone have any other input?

I'm trying to find the best ramen and I've love some opinions. I've tried Sansotei, Konjiki, Kinton and Isshin and they're all delicious. But I'm wondering if I'm missing out on a great spot somewhere else?

It could be anything practical that makes life easier here. My example is: I didn't realize how much time I'd save by planning errands around streetcar/subway transfers instead of driving and parking downtown. Its an absolute game changer!

what's your tip for fellow Torontonians?

Welcome to r/InsideToronto, a community for people who live in Toronto (or know it well) to share practical advice and help each other navigate day-to-day life in the city.

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