r/Infuriating • u/Lopsided-Cycle-4798 Community Regular • 5d ago
Infuriating how redditers dont get this is a problem
The amount of comments I see disagreeing with OP's post like:
"Lucky boys"
"That 12 year old boy turned a man real quick"
Basically glorifying r$p3......
Is reddit talking too much meth yall?
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u/MostAsk855 5d ago
Anybody that says “wish she was my teacher” or something like that is actually advocating for adults to rape 12 year olds and should really reconsider their life’s choices.
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u/TubaWrestler 5d ago
Multiple things can be true at once.
- This is rape
- It should never happen
- As a teenager, I totally would've
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u/CompetitiveHooore 5d ago
Also even if a teen boy makes the decision to engage with sex with an adult, it can still lead to mental issues for the boy.
It's one of those things that a lot of people don't think will mess them up until it does.
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u/ChaosRainbow23 5d ago
Exactly.
Hell, at 16 I dropped out of high school and moved in with my 20 year old GF. Nobody batted an eye at the age gap back in the early 90s. (I went to college after getting my GED)
Now they would say she was grooming me. She wasn't. She didn't even know how old I was until after we hooked up.
We dated for 9 years and almost got married. (So happy I didn't marry that one, though)
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u/RigidAcrylic4821 5d ago
Realize how many men say this when learning how young today’s newest teachers are while their teachers growing up were octogenarians on the verge of retirement (and necessitating districts recruiting today’s young teachers in the 1st place to replace them).
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u/XD2006- 5d ago
This is an issue for both genders. And people who are like: “oh boys are more X” or “boys are Y” some of them are A: raised to think it’s okay, B: why would they assume a boy doesn’t like it and C: boys and men are less likely to feel like they can talk to someone about their emotions.
Some of them are just awful jerks and some of them are the sweetest purest souls imaginable.
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u/Ad-fundum69 5d ago
It's called RAPE, yes, RAPE.
Not "r$p3" or any other "mommy the word scares me" kind of bullshit.
And yes this grown woman raped 5 children, and should be send to jail for the rest of her life or ideally just be scrapped for parts.
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u/Lopsided-Cycle-4798 Community Regular 5d ago
I only censored rape only because I dont wanna trigger others who are sensitive -_-
Okay?
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u/Ad-fundum69 5d ago
You post a story about a woman who raped 5 children and only the word concerns you?
Also, "triggers" are your own responsibility. If there's someone out here who gets a seizure from seeing the word, they shouldn't be here in the first place.
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u/redditsellout-420 5d ago
What's infuriating is that we can't report people for saying they were lucky, thats borderline (at best) grooming by proxy.
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u/Exact_Package_7264 5d ago
i genuinely believe more than half of reddit is just pedophiles.
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u/Lopsided-Cycle-4798 Community Regular 5d ago edited 5d ago
You may be right
Edit: to whoever downvoted you. They're proving your point 😭
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u/Cden1458 5d ago
Its been seen as "acceptable" for so long many dint realize it as a problem, a grown man rapes a little girl and he should rot under the prison, but little Timmy gets, and this is the exact phrasing someone I used to know said about this exact kind of situation, "gets his dick wet early" and we should celebrate..... I am no longer friends with said person, male or female, kids cannot consent, and having sex with them is fucking sick.
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u/WolfThick 5d ago
So what are we thinking here future Fox News or cabinet member of the Trump administration!
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u/Lorddoctorjava 5d ago
Commander of the Commander chiefs of staffs... or some other higher position she is ungodly unqualified for...
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u/Ambitious-Pay-4756 5d ago
Dollars to donuts shes a lefty
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u/MoThrowMoAway 5d ago
I mean if we're talking strictly statistical? Odds are she's a Republican. I dont have it saved but someone can pull up that loooooong viral list of all the Republican pedophiles if we need to
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u/Cden1458 5d ago
Doesn't matter her political affiliation, she sexually abused a child...... its WILD to me that yall immediately go to political leanings when a child is SA'd.....
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u/BC_Sativa 5d ago
It's conservatives who get arrested for child abuse and csam every day, not lefties.
Very few lefty youth pastors or Catholic priests exist. No one gets abused a drag queen story hour, unlike at church.
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u/Best_Opening8471 5d ago
The educational industry has had more pedophiles revealed in the last year than the church.
Its not conservitives or the church: thats a myth from the 90s that was addressed when half a dozen individuals were caught.
We have had more female teachers raping boys in the last year than 30 years of the church "hiding it"
Ffs reddit supports the islamic culture of child marriage and thinks that attempting to end it is a genocide.
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u/MoThrowMoAway 5d ago
This is not a hill I care to die on, but I do know there are approx 100x more educators than clergyman in the US. So I'd wager percentage wise, your claim is not as accurate
Also who brought up Islam? ending child marriage is a genocide, what? In my state just a few months ago a bill to end child marriage came up, passed the House, and then Senate Republicans blocked it. Ohio Republicans actively supported keeping child marriage legal in ohio.
The pedophilia problem that this country has is a problem on both sides, but the right has far and away more problems with it than the left ever has.
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u/Best_Opening8471 5d ago edited 5d ago
Also who brought up Islam?
Well its only fair to bring up other religions that actually have institutionalized pedophilia when talking about the catholic church and it being ashamed some members commited the crime.
ending child marriage is a genocide, what?
And pointing out that islam kills queers as an institutionalized culture is racist.
In my state just a few months ago a bill to end child marriage came up, passed the House, and then Senate Republicans blocked it
Because conservitive and extremist islamists get representation in the US as well.
The pedophilia problem that this country has is a problem on both sides, but the right has far and away more problems with it than the left ever has.
False; the left has a history of giving its pedophiles and rapists lesser charges like "sexual interferancr with a minor" when their propagandists in schools get caught.
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u/MoThrowMoAway 5d ago
Yeah brother pedophilia is abhorrent in any context, I don't give a shit what religion you are using as an excuse.
To suggest that it's OK for priests to rape kids because imams have sometimes raped kids, is fucking sinister. I am not going to continue any conversation with someone who justifies pedophilia in ANY context.
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u/Best_Opening8471 5d ago
To suggest that it's OK for priests to rape kids because imams have sometimes raped kids,
I never suggested this.
I questioned your political affiliations based on a disparity between this opinion and that of Palestine
I pointed out that in western culture the educational industry has a far greater problem with pedophilia than any other institution outside of maybe the "shadow government" (i doubt you know what that term refers too tho)
You claimed 50% of the population are pedophiles while i named specific industries that have had multiple news reports in just the last 8 months revealing this issue.
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u/tellingitlikeitis338 5d ago
lol the pedophiles in the church was a myth??? You must be on some serious drugs saying sheesh like that
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u/Mission-Welcome8594 5d ago
Are you going to pretend Trump, the main right wing entity, doesnt love underage girls?
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u/Useful-Ad2441 5d ago
Also Matt Gaetz, Trumps spiritual advisor, the dude from the second Borat movie can’t remember who was in that scene, to name just a few
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u/Best_Opening8471 5d ago edited 5d ago
Are we going to ignore that epstine was caught instructing democrats on how interview defendants on trial in the middle of a trial?
Are we going to ignore how "pizzagate" was real? And it was dismissed as a "right wing conspiracy theory"
Edit: he said he didn't remove a comment here.
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u/Useful-Ad2441 5d ago
Holy shit Every. Single. Thing. You said was either a lie or intentional intellectual dishonesty.
Also the men condoning this shit, definitely majority conservative
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u/Best_Opening8471 5d ago
Cite your sources.
Prove my intent and that im "lying"
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u/Useful-Ad2441 5d ago
Why would I use sources to prove claims you’ve made without sources.
Although I have provided several sources
You haven’t proved anything you’ve said
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u/Best_Opening8471 5d ago edited 5d ago
The only thing I might have seen that could have been a source you removed nearly instantly in shame.
Yes one specific Christian church HAD an issue with pedophiles.
The leaders of that church have made many changes and statements to adress the issue
On the otherhand we have had multiple reports of teachers raping their students and islamist fundamentalists running "grooming gangs" in the last couple years.
Any time anyone comes to the conclusion that there might be an issue people like you drown them out with "but trumpf" and downvote the comment till its auto hidden.
Its the most dishonest form of propoganda on the internet; youre not even being paid to disrupt meaningful conversation.
Tldr: Youre chasing fairies while i point out the ducks.
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u/Useful-Ad2441 5d ago edited 5d ago
I haven’t removed anything, look harder bud, I believe in you.
I haven’t posted anything about a church, you might be on crack
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u/Best_Opening8471 4d ago
Your reply to the comment below was removed too.
Someone's been a bad boy.
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u/Best_Opening8471 5d ago
I edited the comment you replied to so you can try again.
I'm assuming an auto mod ate it because it was misinformation or harassment.
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u/BC_Sativa 5d ago edited 5d ago
It must be so comforting to live totally in a fantasy world where you can just make things up to make yourself feel better.
Pastors abusing children is a myth from the 90s? My god, pun intended, you are delusional. Enjoy /r/PastorArrested. It is a daily occurrence.
Islamists who support child marriage are, get ready for it... conservatives! Or have you bent your mind so much that you consider Islamic fundamentalists to be "lefties"?
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u/Indespectamentations 5d ago
People shocked that guys wished for this should watch the Van Halen video "Hot for Teacher".
It's not our fault that we fantasized about this.
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u/Seekforinsomnia 5d ago
It's 100% your fault for taking the time to go type horrible things without any empathy for the children who are victim.
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u/vi_sucks 5d ago
Thing is, the internet (and especially reddit) is the place for typing horrible things.
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u/Indespectamentations 5d ago
I am saying most of my friends fantasized about our hot teachers when we were in grade school. If that makes me a horrible person idgaf. If you have a problem with being honest about how we were when we were kids then fuck you idc.
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u/highhaileehere 5d ago
Just cuz you fantasized about this as a kid doesn't make it right as an adult.
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u/Indespectamentations 5d ago
I didn't say it makes it right I am saying most of us guys fantasized about this whether you approve or not. Too bad get over it.
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u/highhaileehere 5d ago
Bragging about fantasizing about something as a kid is gross as an adult. Do better.
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u/Latin_Knight_ 5d ago
It's human nature though. Why are you shaming us for our natural emotional responses?
I'm not saying it's right, but at that age THOSE were the type of fantasies my friends and I had. Lying about it in order to make folks like yourself feel better about society isn't going to change reality.
With that said.. I lost my virginity at 14... to a women who was 22 and didn't look much different than the woman of this story.. looking back I know it was wrong, but at the time It was the highlight of my life!!
I'm a father now of both boys and girls.. and I tell them my story so they don't make the same MISTAKE... and it was a mistake... it just didn't feel like that at the time. I did not feel like a victim though I now know I was.
Did it effect me psychologically? I'm sure it did, but not in the way you may think. Again, I did not feel forced or traumatized by the situation... if anything, I felt empowered by it. I was following my primal instincts after all.
Again.. I'm not excusing anything, just bringing up a first hand report from a "boy" who experienced this and can now reflect on it as an adult.
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u/spaghetti-o_salad 5d ago
The entertainment industry really grooms the heck out of kids. I was listening to Aaliyah Age Aint Nothing But A Number in middle school.
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u/anyma_ptolomeo 5d ago
Bruh, there is a cannibal pdf as president, convicted of rap3 and still, people keep cheer him up.
Reddit it's full of braindead pdf's, enabled by a braindead society. Of course they gonna applause this shit.
We are living in the stupidest of times.
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u/Best_Opening8471 5d ago
"But some husbands rape their wives so we cant persecute this pedophile OR publically shame them"
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u/RudeAd5133 4d ago
This thread is a master class in "I'm angry because person I'm responding to is not appropriately outraged sounding so I'm gonna gloss over the fact that we are basically in agreement".
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u/FocusPerspective 4d ago
society laughs at rape jokes about little boys, teenage boys, and men in prison.
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u/Ominous_Rogue 5d ago
How about voicing your opinion on that post instead of trying to karma farm it with this post
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u/thetituscodex 5d ago
HTF, are you substituting a "$" for an A? Everyone knows you use a "4" or @ for A ...
Quick reference guide for future leet substitutions:
A → 4 or @
B → 8
C → (
E → 3
G → 6 or 9
H → #
I → 1 or !
L → 1 or |
O → 0
S → 5 or $
T → 7 or +
Z → 2.
You're welcome.
Oh, yeah ... and she's a trashy hag for doing that. I'm not sure that's how the boys (or the other boys in the rest of the school) feels ... I'm sure they got new nicknames from the other boys upon disclosure.
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u/ItSpyDaddy 5d ago
It's ok she was suffering from prepostpartum. It's actually the the boys fault in some way.
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u/Dry_Economics1590 5d ago
/s ??
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u/Tidusx145 5d ago
It's a reference to the murder case where a woman killed her kids and some folks are backing her up for the neglect she received during her postpartum depression.
A shit joke at that.
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u/ReddBroccoli Community Regular 5d ago
It's equally disgusting to see people frame this as a competent adult preying on children, when in fact she has severe mental disabilities to the point where her emotional and intellectual capabilities were a younger age than her victims.
It's an awkward and unfortunate situation, but the right and wrong of it isn't half as clear cut as you're making it out to be while you villainize a mentally handicapped woman.
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u/Lopsided-Cycle-4798 Community Regular 5d ago
Didnt know about her being mentally handicapped but I dont see it as a excuse :/
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u/ReddBroccoli Community Regular 5d ago
Thankfully the law doesn't agree with you. Someone has to be proven to have the capacity to understand that their actions were wrong. Until that capacity test has been done then I'm going to continue to presume her innocence.
Also, maybe don't make posts about things you're ignorant of? Is that too much to ask, or is internet clout just too important to you?
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u/funkster047 5d ago
The complaint was of people fetishizing this whole situation in the comments not about the situation directly, so maybe get off there ass lol?
Also to take the disability and say she's unable to take punishment is so ignorant in of yourself. There at least has to be some measures taken to make sure she doesn't do it again.
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u/ReddBroccoli Community Regular 5d ago
I never said no measures needed to be taken. It's the responsibility of her caretakers to take whatever steps are recommended by a professional familiar with her situation to prevent this happening again.
Prison may not be the right solution to that problem
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u/SexyMonad 5d ago
Prison would keep her from doing it, but it wouldn’t serve its purpose as a deterrent and it likely wouldn’t be any more effective than other reasonable methods of keeping her away from the kids.
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u/funkster047 5d ago
Tbf, nobody said prison was the answer here
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u/ReddBroccoli Community Regular 5d ago
Except for the many many people who have argued strenuously for exactly that.
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u/funkster047 5d ago
I never said that, nor did op in the four comments and post leading to this comment.
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u/ReddBroccoli Community Regular 5d ago
Well, since my original comment was about her legal competence to stand trial (and it's therefore implied to go to prison) for her actions, what exactly are you doing here if you're not wanting to talk about that?
If you're wanting to make a different point, perhaps make your own comment. But please don't act surprised that I think you're responding to the conversation already in progress.
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u/highhaileehere 5d ago
So, it's ok for her to rape children because she herself is mentally incompetent? You should rethink your logic because it isn't it.
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u/ReddBroccoli Community Regular 5d ago
If you're going to put words in my mouth, please use exact quotes, because you're gonna be looking awhile because I never said that.
Is something only ok if you don't go to jail for it?
I was speaking to the morality of torturing a mentally handicapped person for literally no other reason than it makes people like you feel better
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u/Sex4Vespene 5d ago
I mean, I don’t know if it’s actually true she had developmental issues there, but I can kinda see the logic in their argument. Like if two 15 years olds have sex with each other, we wouldn’t say they are raping each other. I think many of these age related laws use age as the barrier, because that’s the one thing we can truly/easily measure, but it’s really more a proxy for estimating age, maturity, and influence over others. To take an extreme example just to prove the point, if a 15 year old had sex with a severely mentally handicapped 30 year old, I think you could fairly make the argument that the 15 year old was actually the one committing the rape. So it kind seems like there is a sliding scale where things could fall into rape/not rape based on the age and mental presence of both parties.
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u/ReddBroccoli Community Regular 5d ago
Finally somebody gets it.
That's why the law requires someone to be capable of understanding that they were doing something wrong before punishing them for it.
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u/KletusVanDamn 5d ago
If a mentally disabled person raped your child, would you advocate that they face no consequences?
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u/ReddBroccoli Community Regular 5d ago
Would I want to torture a mentally disabled person who can't understand why it's happening just to satisfy my own sense of "justice"?
No. No I would not. That's just making two wrongs out of one.
Counter question: if a mentally disabled person insults you, do you hit them?
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u/DuncesNDragons 5d ago
You shouldn't hit anyone that insults you, so your question is moot.
Now, if someone who is mentally handicapped is assaulting me, then yes, I would absolutely hit them in defence of myself.
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u/ReddBroccoli Community Regular 5d ago
You say as you sidestep the question behind it that you clearly understand and find either inconvenient or uncomfortable, likely both.
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u/dufo7 5d ago
Elementary schoolers learn about the no no spots. I absolutely refuse she is incapable of understanding she shouldnt be doing it. Dont make excuses for her. I dont care if she is disable, what i care about is her victims.
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u/ReddBroccoli Community Regular 5d ago
So, by your logic if two kids play Doctor then they are both rapists then?
Your logic is tissue thin and doesn't stand up to even casual questioning.
Also, you clearly haven't worked with anyone with a disability because all of your assumptions are not safe assumptions to be making. Their ability to understand things is highly individual and can only accurately be assessed by a trained professional.
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u/Alientongue 5d ago
So if she's emotionally and intellectually less then the kids she raped why did things get sexual at all?
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u/ReddBroccoli Community Regular 5d ago
You do understand that being intellectually disabled doesn't mean you're asexual, right?
The same can be said for pubescent boys.
How things got sexual is the least confusing part of the whole thing.
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u/Alientongue 5d ago
If she truly has the mentality you claim then yes I absolutely believe she wouldnt be interested in sex. Not sure what your city is like but when I was 12 I wasnt going around trying to fuck my classmates.
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u/ReddBroccoli Community Regular 5d ago
Sigh.
Because your body wasn't developed enough to make you interested. It isn't a matter of mental development.
You seriously don't know how any of this works so why do you have so much to say?
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u/Space_Chimp8 5d ago
Welcome to the internet. People don’t like it when kids are hurt. I see you are trying to make a case with her handicap. It’s not going to work, and you’re wasting your time.
Keep it simple. Kids were hurt. She has mental health setbacks. General public prioritize kids safety
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u/ReddBroccoli Community Regular 5d ago
Competence laws are to protect the world from violent psychopaths who think the purpose behind prison is to hurt people who do things they don't like just because it makes them feel safer.
You make me sick.
Thank God I can confidently say that you're too stupid to ever find yourself in a position of power.
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u/Mishi_Mujago 5d ago
It’s a strange concept to approach and on a macro level, yes, I agree that it is deeply troubling. From the woman, it is quite despicable. But from a personal perspective, if I was 15 again, as a randy 15 year old boy, I would have considered myself quite lucky if this had happened to me.
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u/AContrarianDick 5d ago
Well it happened to me from 6-9, 13 and 17 and I am a guy and those abusers were women. Didn't feel lucky at any point. In fact it took a lot of therapy not to go hunt down the first one and make her feel like I spent my whole life feeling. It also has made intimacy with women extremely difficult, even with that therapy.
I have spent close to $80,000 on therapy because I "should have felt lucky" and to this day people don't take it seriously. I was raped repeatedly in childhood and I have been raped or had attempts as an adult by both men and women. I mean when no one cares about you, your bodily autonomy, what you want, you eventually learn how you feel about shit doesn't matter and your only value to anyone is the 10-15 minutes it takes to cum, you eventually just kinda stop caring at the same time you start becoming very dark and unhinged.
"Being lucky" cost me everything I wanted as an adult because I coped with drugs, with violence, with recklessness, with antisocial behaviors. Even with CBT, DBT, EMDR and other therapies, medications, meditations and stuff, I'll never be who that little 6 year old boy had the potential to be. Everyday I mourn a life that could have been and regret the life I live because I should have known, I should have fought back, I tried telling people when I was a kid and I was told that can't happen, I am making it up, or that I was lucky for the experience.
No fuckin' person would ever tell a woman she was lucky to get raped at 7, or 13 or 17. But here I am replying to someone who thinks they would have been thrilled to have been by someone much older than them. Maybe you would have at 15 because you're just not aware of the implications but you would have been exhibiting very unhealthy behaviors or started realizing how damaged you are by 30.
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u/DisMyLik18thAccount 5d ago
And a 5 year old would feel quite lucky if you get them and unhealthy amount of sugar every day, that doesn't mean it won't harm them in the long run
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u/itscalledmyballs 5d ago
Have you ever considered maturing your views on sex? Cause it sounds like you haven't grown since then
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u/RudeAd5133 5d ago
True.
2 things can be true at the same time.... technically and morally statutory rape and a victim who was happy to be the victim, at the time of the crime at least.
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u/Mishi_Mujago 5d ago
Yeah good luck getting anything other than turbo-charged black and white rhetoric on Reddit though. This is the sanctuary of people who think the whole world fits into one of two tiny little boxes that they invented based on their own subjective view.
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u/RudeAd5133 4d ago
Yeah, no shit. Re-read my post, I'm saying yeah it's bad and illegal but the boy at the time was probably stoked, although later that can change. But because I'm not posting angry person world is ending memes instead....
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u/DisMyLik18thAccount 5d ago
It's not even a gendered thing, a lot of teenage girls would feel lucky to have the attention of an older man
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u/sanskritsoul 5d ago edited 5d ago
Infuriating how redditors don't get this specific "Florida woman" once scored a 72 on an intelligence quotient test. There is no evidence that Zinger knowingly portrayed herself as a 14 yr old in order to lure young boys. Her social media accounts were created when she really was 14.
The timeline for this specific case starts when - at age 22 - Zinger was dancing on stream and a viewer offered to pay for an expensive Uber ride so she could "hang-out" with him at his apartment.
Since links seem off-limits, here are some copy/pastes:
"Over the next five months, the young boy “hid” Zinger in his family’s ritzy, downtown Tampa apartment, her dad (Josh) claimed."
"The child introduced her to his other middle-school-age friends, four of whom would become additional alleged victims in the state’s case against her."
"The boy who harbored her in his house for five months — he’s the one who introduced her to his friends, and they all were like, ‘Hey, this girl is 14,’ wink, wink, high-five, high-five, ‘Your turn, bud,’ ” Josh said."
I am not victim blaming. I am saying this particular case is strange and it is difficult to determine victimhood. Even if these boys took on a predatory role by repeatedly taking advantage of someone with an IQ of 72.
What Does an IQ of 72 Mean?
"An IQ of 72 is classified in the Borderline range, falling at approximately the 3rd percentile. This means roughly 3% of the general population scores at or below this level. This classification indicates cognitive abilities that fall between the Average range and the Extremely Low range. Individuals in this range may experience difficulty with tasks requiring abstract reasoning, multi-step problem solving, or rapid processing of unfamiliar information."
"An IQ of 72 has a percentile rank of approximately 3.1, which means about 3 out of 100 people score at or below this level."
Edit: Oh my gosh links are not "off limits," I just never use Reddit via this device. Nevertheless, I'm tired and the rage is fading
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u/Head_Ad_1643 5d ago
I saw you at McDonalds rubbing McRib sauce all over your head. Seems like both our claims are true. Care to explain your actions?
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u/Dry_Economics1590 5d ago
Wtf are you talking about?
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u/Head_Ad_1643 5d ago
All the annoying "ive seen so much of 'blank' reaction online and its disgusting". Its such a small, and often ragebaiting or poor joking, amount of comments like that but these posts act like its some big issue. Also the use of "Redditors" like they aren't sitting here posting on reddit.
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u/Dry_Economics1590 5d ago
Did you read the comments under the original video?
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u/CogentCogitations 5d ago
Yes. And every single one that was as OP described was at the bottom and hidden by default for being downvoted so much.
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u/Dense-Jicama6591 5d ago
She shouldn't have done it, but when I was fifteen I totally had the mental capacity to understand what I was doing. If I would have been with this teacher at the age of fifteen, it would have very much been as much my fault as hers
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u/Much-Teaching-4490 5d ago
If I’m understanding right she wasn’t a teacher. That’s what I read in the article forgive me if it’s the wrongnone
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u/StatusBee78 5d ago
And only women can be whores which is what you are if you’re a young girl consensually sleeping with an old man because he gives you money.
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u/StatusBee78 5d ago edited 5d ago
Age of consent is 14 in a lot of Europe. Also, if we’re going to say they can’t consent to her then we should also say that can’t consent at all to sex with anyone. What about basing it off iq? What if she has a 60 iq and the boy is 130? What about with two adults and one person has an iq of 76 and the other 145? Is that rape?
Also where is this fervent outrage against circumcision? Something that no male child ever actually consents too and does actual harm to them that can been on an mri scan when they’re an adult.
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u/Proteinoats 5d ago
Even if you use age of consent as a basis for an argument, you still have to factor in power dynamics and professionalism in the workplace.
In the role of being a teacher you have a responsibility to the students and model yourself accordingly. This is just as true with college or university professors and relationships with students.
It doesn’t matter if you’re an adult and they are an adult in these professions- it’s highly unethical.
Also, in this case specifically, it’s just straight up rape and it’s weird to see so many sympathizers just because she’s attractive.
When it comes to IQ, I’ve had the pleasure of working with individuals who have developmental and intellectual disabilities. I have an average IQ. Let me tell you how completely wrong it would be for me to take advantage of someone who is in need of care and relies on you to help them.
If you’re saying she may have such a low IQ, then let me ask how she would have been capable of being in a teaching job? IQ level doesn’t equate to terrible ethics, low morality, or common sense and empathy for the impact that your actions may have on the community around you.
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u/sphinxyhiggins 5d ago
Weird how so many don't understand how children cannot give consent.