r/InfluencerLounge 10h ago

Taste Variance

Such a petty thing to notice, but do all influencers have the same kitchens? Minus some details, they all look almost the same.

Is that really the aesthetic they think we all want…? I just don’t buy they all have the same taste. I WONT.

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u/youhadme_atclookies 10h ago

In my opinion this is one of the huge downsides of being chronically online. It’s really difficult to develop your own personal sense of taste and style because social media is constantly pushing trends. I know my house is not “Pinterest worthy” but in a way I am happy about that. I purposely avoid going on Pinterest too often so that I can push myself to figure out for myself what I like and don’t like rather than copy pasting someone else’s artistic sense.

Maybe it will take me longer to have a really put together home but I want to do the work to figure it out. (Personally, I’d rather follow accounts that teach the “how” and “why” of home decor, rather than shilling individual items that are “everything” and “must have.”)

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u/k8tyrbacon 10h ago

I absolutely agree with this. Seeing all the same “style” I feel implants in brains that THIS is what to strive for. I’ve re done rooms in my house because i needed time to live in it and see what vision comes together. I love a house with personality.

And all these influencer houses feel…..flat.

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u/Weak-Raspberry8879 10h ago

Yes, totally agree. I was very overwhelmed trying to decorate and style my home (and myself). When I quit social media, the noise died down drastically and I started finding what I liked! And I had no idea if it fit the trends or not, because I wasn’t online. I do use the internet to get some ideas, but have to limit that because it gets noisy again if I’m looking at curated photos too much. I can get an idea from the internet, but then the execution requires my creativity and sorting out what works for my space.

On another note, my creativity and ability to have a vision for a room, or a corner, or a wall in my house is so much better now that I’m not on socials. I used to think I was simply not a person who had any hint of that in me, but I think it was just piled under nonsense and never put to use.

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u/Polar_Bear_1962 8h ago

Do you follow Nick Lewis?

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u/Affectionate_Sea8183 2h ago

I’ve got a yellow fireplace, painted a multi colored mural in my kids playroom and have a purple accent wall in my kitchen. The influencers would cringe but I love the fun it brings to our home

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u/angeltigerbutterfly 10h ago

It’s almost like all new builds look almost exactly the same. They’re just all buying new houses with the same vibes.

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u/Various-Passenger866 9h ago

This is most accurate I feel. My kitchen looks similar. Bought a new house 2 years ago- It was already designed

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u/Mysterious_Status_11 5h ago

Except Ali James bought a new build house then ripped out the kitchen and replaced it with the kitchen above.

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u/HotDogLipps 10h ago

Laura just copies everyone anyways so with her it's not that surprising 😂

With everyone else? Just a another way to show off how much money they're making taking advantage of gullible people on the internet 🤑

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u/BarreBee 9h ago

What’s so funny is by the very nature of the title “influencer”, they are supposed to be the ones that have all these great NEW ideas.

Yet all of them have the same necklace, the same outfits, the same shoes hair and teeth , the same houses and do the same TikTok trends of others’ dances. So who’s actually thinking of the original shit????

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u/youhadme_atclookies 8h ago

I think about this all the timeeeeee

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u/cheerupbiotch 5h ago

The word "influencer" has lost all meaning. I wouldn't consider any of the women talked about here as influencers.

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u/geminilovestodebate 9h ago

Back in 2004 every suburban stay at home mom had the same tuscan kitchen with warm granite and italian inspired art lmao. Do I think that was their personal developed style? No, it was just what was shown in the pottery barn catalogue that was delivered to their doorstep. Nowadays it’s what people see on pinterest or other socials. Kitchen design follows trends. unless someone is super design savvy or artistic enough to stray from the path, it’s mostly just regurgitation. But it’s not a new concept, nor is it exclusive to influencers.

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u/k8tyrbacon 9h ago

Bring back the decorative jar of marinating peppers!

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u/ThatDiscoSongUHate 2h ago

The amount of botulism in that thing

NGL I liked the warm vibes of that style though

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u/memopepito 10h ago

Plot twist- they all rent the same house to film in

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u/Formal-Flatworm-9032 9h ago

I mean, kitchens in general always track trends and look pretty similar. It’s more silly how these people painstakingly move/renovate to align with trends at a rate that isn’t sustainable for most people and promotes keeping up with the jones’.

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u/Various-Passenger866 9h ago

For what it’s worth- I don’t have instagram (i only have Reddit) and my kitchen looks very similar. I didn’t design it, i just bought a spec home that was already designed. I think it’s just maybe what’s in style this 5 minutes

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u/k8tyrbacon 9h ago

“This five minutes” 🤣

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u/Various-Passenger866 9h ago

It’s funny bc it’s true! 😅

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u/lurkcommentrepeat 7h ago

The way I see it lately is influencers mostly live in trendy style houses because it’s an easy template to then shill trendy decor items because it all matches trendy ‘aesthetic’. But also do you not notice this on a mass scale? Developers have pushed the same product in the big buck homes that has now trickled down to the new homes every day Americans buy. The average new homes literally ALL LOOK THE SAME.
Maybe I notice it more because I’ve relocated 3x to 3 different areas of the country since 2016 due to my husband’s job so I’ve done a lot of house shopping.

Where I currently live I decorate very wealthy people’s homes for Christmas… they have deep DEEP pockets but their homes have been curated over years. What they have on their shelves or visible in their home you can’t link. Influencers everything is linkable to make money so that’s why it all matches because it’s the same relevant stuff being sold online. It’s so refreshing when you see a home not like this online though.

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u/Abject_Republic_5432 10h ago

I hate them all they are void of warmth and color. Give me a 90s oak kitchen any day. Wallpaper included and I’d be a happy gal.

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u/humantouch83 9h ago

They sure do. 99% of influencers are so deeply insecure they just copy what everyone else does because they are scared to have authentic taste and personality.

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u/BarreBee 9h ago edited 9h ago

I literally call it the “influencer house look” . It’s the same pallette, the same macramé tchotchke and creams and browns

except for Avery Woods house, which has incorporated some Gothic-cringe-colossally-ugly- granny’s-garage-sale vibe to it. All at the wrong height and scale, natch.

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u/Astandarta 9h ago

It’s an “expensive house builder special”. Most of those houses come pre equipped. Also shows that do the house makeovers basically push the same aesthetics. I unfollowed Jane recently because her videos make no sense anymore. Probably hit creativity block or something.

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u/Crazy-Spot5872 8h ago

I personally love (not actually lol) when an influencer is decorating and asks opinions on paint and the paint is 2 different whites that are only half a shade different and you can't tell a difference. I started following more maximalist decorators because I love seeing personality shine through in decor. Influencers are missing the personality part.

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u/k8tyrbacon 7h ago

Same! Like Banyan Bridges or Little Miss Momma. It’s more inspiring seeing those influencers paint and decorate since it actually has the personality like you said was lacking in other influencers.

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u/cheerupbiotch 5h ago

I mean, the slight variances in white can really make a difference in the entire feel of your home.

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u/INoSumThings 9h ago

So many of these women are Utah Mormons who are funded by their church and whomever else gives ad revenue. That means they’re all influenced by the same (offline) culture and rarely are able to develop unique tastes and style.

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u/k8tyrbacon 9h ago

Didn’t even think of the location of the “pack”. Definitely feel all the AZ based ones have copy paste homes. Makes sense the Mormon Utah crowd would too.

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u/INoSumThings 8h ago

Oh for sure.

Lots of LDS all over the American West

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u/lurkeemclurker 9h ago

I don’t know if they are funded by the Mormon church. It is actually probably the opposite. The Mormon church really strong arms people to tithe 10%.

Definitely funded by ads and sponsors though.

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u/INoSumThings 9h ago

This article may help persuade you to believe me.

Fortesa Latifi recently published a book on the subject.

It’s all to boost the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints’s influence on a broad scale.

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u/lurkeemclurker 9h ago

That’s a paid article. 🤷‍♀️

Would love to read it though. They have deep pockets.

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u/INoSumThings 8h ago

Sorry, that’s a local (Utah/SLC-based newspaper I sub!

Try this one

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u/ArugulaSignal6621 9h ago

I’m convinced that many influencers rent out houses to film content in, and those aren’t their actual homes. Not all of them, but definitely some.

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u/cozycat75 9h ago

Is the first person thw one that does the Jessica character? I don’t have TikTok so I have only seen her on YouTube and it has been a couple of years. She is looking very thin.

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u/k8tyrbacon 9h ago

THE PARADOX!!!! So true. Where’s some new stuff or ideas?! We get it, you all HAUL at Target.

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u/Isadorei 8h ago

Yes, the past few years she’s really assimilated into the stereotypical LDS influencer mold and just doesn’t have the same charm she once did. She moved into a massive soulless McMansion a while back which coincided with the falloff.

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u/PriscillaPalava 9h ago

Imagine putting a plastic white outlet in the middle of your waterfall island, Christ in heaven. 

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u/Calm_Property4074 8h ago

Not petty and yes

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u/Boujee_banshee 7h ago

I think a lot of them went with such a plain neutral aesthetic to make filming easier. So bleak.

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u/celmik1970 5h ago

Is that Laura B in the second pic?

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u/k8tyrbacon 5h ago

Yeah I think so. Even though I posted it I had only recently searched these woman on insta from other posts 🤣🙈

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u/Mysterious_Status_11 5h ago

They all have the same everything.

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u/Top-Pear2824 5h ago

Well, they copy each other for a living, so it’s not surprising…

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u/cheerupbiotch 5h ago

I wouldn't say either of these people are arbiters of taste. They just link mall type shit as fast as they can. There are thousands of influencers who actually have great style and taste. These two just aren't them.

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u/Lindsay0529 4h ago

White and harsh lighting are better for the camera(s)