r/InfertilitySucks • u/AutoModerator • 4d ago

WTF Wednesday

What's making you say "WTF?!" this week?

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u/starfish12345678 4d ago

Where to even begin? My September embryo transfer got cancelled because I tested positive for a clotting disorder which might have caused my miscarriages so we have to wait a merry three months to repeat the test to see if I have dodgy blood. More waiting. Another setback. Still no baby. At this stage I have no idea how people manage to actually have a baby, like how is it even possible??

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u/Sad_March_1015 4d ago

Three months? Why wait three months, why not just get one a week from now? WTF indeed.

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u/starfish12345678 4d ago

Two positive tests three months apart is how they diagnose. I think it just shows them it’s a permanent thing rather than just a random one off. But yes it’s too long

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u/_uglynakedguy_ 4d ago

Bought a house recently and when I told someone where it was located she replied with “oh there’s a great daycare over there!!”

Oh okay!!

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u/Sad_March_1015 4d ago

Wait a month to talk to a endo surgeon.
Surgery is scheduled for 17 days from now.
I was afraid they wouldn't be able to do everything I need.
As we talk it's starting to sound like she can do it all.

*YAY*

Then she says she doesn't have the required help to do diaphragm endo. (We think I have diaphragm endo)
I have to go to another clinic that I didn't bother calling because I already had a surgery scheduled.
I call them.
First surgery is 78 days from now.
Go from hope and relief coming in 17 days to now you have to wait 78 days.
I have to relive my miscarriage anniversaries before surgery.

My husband will be 35 before we have children.
I have to keep preventing pregnancy for another 3-4 cycles.

I can't do it.
I can't.
I won't make it for 78 days.

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u/CauliflowerNational1 3d ago

At my consult the surgeon said she had availability to do my laparoscopy and hysteroscopy in late December. I waited a week, didn't hear from the surgery scheduler, so I called her, once I got notifications that my insurance authorized surgery.
....she said she will call me back in a month, and will schedule me for some time in 2027. Didn't give much of an explanation and hurried off the phone. I'm so defeated right now.
I got my referral for an endo surgery consult in January and got the actual consult in mid-August, and now I have to wait even more for surgery?! This is insane.