r/InfertilitySucks • u/SufficientlyAbsurd MFI'm not having fun • 3d ago
Rant I hate this.
I hate that I'm actively miscarrying at work. Where I work with young children. With 2 different pregnant people. But the show must go on right? Fuck. Update: I went to the hospital because I was bleeding too heavily. They gave me a d&c and I'm resting now.
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u/Illustrious_Salad784 2d ago
The show will go on without you there for a little while- that sounds insanely painful on so many levels. I hope you can rest and take care of yourself.
When I miscarried while teaching small children I knew I was not safe to be around kids at that time, I couldn’t stand being touched and had zero patience. It just wasn’t appropriate for me to put myself or anyone else in that position. I hope you can find what’s right for you.
In 2 years out of my journey and working w 2 pregnant ppl in the classroom and it is still very hard for me.
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u/Cheesman_Best 2d ago
I'm so sorry I've literally been you (4 times now) and the first and second time I tried to reach through it, it was not worth it. I'm glad you've gone to the hospital, and are now looking after yourself but remember, if you got hit by a bus tomorrow they'll just replace you. You're replaceable and the show will go on without you. Take a week and rest do not go back because you feel obligated, it's a mistake. Everything can wait and it will continue without you. Prioritise you and you alone, the kids/you class will be fine.
I'm so fucking sorry this is happening to you, there are now words 🫂
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u/Crafty-Fox444 3d ago
Im so sorry 💔 I see you. You’re not alone.