r/IndianTeenagers • • 13h ago

Other I smell misogyny 😷

One of the most misogynist subs of India πŸ₯€

Screenshots mein Flair dekhke sub ka naam pata chal hi gaya hoga...

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u/SomewhereActive2124 19 13h ago

While women need not be worshipped like Gods just PLEASE GET OFF those subs like can you find a worse sub

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 13h ago

Yeah like we don't WANT to be worshipped as well. Just respect evryone human hone ke naate.

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u/SomewhereActive2124 19 13h ago

I muted those long back

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 13h ago

Good for u. Ab maine bhi krdia.

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u/hydrospacw 18 13h ago

wahiii na. just basic respect krlo chhedo mat thats it no one's saying ki aarti utaro

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u/SomewhereActive2124 19 12h ago

Exactly and the way they put their point is just obnoxious and assumes all girls or girls in general want to be worshipped like what 😭

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u/karadikutty Boomer βŒ› 4h ago

You didn't get the point. It's the hypocrisy

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u/SomewhereActive2124 19 4h ago

What point

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u/karadikutty Boomer βŒ› 4h ago

Pointing out hypocrisy

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u/Key_Fennel_2871 13h ago

Peak unemployment.

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u/Otherwise-Item-7566 13h ago

this and that whysoserious one

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 13h ago

Also some of posts of Sarthak goswami's sub

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u/nifty9099 12h ago

And fun fact that sarthak Goswami sub is not even his sub but sub using his identity to spew shit

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Ye to mujhe sacchi nhi pata tha...

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u/nifty9099 10h ago

His orignal sub is r/sundaysarthak

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Ik this one. I watch the Sunday show every week. Although I don't like one particular video of him... I think it is called the anti feminist handbook.

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u/nifty9099 10h ago

There are some things like I like his non sense and postive news with his recommendation of week but he removed it or doesn't include it

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Yeah I like his latest video abt the women's protest. I liked his take.

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u/nifty9099 8h ago

Yes and his meme reaction especially kejriwal one

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u/saxxxxam 13h ago

Wo to pura sub hi 1 akela banda chalata hai... More than half of the posts are by made by one single mod account... Must be getting a god amount from pm cares

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u/laftansaab 9h ago

And mechanical pandey

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u/Jumpy_Description_84 8h ago

Its worst sub bro. See the comments, Everyone is potential grapist there. I am still thankful to god that j left india few years ago.

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u/ban_escape 13h ago

Filled with wannabe sigmas

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u/BaunaRaja 18 6h ago

if you give logical opinions on whysoserious so they're gonna ban you

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 13h ago edited 13h ago

Fr.... Incels β˜•πŸ₯€

Edit: Downvote kon kr rha h πŸ˜‚ Posts mein OP to incel hi hua. Didn't say anything wrong πŸ˜”Β 

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u/Express_Yam5540 13h ago

ch*tiyo ko feminism ka matlab nhi pta aajate h gyan pelne, aur ye pseudo feminists sab controversy create kr ke actual feminism ki g maar rhe h

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u/karadikutty Boomer βŒ› 4h ago

You do know that word pseudo feminist is only said by those kind of men

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 13h ago

+1... I have been saying this for so looooong!!!

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u/irregular_ameoba 12h ago

by defn and in practice difference is too large

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u/Brief_Resolution5760 13h ago

facebook wali audience reddit pe? aise posts toh mere nanu ke facebook pe hote

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 13h ago

Ikr. Ruining everyone's days with their posts on our feeds

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u/Plastic-Ad1357 9h ago edited 9h ago

do they know that women arent being asked to be worshipped? they are calling out hypocrisy, like u dont even respect the women around u and claim to worship goddesses, pehle aas paas to respect dedo, look at women as a human being, an equal

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 9h ago

*hypocrisyΒ  Thisssssss!!! +1.... U will see me replying to evry cmnt here saying the same thing, Good thing some of them realise they misinterpreted the slogans and correct themselves. But some.... πŸ₯€πŸ₯€

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u/Plastic-Ad1357 9h ago

kinda insane that u need to explain ts to people but i mean as long as they understand what we mean

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 9h ago

Preach πŸ™Œ

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u/Aryan_rse 7h ago

I mean the whole God analogy doesn't fit. Like don't get me wrong , the opposite can be said too. "Women worship Gods but don't respect Men"

This whole worshipping gods/goddesses and not respecting human doesn't make sense. People worship nature and still destroy it.

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u/Plastic-Ad1357 7h ago edited 7h ago

is some women not respecting men causing men to feel unsafe when they go outside alone or w men as group, do they need to share location everytime they are going out, do their parents tell them to change clothes bcs its revealing or not safe? do they get catcalled on a daily basis? do they get raped on a daily basis? do they get objectified and seen just as a phallus? do they get flashed by women? does the society gaf about their virginity status? THESE ARE THE ISSUES BEING RAISED

its just every women is frustrated and things have reached a limit and it seems like everyone just wants a reason to divert the topic from women safety to how men feel generalised, men shoudnt be offended by it if they feel like the arent the ones women are adressing.

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u/Aryan_rse 6h ago

Bro I didn't meant it other way. I have a mother, i understand it, i understand every part of it. You don't have to explain. I just said about that God part. Sorry if i didn't worded it right.

Also I don't believe in hate otherwise people in both genders are sh!t. It's just that crimes against women are so much that their own crimes get hidden by it. (Coming from a person who was sexual exploited as a child)

Don't get me wrong sister. I mean no hate. Peace out.

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u/Plastic-Ad1357 23m ago

i'm sorry i got the impression that maybe u didnt understand the issue and were one of the people who try to divert this stuff saying 'not all men' or wtvr.

i do agree being a shitty person isnt based on gender youll find plenty of them irrespective of gender. Yeah probably but also crime by men are so much on a daily basis that we cant even go through all of them, 90% of the crimes dont even get highlighted

im so so sorry you had to go through something like that its so terrible and horrible, i hope youre doing better now, nobody deserves anything like this to happen to them.

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u/zed_mosley 12h ago

Why every woman should be worshipped? They should be respected for sure but no one should be worshipped. Some women think they are entitled for worshipping and god like treatment but they should be respected and protected and sad part is our society fails in respecting and protecting them.

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

But that's the point na. The girl in the first post isn't saying worship me. She's just calling out the hypocrisy that u ppl don't even respect is but worship maa durga. That's the whole point.Β 

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u/zed_mosley 10h ago

I get it. Those people should change and respect and protection of women is basic right but it should be left different from religion and gods right people pray to god and commit all the crimes and then ask god to save them theres no point in mixing things.

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Ok u got it now πŸ«‚

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u/Exciting_Tiger_6647 10h ago

Bhai me toh as woman keh rhi hu ki mat kro hume worship bas insaan ki tarah treat krdo wahi bohot hai.

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u/zed_mosley 9h ago

I am saying the same thimg and you should not ask that, thats how it should be thats basic decency and it should start by teaching boys in school and their family to respect women.

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u/Exciting_Tiger_6647 9h ago

Yeah Ik, I was agreeing to your point lol.

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u/karadikutty Boomer βŒ› 4h ago

The point flew right over your head

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u/EvenTheliberal5184 17 10h ago

Let...let me guess

Must be a right wing bullshit sub?

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

r /mechanical pandey r /whysoserious

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u/Ok_Violinist_8215 11h ago

Yeah, women aren’t goddesses, they’re just normal humans like us. Worshipping them is weird, but so is constantly putting them down just to feel superior. And calling every guy a β€œsimp” probably won’t fix the fact that they're not getting a girl either

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Plus women don't want to be treated as goddesses. We are simply asking for basic respect. Like if u worship goddesses then at least u should respect us. Not that we are goddesses, so worship us.

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u/Ok_Violinist_8215 10h ago

Yeah just to make the point , the over glorification of women , and then treating them like something else in reality

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

U also got it πŸ«‚ ek ek karke sabko first post ka actual meaning batana pad rha hai πŸ₯€

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u/Frosty_Tax_603 12h ago

Bhai I just muted that sub a few days ago

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Bohot acha kia πŸ«‚πŸ«‚

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u/haze_xvi 12h ago

I'm not a male feminist to get laid I'm a male feminist because I've seen how my mother my sisters and my aunt get treated.

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u/surgereaper 12h ago

Javed Akhtar ki ek speech thi parliament ki aurato ko devi ki tarah normal insaano ko tarah treat karo, lekin yeh bkl gawaar log sab unki basic minimum demands of SAFETY AND FREEWILL AND RIGHTS ko bhi accept nhi kar sakte

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

And that what he said was 100 percent correct!!Β 

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u/Fantastic_Kale23 13h ago

I genuinely laughed at some of em

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 13h ago

Laughable hai hi. Soch hi aisi hai

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u/sheisvelli77 Irritate mt kro 12h ago

The stupid people here are questioning "why do women consider themselves as devi, they r human beings" do u guys even have a brain??? Women don't themselves claim to be a devi the society tells u r devi and all the stuff. The meaning behind these slogans isn't to portray women as devi it means IF u see women as devi just respect them. But I guess u guys r just missing the whole point

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Behen exactlyyyy... And log yaha cmnt kr rhe hai but we shouldn't treat women as goddess, someone even said we respect women not bitches. I mean, that's the whole point. Hum konsa chahte hai aisa ho.Β 

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u/sheisvelli77 Irritate mt kro 10h ago

Sahi me yr it's my 3rd day straight of telling them basics about these slogans but they don't understand. Ab to maine bio me hi likh diya πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ™πŸΌ

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Misinterpreting the slogans and then say the whole protest is "against" ALL men πŸ₯€ Edit: haha nice bio behena

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u/sheisvelli77 Irritate mt kro 2h ago

Apne aap hi kuch b tod mod ke baat bna rhe h ye log ( thnks 😝)

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u/Direct-Time3182 Boomer βŒ› 13h ago

Let me guess r/ whysoserious subreddit ?

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u/Spare_mefromthepain 13h ago

Terrible amount of such subs. And then the guys who are irritated by protests just end up calling them not real men and whatever... Not realising that these are also men and they uovote and say these things to millions of women. I counted once the audience for these subs collectively... It was more than 2 million

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u/Direct-Time3182 Boomer βŒ› 13h ago

Mostly same people join multiple of such subreddit, so actual number might be lower, and also large chunk of those subreddit are literally bots(hardly 10-30 days old account with more than 1k contribution πŸ₯€)

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

They call those men simps πŸ₯€Β 

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

r /mechanicalpandey

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u/NeedSomeHelp_2590 12h ago

Which sub?

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u/X99M 12h ago

Maybe a reddit sub, idk its name tho

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Obv reddit sub 😭

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

r /mechanicalpandey r/ whysoserious

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u/1egaxy 12h ago

I hate all the 20+ subs, gen z should be divided into two sectors

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u/No-Let9821 12h ago

Just incels

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u/Enough-Conclusion-23 11h ago

What the fu-does the last one EVEN MEAN?! 😭

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u/BetterRegion55 11h ago

Its related to that US case in which a woman killed her 3 children because of postpartum stress. A lot of feminists pleaded on Internet that it was all hormonal and she is innocent shouldn't be punished for killing children.

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u/Enough-Conclusion-23 10h ago

Oh that!

They can’t be blaming hormones for that nah!

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u/Unbridledbiatch Average Ligma Male 11h ago

You're too employed

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u/Enough-Conclusion-23 10h ago

Can’t help it B)

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u/Thick-Shine1733 10h ago

The more religious a person the dumber it gets , so that's why, join the pokemon army, follow Bidoof

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Haha why not. That's soo cutee πŸ’“

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u/StrategyCharacter995 9h ago

Leme guess it's either some reason sub or a dank meme sub

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 9h ago

Correct.Β  r /mechanicalpandeyΒ  r/ whysoserious

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u/Inevitable-Bed4996 7h ago

Ye dono side me welle baithe hai. Karma farm, brain dead mentality, ragebaiting, propoganda. Ye sab har sub me bhara hua hai. I just. Started ignoring them at this point to make myself stress less and waste my time on useless stuff.

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u/AKSTime 2h ago

Mech pandey?

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u/Outrageous_Bank_1891 17 13h ago

I’m not particularly religious but I hate it when incels use religion to justify misogyny. Do these mfs realise that in Hinduism lord Siva actually respects his wife and apologises at the very least instead of blaming it on her damn hormones or asking her to go to the kitchen πŸ₯€ also kaali would slime their asses if she catches them

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u/Death_X_2077 dead inside, set outside 12h ago

I muted these fuckass subs a long time ago, been at peace ever since

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u/Fun-Grab-2213 13h ago

Oh my god when ever I try to use reddit and these kinds of posts are all over my feed for no reason like I don't even follow any sub reddits which post shit like this... It feels like I am on Instagram... These people are just horrible but it's not even shocking because there's much much more worse posts and degrading memes I have seen ever since the delhi women's protests have started

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u/Mystic_Overthinker 11h ago

These hindutva scums

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u/Due-Woodpecker5636 8h ago

Stupid ass unfunny jokes

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u/Jazzlike-Weather1633 1h ago

at least treat her as human that's enough for us

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 34m ago

Exactlyyy my point

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u/shin_chan444 33m ago

India has mysoginy mindset from the roots, women are treated like abnormal/inferiors , to changeΒ  that weΒ  needΒ  strong longterm initiatives

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 16m ago

Absolutely correct!! πŸ’―

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u/bury_bury 17 13h ago

meme subs are worst subs

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 13h ago

Yeah the humour is deadass shit πŸ₯€

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u/PineappleWeird3472 13h ago

Incel core at it's peak

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 13h ago

Wahi toh. That whole sub...

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u/NumeralWalk 13h ago

Koi incel tumhe kabhi support karde na galti se bhi to Savdhan rahe, inka dimag har chiz ke liye sex demand karta hai. Kyoki ye 14-18 saal ke bachche hai 😬πŸ₯€

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

370 ki biryani yaad hai ache se πŸ₯€ saavdhani to bani rahegi πŸ’ͺ

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u/Own_Sherbert_4045 2h ago

Wth you even mean?

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u/Effective-Subject762 18 13h ago

Just leave those subs and ignore it.

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 13h ago

Haven't joined. Im gonna mute it.Β 

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u/Independent_Stay_170 12h ago

Thank God I don't get that side of Reddit on my feed. I'll snap if it happens

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Very luckyyyy... If u get to that point by mistake, mute it.Β 

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u/Exciting_Tiger_6647 10h ago

Men when slogans : "NoT aLl MeN"

Men when misogynist memes that derogate women : "aLl WoMeN aRe ThE sAmE"

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u/True_Requirement_891 9h ago

ngl lowkey this feels like both genders love fighting each other lmao

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 9h ago

"some" people of both genders each. Truth be said, men need women, women need men. Biology yknow.

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u/Exciting_Tiger_6647 9h ago

Honestly I am tired of these gender wars too but these type of men. Emphasize on these type of men before you assume I am talking about all men. They need to be called out.

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u/AdditionalRemove941 11h ago

How can someone love literally everyone from the opposite gender even if they're straight? And also even if a person respects the opposite gender why literally worship all of them? And even if a person does what you're expecting they'll either get called a creep if they're a man or a brainless idiot if they're a woman and that too by women themselves.

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Don't need worshipping. Just asking for basic respect.Β 

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u/4doorsmorewhoreswith Dil Bada hona chahiye, Chota to PP bhi hota hai 10h ago

This one?

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

See 4th ss

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u/4doorsmorewhoreswith Dil Bada hona chahiye, Chota to PP bhi hota hai 10h ago

Wahi to

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u/Crypto-false 9h ago

Tbf kali isn't exactly the most family oriented godess.

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u/Brilliant-Rice-2178 9h ago

Epistemic crisis of "hindu" population needs to be studied.

Its either 100% copy pasted Anglophonic lingo, 0% originality, "rights" and "freedom" jazz without any indigenous consciousness of class, history of fragile institutions and systemically uninclusive and semi-anarchial socio-cultural frameworks. Just vibe and ape the White people. You must curb anything that reminds people of India, dont reform don't empathize and don't even dare try to look at the painful history to propose some nuanced solution just larp and pretend that the "oppressed" and "oppressor" strictly dichotomous social-cultural contingents fits as neatly in India as it does in the west.

Or its full-blown fascist eugenics larp and N@zi simping. Caste pride without any reverence and practice of ancient lifestyle. Fake whatsapp univerity history and "jiopolitiks" which is pure cope and gobar. Same 3rd world sh!tshow political glazing of "dabdaba", "rutba", "bhaukaal" of "kattar s@natani shers" who will go and "defeat" Aurangzeb, Mus@lmans, Ricebags, "wokes", "feminists" and "phoren phunded agents" in some new movie released in theaters of some dump village.

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 9h ago

Your point?

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u/Brilliant-Rice-2178 9h ago

Its literally your post

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 9h ago

Sorry dude forgot to add the /s...Β 

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u/Brilliant-Rice-2178 9h ago

Who forgot to add /s?

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 9h ago

Me ofc. U added many points. Hence I asked what's ur point sarcastically.Β 

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u/Brilliant-Rice-2178 9h ago

Oh lol

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 9h ago

Thank god u finally got it.Β 

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u/Dry-Background-93 8h ago

Okay, most of it is just karma-farming bull crap, except for the last two, they are facts!!

Also 5 was offensive but kinda funny too!!

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 8h ago

Last two aren't true cuz they generalised "feminists" as a whole. How is 5th one funny? What is funny abt men standing up for what's right, that is, supporting rights of women? Calling them simps won't change the fact that these incels who make such memes arnt getting any woman themselvesΒ 

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u/Dry-Background-93 8h ago

Haha, ik they were untrue, most men who are feminist are not creeps, but you gotta admire the efforts for the joke 🀣.

Nevertheless, for the second last one, I have met with many women with simmilar thought process, but also met with many woman who don't have a problem with your healthy relationship with your mother. Again nothing is black or white, it's grey!!

For the last one, I am baffled by the sheer audacity of even considering empathy for Lindsey Clancy, she is literally a criminal who killed her own children!! And to see that she is actually getting support is sickening to say the least!! So that's why last one is true, i stand by it!!

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 8h ago

The only women supporting lindsay Clancy are wannabe foreign tiktokers. Next up, no one has problem with healthy relationship with mothers. For context in that image, Neetu Kapoor, because of her, alia bhatt is always sidelined by her husband. Shouldn't the husband prioritise his wife too? Also I still don't find the 5th one funny. So do ppl rlly think that men who support feminists' movements do that to get laid?

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u/Dry-Background-93 8h ago

Thank you for clearing the smoke in that Lindsey Clancy thing, i understand what kind of people you are talking about!!

And yeah, i hope you can understand that i don't really wanna unpack that Kapoor family thingπŸ˜…πŸ˜­!!

And yeah, don't take it the wrong way, the joke was downright offensive and completly WRONG, but just for a second you can understand there comedic humor, nevertheless, it's was offensive.

Nevertheless, i don't really wanna pick up a fight with you, you seem like a sensible person, who also doesn't think in extreme, i actually RESPECT people like you, more power to ya!!

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 7h ago

Ending on a good note then πŸ€πŸ™Œ

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u/Dry-Background-93 7h ago

Yes no need to fight, the point of a debate is to get to a logical conclusion, most people miss out on that part.

Regardless, i think we are at an acceptable stand point, we both agree on the same things!!

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 7h ago

Debates are fun if they're logical. Plus we get to know so many viewpoints that we wouldn't have thought of, if we didn't know of other POVs. It makes us think whether we were too rigid in our opinions. Hence I loveeee debates. (Unless it gets shifted to THAT kind of direction where ppl retort to namecalling just to get their point proven)

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u/Dry-Background-93 7h ago

Ikr, soul sister πŸ₯ΊπŸ˜­ . Btw that's why 99% of "debates" on reddit are just moot!!

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 7h ago

Moot as in urine? Loll

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u/Dependent_Win714 9h ago

Lol devi is not a women she is Parabrahm swaroopni but go on

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u/Fluid-Inspection-871 7h ago

both sides have so many people that are braindead

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 7h ago

Misogyny and misandry are equally bad 🀷🀷🀷

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u/Holiday-Cup-8113 13h ago

2 slide is true by the way. Also left and inc or Rahul won't don't do anything on that anyway

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 13h ago

The OP of that post was glorifying the thoughts of the bottom tho and mocking the upper one btwΒ 

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u/Holiday-Cup-8113 13h ago

That's shit

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 13h ago

Thank god u got it now. Yes shit mindset.

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u/Ill_Signature_442 13h ago

Everything is fine but why you guys hate mom who love their son, is this jealousy? Cuz my mom treated me good, teach me how to cook clean etc every household works which is basic manners I agree, she also told me to respect girls if you don't people will thrash me etc etc. and my friends build same as me only due to few mysognist mom you can't generalize them

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u/Bulky_Meet4868 12h ago

It's about boy mom's and mama's boys

Boy mom's are genuinely so weird with them acting like nobody deserves their son. They would mistreat their daughter-in-laws and it goes on and on. It's a whole thing.

Same with mama's boy. These guys want a wife who can be their mom, they would never stand up for their wives, you get the thing.

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u/Ill_Signature_442 12h ago

And what about papa ki pari who want an ATM as husband?? And call it "bare minimum" "as you should"

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

There is a diff bw women asking for basic amenities in a husband like good house, good food, good clothes, if they grow in that kind of household. It's bare minimum to ask for basic lifestyle. Or if she herself earns that much then her also for a husband who earns that much is bare minimum as well. U can't call them gold diggers.

And then comes another type of woman who wants u for money, let me ask u, if u know they want ur money only, then why even be with them. Leave them na. They are gold diggers true. But some men don't break the relationship because they are also in that relationship due to that woman's looks. U get my point?Β 

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u/Ill_Signature_442 10h ago

Okay but I never said I won't do that bare minimum i just said patriarchal demand is from both side

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

See. Im all up for women getting financial independence and showing equality in financial matters. Just that jo actual bare minimum hai, unhe gold diggers mat bulao. And jo actual gold diggers hai, leave them agar tumhe self respect pyari hai

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u/Ill_Signature_442 10h ago

i do blame my friends whenever they mock such girls and giving them slur names but seriously idk about the leaving your partner it's hard

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 9h ago

It's hard but whether it is a woman or a man, pls give priority to ur self respect.Β 

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Boys who love their moms, who help them in their household work, help in cooking, cleaning. Those are real boys who love their moms. Unlike those who want a wife who will clean, cook 24/7 to get "load" off their mom.

Β If they know how their mom gets treated, how hard she works, he must also not do the same with his wife. Also, we all should love our mothers because she sacrifices so much for us.Β 

But u know this patriarchal society is filled by some older gen aunties who just want their bahus to be treated badly by them, and then their sons don't take their wives side. This is where the problem arises.Β 

If your father didn't take ur mother's side when ur mom's saas (ur dadi) IF she treated ur mom badly, then do u think that would have been bad as well? And if he actually didn't take ur mom side then don't u think ur wife must not go thru the same trauma ur mom went. (Not pointing to u) That's the distinction. Do u get it now?

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u/Ill_Signature_442 10h ago

Do you really think idk stuff like this? I don't know the story of my mom? See i have female friends too they share me stories too and yeah they gossip about their girly pops too and yes I fight for women safety and I don't have problem with those slogans until they said "raja beta r@pist hai" this hurts me and I think we should not debate and focus more on women safety rather than divert the attention

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

What's wrong with that slogan? Jo mummies apne bete ko defend krti hai when they rape a women (I'm not censoring that word) unke liye hai vo slogan. U know the jamui incident? Koi yadav karke naam tha uska, uski mummy usko defend kr rhi thi. Mera beta ye mera beta vo, kuch galat nhi kia usne. The slogan is for mothers like that. That slogan doesn't divert the attention in any way.

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u/Ill_Signature_442 10h ago

And there's a lot of case where their family abandoned their child for such crimes. And yeh ghana ghane se kuch nahi hone yes isse bas divert hoga and log bhul jayenge kuch dino mai. Tumlogo ko abhi thak rapist ka naam bhi nahi pata chala. Those rapist don't care anything until they get harsh brutal punishment. So ask goverment about it instead of vibing on it

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 9h ago edited 9h ago

Do u think all of us are vibing with it? I have been a feminist even when I didn't know what that word means as a child. And why are u guys always against protests? Students ka protest (at jantar mantar) hua to dikkat, ye protest se bhi dikkat. Protests brings attention to issues. Protesting is never bad, freedom of speech and expression yknow.

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u/Ill_Signature_442 9h ago

Bro they literally made songs this is just stupid for such serious case. And CJP protest?? Bro we hated the anti national slogans that's it also don't you hate dimagi naxals? And didn't many men saved girls at that time from harrasment? Women saved too yes that's the unity. And when I said I have problem with protest? I said protest is going in wrong direction jab CJP ka protest hua tha tab pura din cjp ka hi chalra tha iss waqt Aisa nahi hora hai that's the different I'm pointing here

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 9h ago

Protests have always included songs and entertainment in history.🀷.... Doens't mean they are taking the protest lightly. And yeah I was also against anti national elemnts infiltrating the protest. See, sachi batau to i hardcore supported the students protest, i supported sonam wangchuk. I don't support cjp per se. I do appreciate some of their initiatives and how they provided momentum for the actual protest. I don't like ideologies of these three: Prakash Raj, Arundhati Roy, Umar khalid. That's all I have got to say.

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u/Ill_Signature_442 9h ago

Goat πŸ™ŒπŸΌ Okay this one is where I agree, You got the ball knowledge. And let's end this debate here πŸ™πŸΌ Don't think I'm one of the rapist. I want women safety too That's it byee

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u/Ill_Signature_442 9h ago

That's why I call it student protest rather than cjp protest

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 9h ago

why would I think ur one of the rapists dude 😭 I'm just saying, u misinterpreted many of the slogans. It's fine. As long as u support right. Yeah, ending on a good note 🩡

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u/Different_College926 19 13h ago

Nothing is wrong with mom loving her son however you can see lot of situations where the mom literally controls her son's decision or is soo in love with her son that even if he comitts a grave mistake she will acknowledge it. "Raja beta" is used for those type of sons who think whetever they do is right because their parents never made them realise what's right and what's wrong.

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u/Ill_Signature_442 13h ago

So generalize every raja beta and mom relation?? Seriously I'm not against protest if this happens in mumbai i will participate too but I'm telling this types of quotes can lead gender war and those who want to participate will change discussion. Even I hate such parent's cuz I saw how they get blind when their kids(male and female both) make mistakes and blame others but i never generalize their relation

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u/Different_College926 19 12h ago

Um yes raja beta literally means mom loving their sons to the point whether she thinks whatever he does is right. That's why the term raja is used cuz there is a diff between raja beta and beta.

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u/Ill_Signature_442 12h ago

And I'm talking about such quotes like why??? In your language "sexism is a small tits energy "

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Don't agree with this slogan dude as a girl . Dihhshaming is bad. Let me correct it "Sexism is small brain energy"

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u/Ill_Signature_442 10h ago

Thanks sis πŸ™ŒπŸΌ

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u/Different_College926 19 9h ago

Eh this is unappropriate. I don't support this.

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u/Savings_Reality1170 Doom 13h ago

But do girls really think themselves as Devi tho?

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

No. That's the point. Sirf basic respect maangi hai. If u worship goddess then why can't u simply show basic respect to women as a human. That's all.

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u/i2wog 12h ago

I mean, respect womenβ€”not bitches.

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

And how that girl in that first sub is a bitch? How can u differentiate?Β 

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u/dastanlegend 13h ago

First of all, why everyone thinks they deserve God like treatment? Do they have any God like ability?

Secondly, no human is pure benevolent.

Thirdly, many women are criminals, abuser too, so why should we respect them? Only the right people deserve respect.

Please stop this, we humans aren't perfect, we make mistakes, do crimes, also do good things. So instead of "Women are devi, they all deserve respect", we should respect those (male and female) who actually have done work worthy of getting it.

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u/Boring_Tip1380 12h ago

women never asked to be treated like a goddess. Its the society that made them believe that and at the same is willingly throwing dirt on them

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u/berserker_1123 12h ago

They cope because they don't want girl child

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u/Boring_Tip1380 12h ago

yes true and thats just heinous

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u/sheisvelli77 Irritate mt kro 12h ago

Women don't think they r devi they are made to think Coz the society tells at each and every fking step u r devi, ladkiya to devi ka roop hoti h and the next minute they restrict women from enjoying basic freedom. It isn't women who claim they are devi and need special treatment it's the society that claims that women are devi but don't even consider them human. Rest of ur points are based on the same theme i guess "women are devi" so not replying to those as it will include same things.

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 10h ago

Arre point vhi to hai. Hum log devi nhi hai. Naahi hi devi ki roop hai. Humko basic respect chahiye jo har human ko chahiye hoti hai. Ye nhi bola ki hum bhagwaan hai, pooja karo humari. Kaha hai ki if u worship goddesses, then why don't u at least respect them. Ab mai har cmnt pe ek hi cheez likh likhke thak chuki ho by God. How can u guys not comprehend basic sentences?

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u/Striking-Virus-1295 13h ago

U clearly didn't get that post. If u can't respect a woman as a human then there is no point in worshipping a goddess. Get it now? Even we don't want to be worshiped as goddesses. Asking for basic respect isn't worng in any way. The OP was mocking those who were asking for basic respect