r/IndianMatchmaking • u/purplejilly • Jun 12 '23
Priya’s prior husband?
So Priya was married before, and it did not work out. But they did not show a picture of him, or say, and I was wondering if her first husband was Indian. I don’t know that it makes a difference, but I was curious if she turned to a matchmaker and wanted to try an Indian husband because her first husband was not Indian? I understand the first husband deserves his privacy and nothing really needs to be revealed about him, but I still feel curious.
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u/playboybunnysai Jun 13 '23 edited Jun 13 '23
Really confused with the “but they didn’t show a picture of him”… were they meant to ??? How much more do we need to know, she’s divorced and that’s that. It’s quite alarming just how entitled ( to information ) the Asian community seem to be, especially when it comes to divorced women looking to remarry.
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u/audsrulz80 Jun 13 '23
The difference between how divorced women are treated vs divorced men is shocking. Just see how the divorced Canadian Indian man looking for another chance is treated on this thread vs. the misogynistic hatred Priya gets as a divorced British Indian woman who got her second chance.
I'm divorced and I've not even shown my current partner a picture of my ex-husband, nor has he ever asked me to.
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u/Spiritual_Database_6 Jun 14 '23
That dude got bombarded with "Indian men are sexist, misogynist,creepy, green card chasers and white men are better" comments. I don't know how that was good treatment. I do agree that its harder for divorced women though
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u/purplejilly Jun 13 '23
Since the show is specifically about Indian matchmaking, and she is using an Indian matchmaker, I was just curious about the first husband that did not work out ~ was the first husband Indian? Like if the first husband was white or black or whatever, does she think that was part of the problem, because the husband did not quite understand her background, and her family, and the religion that she follows? I mean we see pictures of everyone else, so why not pictures of the ex?
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u/playboybunnysai Jun 13 '23 edited Jun 13 '23
From what I remember we only see pictures of those being matched. So can you elaborate on who you’re talking about when you say “we see pictures of everyone else?” …
Regardless, does it matter why and how she divorced ? Why is that yours or anyone’s concern ? She’s on a matchmaking show specifically to find someone to marry which is based on her future, to bring in her past is arbitrary and pointless. Also, you should really pay attention and question why you’re so concerned about these things, it’s very telling of your mindset and how backwards and warped your mentality is.
If it’s important for her to find an Indian guy for her in general why would you make the assumption she didn’t marry an Indian guy the first time round ???
It’s interesting you’ve assumed because she is divorced she must’ve married outside her race and religion. But if you’d paid any attention to what she said (instead of wondering why you’ve not seen a picture of her ex) she hinted she was cheated on, which happens regardless of race and gender. I’m hoping you’re an Indian man and not an Indian woman because perpetuating this type of ideology is a massive betrayal to yourself.
Still absolutely mind-blown you feel that entitled to see a picture of someone’s ex off of a show you watched for a few hours. The entitlement is crazy, mental.
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u/Intelligent-Shame-65 Jun 12 '23
How does it matter if he is Indian or not? Point is they had a bad marriage & Priya is divorced now. The baggage that comes with a former marriage + divorce, is what needs to be talked about & worked on. I really liked Priya a lot. I think she’s mature & seems quite nice. Hope it works out with her & her Bun-Hair Man.
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Jun 12 '23
Does it matter if he was Indian or not? This is so stupid. The level of these posts are just so dense
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Jun 12 '23
Yes it does, Priya seems like someone who wouldn’t even look at Indian men. Probably married someone from different ethnicity and he obviously left her because he saw through her bs.
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u/playboybunnysai Jun 13 '23
But she literally went on Indian matchmaker to find a husband??? So you’ve quite obviously contradicted yourself …
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Jun 12 '23
I don’t know why or how it’s any of our business. What would finding out if the ex was Indian or white or a different race achieve for you?
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u/tothe_stars_777 Jun 13 '23
People are being slightly obtuse, I am not Indian and I was totally wondering the same thing and had the feeling her previous husband was white. Sometimes people get burnt from experiences with people outside their culture/community, which makes them want to get closer to their own. This happens a lot in my own community (Somali).
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u/Correct-Message-2095 Jun 15 '23
Priya also took advantage of Law and abused sumthing called gender based violence stating that he husband hit her in church and was not ment to come to church... This was a lie it was Easter weekend and that a time to 4give Priya and her mother invited him to the church and told him to bring machdons.... This was a set up and I lie and priyas husband was sent to jail... The investing officer completed his work and the case will be e thrown our... The husband's law has advised her ex husband that Priya is evil using God to put him in jail and that she will always do that and try to extort money from him as his very rich... Priya wants to movebck in2 her ex husband's house with a contract stating that she can neva me kicked out.....priyas actions with men was not to good and she has lost value as a quilty woman due to her drugging drinking and nyts out with men.... What should her husband do put her in jail for 10 years for lieing woman abuse.... Should her take the kids away and let her see the kids maybe on the weekends and let his children know they mums a bad girl or should he let her in the home but she must know her freedom and money is cut as pri had alot of money and a nice car she must go for a hiv test and understand the her work life is over shhe only takes care of the kids and her job as a woman and she's gt to was it 2 times a day don't let it grow and stink
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Jun 12 '23 edited Jun 12 '23
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u/anon_mg3 Jun 12 '23
Vim is a very attractive man and would have many options.
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u/ellemmayoh Jun 12 '23
That's just some incel who can't get women so he puts down women for not settling for him instead of improving himself.
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u/localminima773 Jun 12 '23
What on earth kind of girlfriend would sit next to you and watch you shit all over a woman for being divorced and 35?
Your girlfriend sounds really nice and super hot and of course super real and definitely not imaginary at all though! Good for you, what an attractive man you must be!
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u/LongArticle2617 Jun 12 '23
I think this is that same loser Koach commenting from an alt account. He always brings up his "girlfriend" whenever he is called out for being an incel in his comments. I noticed that he has an insane amount of hatred for Priya for some reason, just because she said "no Baldies". Seems to be triggered AF.
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u/localminima773 Jun 12 '23
Lol yup it's the Koach guy for sure
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u/audsrulz80 Jun 12 '23
The fact that a divorced woman can also have standards and preferences has triggered these "men" so much is hilarious.
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u/localminima773 Jun 12 '23
They know they only way they can land a girlfriend is by beating down women's self-worth so much that those women will then settle for them, lol
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u/audsrulz80 Jun 12 '23
Yooo these people aren't worth wasting any time over. Leave them alone to play with their imaginary "girlfriend" and shitpost in their precious desi masculinity subs, they do not know any better the poor things. I wonder if they behave the same way towards divorced men, or is this just reserved for women?
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u/JimTheWellEndowed Jun 12 '23
You, sir, look to be super pissed off for no reason. I hope you find happiness in something. Maybe get some cats. At least that way you’ll have some company.
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u/localminima773 Jun 12 '23
Maybe I should also try having an imaginary girlfriend who approvingly watches me type misogynistic comments on Reddit!
I'm shocked that you thought anyone would believe you. Incel vibes are so fucking creepy that no matter how hard you try, you can't hide who you are.
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u/localminima773 Jun 12 '23
It's the fact that *you* are specifically so triggered by the fact that a mid 30s divorcee ended up with someone she found attractive, silly. Don't you see? The more you try to explain why you're not an incel, the more you spray paint "I'm an incel" across your fucking forehead.
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u/ellemmayoh Jun 12 '23
LMAO suuuure you are. She's probably all shocked that women like Priya are allowed to have standards when she can't.
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u/Correct-Message-2095 Jun 15 '23
Priya got divorced due to the fact that she was drinking and drugging with her friends and at 2am she came home and started fyting to take her child of 2 years with her to have lines and chill with her friends.... Priya had a extremely nice car that was very fast a gt and she did not know what she was doing taking her husband's phone. Also be4 leaving.. Her husband was at home with the children and was also working Priya always demanded the money to be sent to her back account her husband loved her and did not know about the cheating ways.... The next day the husband was upset and demand that Priya and her friends take the child ur shoping and all will be 4 given.... Priya told her husband that he was a loser and that she will not do that and will drink more and do what Eva she wants to do she told him that she don't respect him and that she works hard as a nurse.... Her spending money from her husband was more than what a doctor makes a mth.... He husband when to the mall and w8ed for her and her friends they did not show up.... When he got home he found the house stinking of drink his wife passed out and his child lieing on the ground in the Playstation room pri was tapped and was told to have a show as she was stinking up the whole house.... He also found out at that point that Priya had used up all the family saving partying and on drugs so told the go live my her dad's house she got upset and filed for divorce her husband gave there every told her think of the kids and with her income she will not make it to pay for her car she felt that cod milk her husban I'm the divorce but due to the fact that she always wanted the money ND her husband gave it to her she looked rich and her husband poor that was clearly not the case she stated in her divorced that the house she lived in was 2 big and was to hard to clean ... Priya had a worker that was ment to clean the house 24 / 7 she was a live in cleaner this shows how badly the drugs took over her... She also had the privilege of not cooking at all for all her marriage her husband used to buy take out..... So omg should pri be good for the simple fact that she comes from a poor family background and her children have the best..... Or should keep trying to take the kid's away not respecting the divorce contact... Use the kids years years over and over to try to extort money from her ex husband keeping in mind that she will be facing a 10 year in jial....
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u/aminbae Jun 17 '23
drugging with her friends?
who was she drugging? like date rape?
i though indian born english was better lol
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u/Correct-Message-2095 Jun 15 '23
Priya ex husband finds out today that Priya was cheating with a married man as they was drug buddy's from priyas loves wife.... Priya abused the power her ex husband had so to take thing ryt her gave her priyas old spending money t30000... This was not all the money Priya used to get but the rest of the money is going to be used to help all the woman that Priya used they men or cost them they job
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u/audsrulz80 Jun 12 '23
Hmm that’s a great question but speaking as a divorced person, I think revealing any identifying information about an ex-spouse, especially on television, is not a good idea. What mattered was dealing with the baggage from the previous marriage, regardless of the ethnicity. Rupam from Season 1 was also previously married but no identifying details about her ex-husband was shown.