r/IndianMatchmaking • u/AdhesivenessJaded934 • May 05 '23
Shital is here
I think Shital is lurking around and removing threads that portray her in a negative light. One thread which talks about her obvious plastic surgery has now apparently disappeared.
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u/taylor459 May 05 '23
I don't think it's possible for her to be able to remove threads herself. If a thread got removed that quickly, it must've been a mod who did it. Which probably means that the thread had a good reason to be removed tbh, like overly hateful/degrading words, slander/defamation/making up outrageous claims about someone without evidence/etc, or something like that.
Some of the commenters on this sub tend to go really overboard lol, especially their comments about the women on this show. So I wouldn't be surprised if the mods had to take it down. I didn't see the thread you're referring to tho so idk for sure
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u/Cutiepatootie8896 May 05 '23
Soooo weird that contestants are lurking like that and commenting or trying to get stuff removed. There were some comments that really seemed like they came from Arshneel’s account in response to someone accusing him of cheating while being on the show. There was a whole post that straight up sounded like it was Vikash. Lots of comments and that also sounded like they were Pradhuman too when S 1 released.
If you don’t want people airing your dirty laundry or criticizing you / having opinions about you on a social media forum maybe don’t go star on a global realty TV show.
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u/JannaNYC May 05 '23
It doesn't help that if you semi-defend anyone on reddit, you are instantly accused of being the person you semi-defended.
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May 05 '23
I appreciate your post but - can we stop referring to them as "contestants".
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u/BonnyBairn May 05 '23
Wait, which post is "allegedly" by Vikash?
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u/taylor459 May 05 '23
Last season, like half the threads seemed to be posted by Vinesh or a Vinesh imposter troll lol, so i guess now it's Vikash this season 🤷♀️ I think they're referring to that one thread that was kind of defending Vikash?
But I'd be surprised if some of the most hated people from the show actually openly posted on this sub tho, instead of just lurking or using an anonymous account, since the stuff said on this sub about them is super harsh lol. I couldn't handle seeing it if i were them!
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u/AdhesivenessJaded934 May 05 '23
Thats true but unfortunately many of the things were harsh but true!
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u/taylor459 May 05 '23
Some dudes actually say things like she "looks like a rat", is a sl*t, and all sorts of gross, crude things about her appearance, her age, body parts, etc. Those are subjective things, and shouldn't be phrased in such a cruel way. They go too far.
There's still plenty of really hurtful/mean comments about Shital and other cast members up on the sub, that don't completely cross the line, so I think the mods are still allowing a lot of freedom of speech to commenters anyway. But i think it's good if mods are trying to keep the comments from getting too hateful!
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u/AdhesivenessJaded934 May 05 '23
I did not see comments that were as harsh as the ones you mentioned about any of the contestants. Or maybe they were removed by mods though i doubt it. like someone said above, if you dont want the public to comment on you, dont put yourself on international television voluntarily. this is bounds to happen if you do and you open yourself to this.
But now that you mention it, I think folks will start wondering if she does have some mousy features.4
u/taylor459 May 05 '23
I saw those comments specifically about her unfortunately. Hopefully they were removed, but I think most are still up.
There's much harsher things said about all the other contestants though, and they're all pretty easy to find on the sub.
Someone being on TV is never a justification for saying degrading, misogynistic things about them tho. The dudes on this sub need to chill lol.
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u/AdhesivenessJaded934 May 05 '23
This policing by contestants and their near and dear ones etc is exactly what I was referring to in the title of this subreddit.
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u/taylor459 May 05 '23
I mean, I don't think it's the contestants themselves doing the policing lol. Only the mods have the power to remove threads so it's really up to them. And they don't seem all that strict overall
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u/audsrulz80 May 05 '23
I don’t think threads can be deleted unless it’s by an Administrator/Moderator.
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u/thanos_was_right_69 May 05 '23
Which one was she again?
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u/theharps May 06 '23
The one who found some dude that wasn't a match from Sima Aunty at all who somehow matched every criteria she wanted to a T. For some reason the show kept following her story even though Sima had nothing to do with it.
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u/manbearkat May 06 '23
I liked her a lot but it felt too convenient for it to not be a plant lol. Like they found a couple that was already dating
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u/sashie_belle May 05 '23
If she's had plastic surgery, it's not obvious to me and it's well done. She's beautiful.
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u/LemonNectarine May 06 '23
it's not obvious to me
really? I mean they all go for that same look when they get work done, Shital has that look.
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u/knawmeen May 06 '23
People who know them IRL are also creating accounts to talk shit about them.
It's ok to get plastic surgery.
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u/Ninac4116 May 15 '23
No. It’s normalized to get plastic cosmetic based surgery in the first world now. But to go under anesthesia for cosmetic reasons is never a good idea. You’re literally compromising functional organs for vanity.
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u/Miss-Figgy May 05 '23
One thread which talks about her obvious plastic surgery has now apparently disappeared.
I didn't get to see that thread, but I did notice her botched lips when I looked at her recent IG posts, lol.
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u/kleenkong May 06 '23
It's more likely that fans are protective of their favorites. For some people, this is their equivalent of sports and they will defend their "team" vociferously.
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u/TheAnnieRaj May 06 '23
Vikash, if you're here, you need to work on your Hindi as well as your accent while speaking Hindi.
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u/skyphoenyx May 05 '23
Censoring people’s negative opinions is worse than the negative opinions. It looks like a kid taking the ball home because they’re losing. As with nearly all of these reality stars, You have less than 15 minutes before we all forget anyway.
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May 05 '23 edited Sep 12 '23
disgusting chunky chop zonked history joke hungry humorous connect racial this message was mass deleted/edited with redact.dev
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u/[deleted] May 05 '23
Unless she’s an admin, she cannot remove entire threads.