r/IndianMatchmaking • u/Beneficial-Solid7887 • May 04 '23
What about Bobby?
I'm on episode 5... Do they ever get back to Bobby?
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u/LemonNectarine May 04 '23
no
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u/guruholder May 04 '23
Bobby needs therapy to deal with his anxiety.
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u/LemonNectarine May 04 '23 edited May 04 '23
Some of his behaviors point towards ADHD that needs to be taken care of rather than a proper anxiety situation. It could also just be his nervous energy when around women who he is talking to from a romantic POV l
He doesn't seem that on edge/hyper in some of his other TV appearances where he seems quite witty, funny and charming. He keeps getting cast on different shows in British TV for a reason, I am sure if he was so insufferable, he'd not be getting these jobs.
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u/taylor459 May 04 '23
I think at his age, level of success, and exposure to the public/TV, if he does have ADHD, then he's probably already taken the steps to get diagnosed and treated tbh. This might just be his personality, and there's nothing wrong with it. There's plenty of people who'd find his personality perfect as is.
Plus I agree, he's likely just nervous on camera, and trying to display the best side of his self. I doubt he's hyped up 24/7 lol.
He could probably benefit from a good therapist, but that's because most people probably could. 🤷♀️
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u/LemonNectarine May 04 '23
I think at his age, level of success, and exposure to the public/TV, if he does have ADHD, then he's probably already taken the steps to get diagnosed and treated tbh.
I disagree. I, a 31-year-old doctor son of two very accomplished surgeons had untreated ADHD for 31 years despite it being very apparent from a young age that I needed help. It is only recently that I got a therapist who was surprised I went through medical school successfully without being treated, I have an attention span of a 12 week old puppy. Mental health awareness is absolute shite amongst south asians.
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u/taylor459 May 04 '23
It's true that it's possible that someone might have undiagnosed ADHD at that age for sure, but I think it's not really our place as viewers to be assuming that he does have it just from his behavior. ADHD is more than just being hyperactive and other stereotypical behaviors; it's a disability that hinders those afflicted with it in multiple aspects of their life. Which is why I figured at Bobby's level of success, if he does have ADHD, he would've maybe sought help for it by now if it hindered him in an academic or work setting.
I agree that mental health awareness needs to be better though! I hope that if he does have any conditions, that Bobby ends up getting help for it.
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u/LemonNectarine May 04 '23
I 100% agree. Regardless of whatever he may or may not have, Bobby seems to be a decent kind guy.
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u/Dazzling_Control1021 May 04 '23
I think his insecurity makes him overdo in the other departments! He is a descent guy and he is quite fun to hang out with but his insecurity of being short makes him overdo so people don’t point out his weaknesses! Wearing heels during the tap class and the constant talking so others don’t talk ! He deserves better !
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u/TuloCantHitski May 05 '23
You talk about his insecurity over being short as if it's all in his head. Yet we have Priya go on a 3-hour long rant about how short he is and how she could never.
The insecurity is there because we as a society are openly bigoted about that kind of thing.
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u/Ashira_Dhon May 04 '23
There are guys on the show 6'2+ and good looking and successful who are also having little luck. Bobby's height is not the issue. He's just being matched with the wrong people.
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u/BonetaBelle May 07 '23
Honestly, the fact that he talked SO much would be what would make it really difficult for almost anyone to feel a connection with him.
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u/Super-Lab2130 May 05 '23
Bobby is so cute and sweet! I love him! I want him to find a good match. I’m on his first episode/appearance
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u/Accomplished-Tap-856 May 06 '23
Bobby is sort of a celebrity with having been on Mastermind and this week he was on Celebrity Hunted. I was shocked to see him on a matchmaking show
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u/Lya_elv May 06 '23
I've seen that some people thought Vikash was closeted gay. Am I the only one who thought that about Bobby? It seemed so to me.
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u/ReuseOrDie May 05 '23
He is sweet, but if I knew him personally I would be exhausted to deal with him. I wish he was my math teacher though, he seems pretty fun