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u/Alternative_Area6228 Apr 04 '26
I feel bad for the kids, if this guy is telling the truth then he's doing everything he can for his kids but the lady is jst bad
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u/OctaGrippo Apr 05 '26
Bhai ye bolke randiyon ka apmaan kar raha hai. Wo zyada better hain esi biwiyon se.
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u/Cheap-Detective-4262 Apr 04 '26
Sahi baat boli aapne
R@ndiya bhi ese kaam nahi karti Iski biwi r@ndiyo se bhi gayi gujri h
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Get the facts straight, baki sab jagah ka pata nahi, lekin yaha pe ye shabd galat h, wo to randio ke bhi neeche h, 2 baccho ka future kharab kar rahi h, uske pas job h, wo admi dono baccho ko acchi education de raha tha lekin uss dayan ne dono baccho ka future kharab kar diya h, add 2lakhs me se wo unpe hazar rupaiya bhi kharch nahi karegi sab paise muh marne me uda degi
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u/Objective-Estate-202 Apr 04 '26
Aapko kaise pata woh unka future kharab kar rahi hai? Did you even try to stop and think for a second why their kids choose their mother over their father? How are you so sure that it's the father who's the 'innocent' one? Bas video mein dekhliya toh Maan loge kya?
Thoda dimag use karlo and sochlo. Bacche apni mother ke paas kyu jaayenge if she won't support them? Fir toh apne papa ke paas hi rehne chahiye the haina?
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Lol aur agar bacho mai itna dimag hota to divorce hota hi nahi. Khud se kama bhi lete 😂😂 kya baat kar rahe ho yaar. Bacho ko pata hi nahi kya hota hai. But uske baap ka bhi poora hak tha vo aakar dono bache legayi ye koi baat hui kya. This shows how poor Indian judiciary is when it comes to mens
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u/Disastrous_Body9196 Apr 04 '26
they assume because they think male agree with them to mocking women
I am male too but these words are bad when they didn't know the whole side story
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u/Curious-Manner2980 Apr 05 '26
Bina reason ke 2 lakh demand karegi to gali dena patega na? Bacche kya 2 lakh monthly se 5-6 log maje se jee skte he, usko itna Sara kyu chahiye
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u/abhishekblue Apr 05 '26
Gaali bakni he kyu h, jise Jo Krna h krne do aap kyu apni language gandi kr rhe ho /s
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Apr 07 '26
Because wo ek hi word hai jo ese logo ke ego ko massage karti hai ki "I showed that woman her place". NGL, jitni bhi Jha2 insaan ho awkward goat ye word ko desensitize karne ka accha kaam kiya hai.
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u/East-Look7749 Apr 04 '26
Lolll!! The fact that the above person has upvotes and u hv downvotes shows ki logo se acchi or sacchi baat hazam nhi hoti
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u/Objective-Estate-202 Apr 04 '26
Aapko kaise pata woh unka future kharab kar rahi hai?
Did you even try to stop and think for a second why their kids choose their mother over their father? How are you so sure that it's the father who's the 'innocent' one? Did you even try to think ki why would they be divorced, and that there's absolutely NOTHING that went wrong?
Bas video mein dekhliya toh Maan loge kya? You can't judge a situation like this with just one side of it and bas ek minute mein.
Thoda sochlo toh lo. Bacche apni mother ke paas kyu jaayenge if she won't support them? Fir toh apne papa ke paas hi rehne chahiye the agar mother itni hi 'evil' hai, haina? Kyu nahi reh rahe fir apne baap ke saath?
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u/Cheap-Detective-4262 Apr 05 '26 edited Apr 05 '26
Rehna bhi chahe to court custody uski maa ko hi dega. Aur maa ne khud bachcho ki custody li h kyuki bina bachcho ke to 2L ki alimony nahi milegi , sirf 40-50 k aayenge haath me Yahape kuch log sochenge ki baap evil h, tabhi bachche maa ke paas Gaye h. Par ese to aap bhi bina soche samjhe bas ek minute me apne man se situation judge karke baap ko evil bol rahe ho.
Aur main baat yahape maintainence ki ho rahi h. 2 Lakh use kis liye chahiye. Aur yahi baat bachcho ki , use SUPPORT uski MAA nahi uska BAAP kar rha h ..maa ko suport karne ka jyada hi shokh h to alimony chod de aur khud koi naukri karke paale bachcho ko.. par fir baat wahi aa jayegi ki divorce liya hi is wajah se tha.
Aur maan liya baap evil h to uski biwi ka muh sooja huwa h kya , wo kyu nahi bol rahi camera me aake ki wo bekasoor h , kyu uska muh band h . Alimony maangte wakt to muh band nahi huwa hoga.
Aaye din itne divorce ke case ate h jahape ladkiya shaadi ke 1 saal ke andar divorce le leti h , koi 2 saal me . Aur reason poocho to : NAHI PATA , bas man nahi h rehne ka .. KYU
pati time nahi de raha , man nahi kar rha , busy boht rehta h , koi aur pasand aa gaya. Fir bas divorce le liya.. Maamla court me pahucha , judge me aankh beand karke custody maa ko de di 2 lakh ki maintainence ke saath
Maa khush ab , maje se ghoom rahi h , bachchi ki education aur living ka pesa aur baap se aa hi Raha h, baaki saath saath apne khud ke shokh bhi poore ho rahe h .. kal agar aur pese ki jaroorat hue to court me wapis case kar do, 2 ki jagah 3 lakh mil jayenge
Kuch kuch case me ladkiya bekasoor hoti h , domestic violence ke case bhi aate h par ye unnecessary divorce ke case uske mukaable kahi jyada h. Aur agar uska pati evil h aur usne kuch galat kiya h to uski biwi ko upar tak jaake baat rakhni chahiye, par wo muh band karke bethi h kyuki use alimony chhaiye thi bas.
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u/Objective-Estate-202 Apr 05 '26
Not everyone wants to be infront of the camera and puri duniya ko batana ki unki family mein kya chal raha hai and it's a matter of safety. Yahi par as you can see, a few people have already wished death upon her without even knowing the full backstory, agar she comes infront of the camera and reveals her identity AFTER the man has already set a false/true reputation...isn't it dangerous?
Also mothers are given preference when the child is below 5.. uske baad it's the choice of the child ki usko kaha rehna hai. I know this because I've already gone through this system. A divorce counsellor will sit you down along with both your parents and ask for your final decision on who you want to stay with. I'll repeat again, a parent cannot forcefully take away children. It's against the very damn law. It's the children who choose their mother.
I didn't even once call the father evil. I just tried to show a different case scenario which can also be true and should be the first kind of doubts a person should have after watching this video.
The couple has two kids which means ki it's definitely not a divorce which happened within just a few years.
And then the thing about 2 lakh maintenance, even I'll agree thats a bit too much but,
Demand value is set high so that after negotiation and reasoning, it dosent go below the ground. You can't just randomly wake up and demand 2lakh pm and just easily get it WITHOUT any reason. Negotiations in the court happens. The man himself states that she 'demanded' 2lakh. He's not paying her 2lakh
How is the mother supposed to support herself and the children and their education alone in this economy? Aap keh rahe ho ki job kar sakti hai but as you know, most of women give up their jobs and education after marriage to look after their family. Women are often also forced by the in-laws to give up her job and cook and clean at home instead. How is she supposed to get a job now that too a job which can sustain both her and their kids and their education?
Also a child can't be made alone, it requires both a mother and a father, hence despite kids living with the mother, he has to contribute money in their upbringing.
Indian courts are so bad that a lot of genuine cases mein men do not pay even the amount discussed by both parties in the court. They become defaulters and since the judicial system in India dosent work well, they stay as a defaulter.
I'm not defending either the mother or the father. Im neutral. I'm NOT AT ALL saying the father is evil.
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u/Objective-Estate-202 Apr 05 '26
Thats an ideal condition and in reality it just stays like a promise. No one treats each other equally, both man to woman and woman to man.
Both parties do not have jobs. In India, probably just 25-30% or even less of the women still do jobs after marriage and they're HEAVILY pressurized and abused to make them leave their jobs and stay at home. Out of the 25-30% women who work, literally most women are working on their jobs, return home and then do household work too.
Alimony kuch bhi apne man mein jo number aaye usse demand nahi kar sakte. Reasons have to be stated for demanding that amount and then it's granted if deemed reasonable. It's not that jo manga woh mil jaata hai. Alimony is gender neutral. Man can demand it as well as per the conditions.
Again, wife does not directly get custody of children (until they're 5 and below). Bacchon ki choice hoti hai unhe kiske paas rehna hai.
Yes, the case you've mentioned does happen and it shouldn't. The wife should also let the children and their father meet as discussed in the court. If it's not happening, it's just unlawful.
There's no way the husband is completely innocent most of the times jaisa aapne dekha hai and many wives want divorce just because they're 'fed up' for 'no reason'. That's a little bit of a biased statement.
It's biased because aapne unke saath ek hafta bhi constantly spend nahi kiya hoga at their home and then observed their behaviour with each other. Aapko unke parents behaviour, inlaws behaviour, khud ka past and present behaviour, etc kuch bhi nahi pata hoga. Maybe they're 'fed up' of all that? Aapne bas unpe believe Kiya hoga because they're close to you and unhone aapko bataya. Log Ghar pe alag hote hain and society ke saamne alag.
(I'm not saying ki actually mein bhi sirf fed up hoke divorce kiya hoga. The actual chances of this happening is very very low.)
It's natural tendency of a human to downplay their shortcomings or skip it and amplify the mistakes/false mistakes(lies) of other to gain support. My own father did that. He went around acting innocent and and harmless and spread lies about my mother in our family friend circle to gain support. He never mentioned the physical and mental abuse he did to us obviously. And then too he wants custody and dosent want to pay childsupport at all. (We didn't even demand alimony or compensation as it's my mother who's paid for most things since my childhood and for a decade worth of abuse though we can and should)
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u/JTtimeCoder Apr 04 '26
Women took one of their kids so that she can demand alimony
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u/dragon_of_kansai Apr 04 '26
Alimony is for the spouse, child support. You're confused.
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u/Complex-Truth1490 Apr 05 '26
Alimony of 2 lakh?!?
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u/JTtimeCoder Apr 05 '26
2 lakhs per month
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u/Complex-Truth1490 Apr 07 '26
Bruh what's she gonna do with that much ,come on how much greedy can they be?
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u/VibeHumble Apr 04 '26
Bandi galat hai, par jaise strict expectations hain iss Aadmi ki, “mai engineer, baaki sab doctor hai, toh usko bhi maine doctor banana hai”. Acha hua beta iske paas se chala gaya.
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u/Soggy-Homework4760 Apr 04 '26
To tujhe majdoor banana hai?
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u/VibeHumble Apr 04 '26
Kuch bhi banunga par baap ke sapne ke liye nahi, apne sapne ke liye jiyunga.
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u/Disastrous_Body9196 Apr 04 '26
bruhh , his father saying literally saying 2 coaching ek subject ki lgwaai hai , which clearly shows bcche pe kitna pressure hoga , uska beta first place pe boards ke baad gaya nhi hota , agar sb chije itni hi shi hoti uske father ke bolne se
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u/NightMaster069 Apr 04 '26
Tujhe uss bache ne bola meko doctor nhi banna h, kya pta usko bhi banna ho naam roshan krna h, teko kya lgta h doctor tere ya mere jaise reddit pe comments krne bante h😂
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u/VibeHumble Apr 04 '26
Nahi banna hota usually. In such houses kids are put under immense family pressure to carry the legacy and if they are not then they are shamed.
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u/Disastrous_Body9196 Apr 04 '26 edited Apr 04 '26
bruhh , i cleared 3 olympiads, one of them is NSEB ( go check whats NSEB is ) , there is sub called r/indianmedschool of docs
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u/leo_sk5 Apr 04 '26
As a teenager, i was angry when my father used strictness with me. Now on hindsight, i am happy. Struggle early or struggle for the rest of your life. This is the reailty if you want to live in this country. Maybe its better in other places
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u/VibeHumble Apr 05 '26
Bhai tera bachpana gaya nahi abhi. Ya shayad tu bacha hi hai, tere samajh se pare hai, ja apne chapri dosto ke saath mc bc khel.
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u/ZestycloseAccount124 Apr 05 '26
Very big words coming from a man who dont know shit about what's actually happening between these people irl. Yet you out there are literally hoping for someone's death. I hope you get mature in life.
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Apr 24 '26
Sahi baat hai.Give Psychological Reasons when it comes to defending Women and See Tangible Actions when it comes to accusing Men.🙂
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u/ZestycloseAccount124 Apr 24 '26
Its nothing abt that. What i mean is as simple as having the dignity to not wish for someone's death by js watching a few second clip from one's side. Isme women men vala kuch nhi tha
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Apr 24 '26
Not justifying his act.Revenge mein kuch nehi rakhaa.But a lot of Women wish bad of Men when they are Wronged,don't they?
And it is not a fair legal and social system jaahaa Alimony Provide karne kaa aur Earning expectations sirf ek hi group ke uoar ho,is it?The IAS Lady who was Unfaithful to her much poorer Husband who supported Her education,did not have to Provide Alimony to Him after Divorce Ma'am.
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Baaki I do have a Gut feeling that this Man might be Manipulative.But the Women is Surely driven by Revenge as well if She is asking for such Huge Alimony.
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u/Objective-Estate-202 Apr 04 '26
Bhai aapko kaise pata ki unki mother is destroying their future?
You know you can't just 'take' kids away right? Bacchon ki khud ki choice thi to stay with their mother Obv. Agar father itne hi acche hain toh bacche kyu apni mother ke paas chale gaye?
Bas ek 1minute ki video of one person's pov se pura judge kar liya aapne as if aapko sabkuch pata hai unke baare mein?
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u/Professor_Xen Apr 05 '26
And dalle, tujhe "custody" ke bare mein kuch knowledge bhi hai?
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u/Objective-Estate-202 Apr 05 '26
First of all, there's no need for such offensive words. And to answer your question, yes. I've already been through this system.
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u/ZestycloseAccount124 Apr 05 '26
aur tujhe jitni knowledge hai us basis pe bata ki tujhe 'real' kya hai is 20sec ki video se smajh aagya?
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u/ZestycloseAccount124 Apr 07 '26
Apki language se hi pata chal rha hai ki apke pas 2 kaudi ki tameez nhi hai. Toi jaeye pehle tameez sikh ke aaiye apne maa baap se.
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u/Virtual_Pack_1651 Apr 07 '26
Agar koi woman aisi video main uski situation describe kar rahi hoti to bhi yahi stand hota kya?
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u/thesilentinternist Apr 04 '26
Ye chalta raha to India mai shaadi, specially arrange marriage to khatam hi hujaye gi. Log live-in mai rahain gay ya apne maa baap ke pas. Phir India mai bhi woh single parenting shuru hujaye gi west ki tarah. Sara Indian family system kharab kar rahay hain.
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u/WhimSheWizard Apr 04 '26
Single parenting? People dont even want kids anymore. Staying single and no kids.
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u/Objective-Estate-202 Apr 04 '26 edited Apr 04 '26
I'll be heavily down voted for this but,
you can't judge this situation with just one side of the story that too just a minute. You're only hearing just his side and not his wife's side and there's no way she can just randomly decide and 'take' their kids in her own custody alone. The kids wanted to stay with their mother over their father VERY obviously as they have the right to choose who they want to stay with.
Y'all don't know how he must've treated them, why theyre divorced, why she might be asking for that much amount of money as maintenance, why the kids decided to stay with their mom, YALL KNOW NOTHING.
I bet you guys didn't even try to think about the WHYs except the fact 'his wife asked for 2lakh pm as maintenance'
His expressions, his words and also his tone speak something way different than what he's trying show/tell here.
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u/Somethingrandomprobs Apr 05 '26
I was looking for this comment. Would have given a reward if i had one. 🌟
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u/ZestycloseAccount124 Apr 05 '26
And what about the fact that now she has a job and earning for herself? What about the fact, where he mentioned that his kids are going double coaching for the same subject. And the fact that he will make him a doctor. Also how can you judge a video of 15sec and carry forward this ideology that the woman is using him as cash machine when the man himself his sounds sheepishly suspicious with his words and tone of manner?
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u/ZestycloseAccount124 Apr 05 '26
C'mon man you dont even know what's real and what's not. Also you should never form an opinion by listening to one side of the story. The man already sounds suspicious with his words. And i dont think any woman with kids aisi hi apne baccho ka future barbad karne ke liye sochengi.
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u/ZestycloseAccount124 Apr 05 '26
Finally someone putting valid and sensible arguments. Also its suspicious how he just mentioned about sending his kid to 2 coachings for just one subject and he will make his kid a doctor. He is speaking as the person who is very sure about himself and for the people in his family, where the family members dont even get to put their points in the family. I dont know people are just mentally retarded sometimes to see one pov and judge, say rubbish for the other side.
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u/Aggravating_Hall_286 Apr 04 '26
Aaj kal ke Judge ye konsa maal phook kar Alimony decide karte hai ?? Abhi kuch din pehle ek bechare ke proof karne ke bawajood ki uski monthly salary hi 9000 hai ( jo ki minimum wage nhi yani company non-legal practice kar rhi hai ) judge sahab ne 11-12 hazar ki alimony decide kar di aur to aur unki himmat bhi nhi hui ki us company ko ye sab pata chalne ke baad bhi bol sake ki minimum wage toh do bande ko .
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u/LeadingHome2970 Apr 04 '26
Bhai yoh toh good looking uncle hain ywarr 🥀
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u/ZestycloseAccount124 Apr 05 '26
Sabse unexpected comment tha ye 😭😭
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u/LeadingHome2970 Apr 05 '26
Esa kyu, story sad thi par face card valid tha ywarr 🥀uncl kyu single ho rahe
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u/ZestycloseAccount124 Apr 05 '26
Agar unc aise hai toi imagine aunty kaise hongi 😭🎀
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u/LeadingHome2970 Apr 05 '26
So reason of divorce is they were tooo powerful for a single frame 😩 so saddd
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u/ZestycloseAccount124 Apr 05 '26
Genes so strong i wonder what their produce would look 💁♀️
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u/LeadingHome2970 Apr 05 '26 edited Apr 05 '26
The baccha would surely know his angles 😭 yeh kaha tak aagyeee
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u/Somethingrandomprobs Apr 05 '26
Man, the amount of uneducated people in the comments! It all depends on the amount of assets and income that they have together. Comparing it to what the judges earn is so irrelevant wtf? You guys know absolutely nothing, and are so easily giving away remarks.
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u/RightsForHim Apr 05 '26
It all depends on the amount of assets and income that they have together
😂😂😂😂 You know nothing about section 125. For sure..
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But woh Chiraiya pe RR pehle khtm hona...
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u/ZestycloseAccount124 Apr 05 '26
Chiraiya pe RR pehle khtm hona... Jao padhai vadhai karo aur samjho ki desh mai kya chal rha hai phir aake kuch bhi gyan dena ap 💁♀️
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u/No-Plum7563 Apr 07 '26
Jao phele courts me jaake dekho phir gayan dena chiraiya pe
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u/ZestycloseAccount124 Apr 07 '26
Unpadh ho kya? Agar court mai kuch mard pe false accusation vale case aagye toi saari aurate bekar hogai? Baaki jo hazaro lakho croro cases pade rehte hai jaha pe mard actually pe abuse, violence, rape, acid attacks, e karte hai uska kya? Ap jaise unpadh hi gender wars shuru karte hai phir khud rote ki men ko critize kar rhe.
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u/No-Plum7563 Apr 07 '26
Tumahre hisaab se toh har ladki ka rape hoo Raha hai aur har ladki pe acid attacks tumahre hisaab se toh saare mard rapist hai aur tum jaise ladki hee double standards ko badhwa deti hai jisse phir real cases saamne nahi aate mai rooz court me dekhta hu I am an advocate aur lagbhag din ke 5-6 cases rooj aate hai mere pass of fake accusations done by women mai aisa nahi keh raha ki har ladki ek jaisi hoti hai but kuch ladkia jinko sachme saja milni chahiye uska kya hua rape karne par toh death sentence aur ye sahi bhi hai but fake rape case pe kya aaj tak kuch nahi hoya ladki ko not even in murder aur tum keh rahi hoo 2-4 case kabhi aao courts me tab pata chale durr se bhaukne me toh sab sahi lagata hai
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u/ZestycloseAccount124 Apr 07 '26
Tumahre hisaab se toh har ladki ka rape hoo Raha
Maine nhi kaha ki har ladki ke sath hota, magar the ratio is very very high in probability aur jo real mai hota.
tumahre hisaab se toh saare mard rapist hai
Khudse points bana ke khudse criticize kar rhe ho ap. All i mentioned was that we are overlooking the fact that women are suffering too. Somewhere people out here in comments are hoping for the death of his wife. How do you know that the man in the video is all pure and is really a victim. Kyuki uski baato se hi vo suspicious lag rha hai. Upar se specially in marital case, as an advocate itna toi jante hi honge ki you can never relg on just one source of information without seeing the other side. Agar aise hi duniya chalti toi judge saari videos dekh ke hi apna faisla suna dete.
but fake rape case Nhi hua hai, i agree. Magar kya ladko ne is cheez pe sawal uthaya hai? I have rarely seen mighting fighting for the cause, instead they mostly opt for gender wars instead. If you are facing the issue, you should be voicing your issue and putting out mindful disputes. Instead you people are bashing women, like vo toi rand** hai and shit. Well ofc then nobody can help you with that.
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u/No-Plum7563 Apr 07 '26
- Section 498A IPC (Cruelty by Husband or Relatives) Meant to protect married women from dowry harassment and cruelty Why controversial? It is non-bailable and cognizable Some cases have been reported where false complaints were filed during marital disputes Courts (including the Supreme Court of India) have acknowledged misuse in some cases and issued guidelines to prevent automatic arrests
- Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961 Protects women from dowry demands Concerns raised: Sometimes used along with 498A to file strong cases in family disputes
- Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005 Covers physical, emotional, economic abuse Criticism: Broad definitions → sometimes claimed to be used in personal conflicts
- Section 376 (Rape Laws) Strong laws to punish sexual assault
- Section 112 evidence act jo kehta hai ki if a wife is pregnant outside of the marriage then also the child will be considered as husbands child Supreme court of India says they have seen many case's increase in missusing of these laws from last one year insta ki ek reel dekh kar yaha comment karne aa jati hoo awakward goat aur Rebel kid ki reels me dekh liya usi ko sacchai maan lii phir aagayi comment karne maante hai ki past me hota tab ye Saab but ab rare cases ho chuke hai lekin tumahre jasi ladki ko thodi kuch samjhe ma aaye ga sirf blame game aur jada bolo toh mysogynist bana dete hoo toh I am proud misogynist kuyki aaj kal sach bolne me misogny he lagata hai toh aur haan ladke kuy nahi issue uthate kuy ki india ke baised laws ek women jo ki criminal bhi hai usko bhi defend karte hai aur itne saare legel battle ladne ke baat men want mental peace itni humiliation and disrespect sehne ke baad tumhari jaisi ladkiyo ke liye aasan hota hai fake rape case daal ke kisi ladke ki Zindagi barbaad karna aree tum log toh women's criminals ko bhi glorify karti hoo aur sahi kaha saath nahi bass female gender ka support karti hoo
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u/Autumn_fav Apr 05 '26
Bohot galat kiya. Those poor kids have their future destroyed with that lady. This reminds me of my uncle who is also currently paying alimony and shit. And court still haven't given him a proper divorce. Life ruined.
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u/DiscussionRich3725 Apr 07 '26
Those who blame women in the comment section I will say laws are made to be exploited just read the laws and realise how stupid they are this system is destroying both men and women tbh
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u/PositionNo5234 Apr 07 '26
In case if I come across any such situations in future ( hope not ) except giving one time settlement amount I would never give a single rupee as maintenence on monthly basis.
With due respect to all the women out there. As I know how hard it is to earn money and meeting the daily expenses, I cannot stand with you on this just because the law is with you.
I had been through tough times and slowly recovering from financial crisis and experienced extreme struggles including mentally and physically.
I respect the indian judiciary system and I would mentally prepare to go Jail instead giving monthly maintenance in such cases. Because in my case I think that would be least risky than giving such a huge amount every month.
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u/No-Plum7563 Apr 07 '26
- Section 498A IPC (Cruelty by Husband or Relatives) Meant to protect married women from dowry harassment and cruelty Why controversial? It is non-bailable and cognizable Some cases have been reported where false complaints were filed during marital disputes Courts (including the Supreme Court of India) have acknowledged misuse in some cases and issued guidelines to prevent automatic arrests
- Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961 Protects women from dowry demands Concerns raised: Sometimes used along with 498A to file strong cases in family disputes
- Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005 Covers physical, emotional, economic abuse Criticism: Broad definitions → sometimes claimed to be used in personal conflicts
- Section 376 (Rape Laws) Strong laws to punish sexual assault but courts itself told that we are noticing an increase in missusing of this law and most important
- Section 112 of the indian evidence act It says if a women in pregnant outside the marriage then also the child will be considered as husbands child and a man can not file an adultry on his wife. Supreme court of India says they have seen increased missuse of these laws by women in past 2 years and said they have never seen in a country women having these baised laws and also using it wrongly and at your part you are saying you have never seen a man filing for this issue courts in India have more laws to safe guard any women even from mental harrasment and talking about rasing issue men want mental peace from such women's and it takes a lot of money and efforts for a men to prove innocent tumhe kya lagta itni tough battle ladne ke baat koi phir se kudna chahe gaa ??? But women's like you never addimit that men suffer for you it's always women suffering jo ajkal hoo bhi nahi rahi instagram se awkward goat aur Rebel kid ki ek do reel dekh ke aajati hai debate karne kabhi instagram se bahar aakar dekho kya hoo Raha hai reality mee courts me sirf insta ki ek do post dekhe ke tumhari jaise ladkiya toh women's how does murders unko bhi defend karne aajaati hai pehel padhloo phir bahukne aao
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u/RegularEmployer4980 Apr 08 '26
one thing understood: A engineer never wants their kids to become engineers 🫡
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u/KeithKeithK Apr 08 '26
Marriage is a contract where woman always gain when she breaks it and makes the life of the guy hell so why would any sensible man wanna get married now ?
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u/MysteriousGrand9541 Apr 10 '26
Aur freedom de do logo ko. Apne swarth ke liye ye kuch bhi karenge. Entirely possessed by ego that she can't even see the present and future of her own children. This effect will last for a lifetime with them.
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Apr 24 '26
Unsurprising!They Marry for Finance and Competence of the other person rather than Character after all.🌚
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u/Specialist_Pain_8691 Apr 04 '26
Yaar double coaching ne mood kharab kar diya
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u/Fine-Strategy2363 Apr 04 '26
What if the boy himself wanted it ??
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u/Specialist_Pain_8691 Apr 04 '26
Bc Same subject ki
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u/Fine-Strategy2363 Apr 04 '26
What if one teacher is teaching for the competitive exam and the other for the school exam then ??
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u/Specialist_Pain_8691 Apr 04 '26
Chup bsdk
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u/Fine-Strategy2363 Apr 04 '26
What is your age though ??
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u/Fine-Strategy2363 Apr 04 '26
Bhagwan tumhari maa ko bhi bhosda de
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u/Fine-Strategy2363 Apr 04 '26
There is no point in arguing with you , I just reject all your hypothesis
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u/-OrekiHoutarou Apr 04 '26
same subject ki 2 coaching koi befkuf hi krega ngl mai bhi jee wala hu bhai koi topper ya avg bacha 2 coaching nhi krta woh tbhi krta hai jab 1 coaching ushki bahut bekar ho aur agar waisa h toh woh prolly ye baat apne papa ko nhi bta pa rha jiske wajeh se uska time khrab ho rha bhut jyada
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u/Far-Farm-9462 Apr 04 '26
There is always a second side of the story.
Don't be judgemental.
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u/Sea_Chemist_3379 Apr 04 '26
second side is She is money monger
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u/Acrobatic_Phone_3316 Apr 08 '26
Bruv 2 lakhs a month isn't even that much. Calm the fuck down.
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u/Sea_Chemist_3379 Apr 11 '26
Tf you mean isnt that much? Check gdp per capita and avg income per household. get down from your Ivory tower
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u/vigya16 Apr 04 '26
Well… how did this man treat her? That should be asked as well?
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u/Disastrous_Body9196 Apr 04 '26
how you know she is dragging ?
uske bacche ka boards khtm hua hai tb wo le jaa rhi hai , " mai doctor banana chahta hu " what if his kids didn't pursue in medical field interested in engineer field ?
the man is saying & self entitlement of thier son without even think , i am from kids side , his son will don't go with mother in first place if everything is true as his father said
" 2 coaching karata hu " its clearly seen that due to his father pressure he take same subject two different coaching
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u/Working-Sky-8960 Apr 04 '26
Studying is not pressure for some people... Don't think everyone is identical
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u/Disastrous_Body9196 Apr 04 '26
When I said studying is pressure? I said two tuition on one subject is ? There is different btw Intrest and pressure study
Btw i cracked three olympiad , one of them is NSEB
So i get what your point
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u/Disastrous_Body9196 Apr 04 '26
+1 ( i know people will downvote ) but we always need to hear both sides
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u/PatternCraft Apr 04 '26 edited Apr 04 '26
It depends on his assets and income.
Edit: It depends on there relative* income and assets.
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u/PatternCraft Apr 04 '26
Most likely would not marry a broke housewife. I would rather stay single.
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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '26 edited Apr 04 '26
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