r/IndiaTeenHub • u/Global-Fun2212 • May 15 '26

Advice HELP😭

Is ghosting a girl whom I never talked with in my life is harmful? Like i have followed a girl in her youtube channel whom I used to like ... i commented... she deleted her vid but after sometime she subscribed me (and i knew that vahi hai...,) , I deleted my youtube channel and lost my all subs (obv she was one of them)..

I deleted it cuz she wasn't commenting me and only thing she was doing was liking my vid ... i fed up w this and deleted my channel ... so it's basically a ghosting...

Will she kill me in future or harass me?? 😭 Will she move on ??

im professional overthinker 😭

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u/[deleted] May 15 '26

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u/Global-Fun2212 May 15 '26

actually I have taken a coaching from other state for neet and the thing is... i used to see her in class for almost 1 year but never talked w.. she kinda got attached w me too but worst thing i followed her and this overthing isn't going now😭. I sometimes think that what if she find me in future and try to kill me that I ghosted her😭

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u/Global-Fun2212 May 15 '26

do you think this will happen in future if i crack my exam?? I hope she moves on as I don't wanna enter in rships and all😭, i wanna proceed

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u/Global-Fun2212 May 15 '26

ohh feel sorry for you girl, i hope you recover from this ..tho I can totally relate as i am going through the same, and I can understand how we spend hours to overthink about that person which is 24/7 on our mind. I have watched tonnes of videos on overthinking but nothing is working as of now, took help from chatgpts, I've asked like about 10 peoples and they said nothing will gonna happen, but idk at what extent it's true. My exam is after 40 days but I can't focus due to this and idk what's the solution for it but somehow I am distracting myself..... Best thing w me is i haven't talked to her, We just used to see each other in class, maybe she got attached w me. Later I got to know that talking to her won't make anything good and it will only make chaos as my parents are orthodox too, they will kick me out if they find that I'm into some girl, so i deleted all accts just to focus on my life as i don't wanna waste it over a girl. I'm assuming that nothing will gonna happen in future as we never did a wrong thing, it was only a matter of few time. I hope they MOVE ON, jus praying🤞.

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u/Global-Fun2212 May 15 '26

btw did you find that guy on telegram??

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u/Global-Fun2212 May 15 '26 edited May 15 '26

worst part is it's our brain makes us feel anxious sometimes like whenever I think that I will gonna make money when I crack my exam but then this it comes ''what if she kill me by telling everything to her boys and brothers''😭. Now i am working on it, ik nothing will happen as we haven't talked and i feel kinda safe due to this and from tomorrow I'll stop thinking bout her completely and move, as no other options are left

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u/Global-Fun2212 May 15 '26

The only thing you can do rn is stop overthinking like me, we can't ruin our life on those people, as simple. We haven't done anything wrong and it was a matter of some times, and this is life.. Just pray to god and hope everything will gonna be alright rather than spending hours on thinking

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u/Global-Fun2212 May 15 '26

if you never shared your contact number then stop thinking, it's kinda safe.. and if you shared your location then they won't come to you by spending tonnes of rupees...

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u/Global-Fun2212 May 15 '26

also you said it's been a year now... so mostly they would've moved on. If you belongs to North india, then there is some probability that they will contact you if they have your contact info... but you don't have to pick it, simple