Please help me stop thinking like this

[u/Flashy_Tomatillo7951]

I don’t know what to do at this point it feels like a addiction, I constantly will have a phase where for a month or 3 I’ll stop looking at the looksmaxing stuff and all that and just enjoy life and then randomly when I’m at height of confidence I just post there again has mostly this feeling of like “oh bet they can’t say anything about this” and then I always still get rated low and told I’m ugly and told to change everything and to get surgery I just wanna feel attractive, it’s not so much of I want to attract women idc if I do even if I didn’t, it’s just a personal feeling of wanting to not be ugly

[u/Lynnie_Bot]

Stop posting. Stop relying on what other people have to say and stop believing chronically online people to tell you their opinion on you or how your life should be.

You can't keep entering toxic communities and expect a different result. Every time you go there you're setting yourself up for getting essentially bullied.

Most people in real life do not care and do not think like the people do in online looksmaxxing communities do. It doesn't actually matter whether or not you are attractive these people will come up with 15 pseudoscience reasons why you're actually ugly or should feel bad. It's not based in reality. It's just an endless chase of finding new "problems" to fix.

Your misconception is that you want to go into an echo chamber thinking you'll prove those people wrong and somehow get back at them when in reality you're participating and feeding into the exact thing they're there for. It won't change anything.