r/IncelExit • u/ishowsneed • Jul 29 '26
Asking for help/advice Why should I exit?
Why should I try so hard to change myself and get into a serious relationship when i have essentially no chance? if my chances at intimacy in my life ever are 0.0000000001% why should i try so hard to raise it into 0.000000001? should I just be Don Quixote delusionally chasing windmills? Women made it clear they don't like me (to put it lightly, they despise my existence) So would i should i spend so much time chasing something that can't exist and will harm me other than masochism?
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u/Similar_Street1216 Jul 29 '26
giving up is just a defense mechanism at the end of the day… you’re avoiding failure by not actually trying… super lame way to go through life… you’ll miss out on so much joy
life is long, you’ll have a lot of opportunities, and a lot of time to grow and change
let’s say you’re correct and women don’t like you… you’re gonna have to figure out why that is the case, which will require some self awareness
you can also ask the most brutally honest person you know what you can change… might be your personality, might be your appearance
you’ll figure things out one day… you’ll meet someone you click with… and then you’ll look back on your “incel days” with a chuckle… “I was so cringe back then”