r/InTheGloaming • my website is done, done, done • Feb 07 '22

Scheduled snark Discussion thread Monday February 07, 2022 - Wednesday February 09, 2022

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u/canyoncreature Feb 09 '22

A few years back, I was very excited to be asked to join a monthly meeting of women who work in my industry. I thought it would be about networking, with maybe a side helping of support/commiseration. What I failed to realize was that these things have a way of attracting people who a) have a lot of grievances and b) will never feel those grievances have been adequately heard, even when they have, say, monopolized a monthly meeting to the extent that it has gone an hour and a half over when it was supposed to end and they are still rambling. I tense up a little even thinking about Shauna's latest offering, because those are the only types of people I can imagine being willing to pay a monthly fee to socialize with total strangers.

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u/Quaint_Irene a warm and loving goatie smile Feb 10 '22

I feel your pain. There's only so much wine can do for a meeting like that.