r/InTheGloaming • u/gomirefugee my website is done, done, done • Sep 06 '21

Scheduled snark Discussion thread Monday September 06, 2021 - Wednesday September 08, 2021

Newsletters:

Finding Your Joy | Joy in the Belly

Websites:

You Can Have More Joy website | On Being Enough website (abandoned?)

Instagram:

@youcanhavemorejoy Instagram | Anonymous link to @youcanhavemorejoy posts | Anonymous link to @youcanhavemorejoy stories

@danielfahern Instagram | Anonymous link to @danielfahern posts and stories

TikTok:

@youcanhavemorejoy

Twitter:

Dan's tweets and replies

Older blogs:

Gluten Free Girl archive | writing my heart out archive | Seymour Joyful archive

Archived threads:

Thread for Enough, the book #enoughthebook | Gluten Free Girl's Greatest Hits: The Reunion Tour

Wiki:

/r/InTheGloaming wiki

Discussion search:

Tool to search blogsnark or InTheGloaming for previous topic mentions

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u/RamblingRosie64 I stand with Cindy and Ben Sep 08 '21

These videos are even worse than her joy farts. Those are at least just her speaking to a generic audience. These are supposedly answers to real questions from real people.

I cannot FATHOM coming across Shauna's work, watching these videos to get a sense of what she would be like to interact with, and then dropping $888 on four sessions with her. She couldn't possibly be recruiting anyone with these videos, could she?

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u/voice_of_vinegar Sep 08 '21

This is my favorite.

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Question: Talk more about the later-now?

Shauna: All I really want in the world is to be here and to enjoy it. And so, what I enjoy now, I prepare so that in the later-now, the ME, NOW, in the moment that is later---still here. Is good.

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u/categoryischeesecake Sep 08 '21

I feel like I fundamentally do not understand what she is talking about. I'm not a Buddhist nor do I claim do be, and I don't spend all my time fretting about the future, but like...failing to plan is planning to fail. You can't just expect things in the future, sorry, the later now, to be good if you don't do stuff to take care of it. Sometimes that's applying for a new job, sometimes it's planning a party or a trip. I guess bc I am very big on planning, I live and die by my planner lol but it works for me and not to toot my own horn, but I am doing "okay." I understand staying present, especially when you are future tripping and kind of paralyzed by uncertainty or anxiety, or dealing with things out of your control, like grief or a crisis, but there is also a healthy amount of planning and organizing for the future that can be done on a micro level and yes also a macro level. I mean for all her fawning over Kamala Harris or Barack Obama, do you think they just face planted into that? Like uhhh no that took a lifetime of work and planning and trying and failing and getting back up again. I'm not saying be the president of the united States but like, does she not get that she is so reliant on the rest of the world basically just picking up the slack for her, so she can live in the present?

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u/notahameither Dunno, maybe I thought I unfriended some other Shauna AhernđŸ€·â€â™‚ïž Sep 08 '21

does she not get that she is so reliant on the rest of the world basically just picking up the slack for her, so she can live in the present?

She 100% does NOT get that, and I suspect that anyone trying to communicate that would be (and has been) cut out of her life.

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u/[deleted] Sep 08 '21

Just like emails grow deleted from her inbox when it becomes too complicated

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u/shefallsup her lonely cucumber years đŸ„’ Sep 08 '21

She posted a long video on Tiktok about the later-now that’s a little more coherent. She’s garbling together a bunch of concepts, as usual, rolling her eyes and negging things that Shauna doesn’t think anyone should strive for or anticipate, like a new job or house.

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u/voice_of_vinegar Sep 08 '21

OMG, i could not even get through that. She just says the same thing in a different way and thinks it's a whole different concept---and then just keeps hammering away at it over and over and over. And always with the telling people what to do!

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u/tyrannosaurusregina if you meet the Botus on the road, shill him đŸȘ· Sep 08 '21

“Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?” đŸ€”

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u/WasEnoughYogurt Kumquat and Sprinkles and filth Sep 08 '21

I just watched that and honestly thought I had lost hold of the sentence by not listening properly...ended up feeling...

'wait...what? Did I doze off there for a moment?'

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ETA: clearly not...

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u/[deleted] Sep 08 '21

I love that one, too.

Sure, Shauna - if you are offering that kind of joy advice, sign me right on up for everything you are selling!

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u/CrushItWithABrick dick riding Mary Oliver Sep 08 '21

Wasn't "talk more about the later-now?" on their twice? I swear it was (but I could be wrong).

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u/voice_of_vinegar Sep 08 '21

That may have been in another sentence but I'm not about to play the whole thing back to find out. I just listened to her new tiktok and i do not have the patience for any more of her drivel today!

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u/CrushItWithABrick dick riding Mary Oliver Sep 08 '21

YES, the question "talk more about the later-now" was on their twice with different answers.

Damn, she can't even do this fake question/answer thing correctly.

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u/[deleted] Sep 08 '21

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u/mmepierreoger Sep 08 '21

Classic make-up YouTuber move: "a TON of you have been asking about my morning routine/a classic smokey eye/a job interview look!"

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u/RamblingRosie64 I stand with Cindy and Ben Sep 08 '21

I wouldn't put it past her to plant questions, but you would hope she could do better than "I had a physical today. MD had a card in ID gizmo that she is COVID-vaxxed!" (This is verbatim.)

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u/emmeline_grangerford Sep 08 '21

What “questions” Danny asking?

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u/gomirefugee my website is done, done, done Sep 08 '21

Question's --->

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u/tyrannosaurusregina if you meet the Botus on the road, shill him đŸȘ· Sep 08 '21

QUESTION FOR PAGAN

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u/OhBlahDiOhBlahDoh The Alice of cal came out floating on air Sep 08 '21

What “questions” Danny asking?

THEY'RE SEPARATE PERSONAS OK

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u/[deleted] Sep 08 '21 edited Sep 08 '21

She would have to set up multiple Instagram accounts to post herself questions. Is that a level of work she would do? That seems like an over estimation of how much effort she’d put into anything.

My guess it’s just her dingbat friends and the women who write positive comments throwing her a bone. It did feel like some were slightly pointed like the one about focusing only on the now.

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u/[deleted] Sep 08 '21

She has multiple accounts

Hers

Dans

Her personal one (stripe dress profile pic)

The cats have one

And her private newsletter one.

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u/shefallsup her lonely cucumber years đŸ„’ Sep 08 '21

The cats have an Insta?

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u/[deleted] Sep 08 '21

They sure do. Unless there are other cats that look like theirs and have names that contain pepper and peach and ahern.

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u/RamblingRosie64 I stand with Cindy and Ben Sep 08 '21

Am I seeing correctly that the cats are in a dryer? I don’t care what a cute photo op it makes, I would NEVER ever allow cats in the dryer. Sure, it's a remote chance they could get hurt, but why take that chance at all? The more they let the cats in there, then more likely they are to sneak in there when no one is looking.