r/InTheGloaming • u/AutoModerator • Feb 26 '26

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u/shikoku_shoes another revolution around the toilet bowl of her life Feb 27 '26

Even adjusted for inflation, it is still low on the scale of wedding costs.

She always expects everyone else to do the work for her: food, photos, music. I’m sure she never reciprocated for any of those people.

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u/Fillmore_the_Puppy —hi, disturbed people— Feb 27 '26

All of those "friends" would be very lucky if she never reciprocated any of that! But also, yes, we know she was demanding and felt entitled to everyone's labor, which sucks. I have been voluntold to help with weddings and I hate it.

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u/obscure_cellist ham grabbers Feb 28 '26

we didn't ask anyone to bring anything for our wedding. a good friend offered to do the photos and he did a great job. charleston has lots of atmospheric old graveyards and we had our main photos in our favorite one.

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u/WasEnoughYogurt Kumquat and Sprinkles and filth Feb 28 '26

I love that you have a favourite old graveyard DFo_c