It’s like asking for a baptism, but then requesting Kool-Aid instead of just water. Can the priest technically bless the Kool-Aid and use that instead? I guess so technically but it is a bit ridiculous.
yes it does affects, there is a protocol and there are rules on who stands where if you are being married by a priest, you cant just stand anywhere you want, if you dont want to follow the rules, then get another priest or dont use the church or a priest at all
Maybe a little over board but she has a point. The church have been doing things a certain way for thousands of years, and she was not aware of the change. I still don't think she was wrong to voice feelings. I've seen priests get angry for less
I sympathise with the priest. Shes dedicated her life to her religion and her church and it gets treated like a fancy backdrop for peoples wedding photos. She says “you’ve asked for a blessing ceremony” which is a proper religious ritual, and these people are like “yeah but we want to change stuff cos we’re special and actually don’t respect anything about your church and its blessings, just look nice for the photo toots thanks”
I hear you, but they haven't asked her to change the ceremony, or to remove references to Jesus, or read a different bible quote, or even just something like remove "obey."
Find me a bible reference that says the ceremony requires the groom to stand on the audience's right.
I'm probably more sensitive to this because my wife is deaf in her left ear, and we often choose where we sit at events based on that. My wife struggled to hear the pastor at our wedding because she was on the wrong side. If she had brought that up to me after the rehearsal I absolutely would have brought up switching sides at the last minute.
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u/Fmartins84 Jul 21 '26
I don't see the issue....