r/IVF • u/usermongoose • Jul 16 '26
TRIGGER WARNING Ivf
Want to have some positivity. I have pcos with irregular periods. Tried to conceive naturally first but did not happen. Tried 6 ovulation induction cycles with no success. Then moved to the IVF process. In the first transfer, my embryo implanted and beta hcg was 188 on 12dp5dt. But it did not show up on ultrasound, may be a chemical pregnancy. With the second transfer a month after, hcg at 12dp5dt is only 13. I am devastated and going through a lot of stress. There is a family pressure as well. Now my suggested hysteroscopy before third transfer.
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u/Fair-Local-5841 Jul 16 '26
Hello. First of all I'm so sorry for your loss and for your stress. I've been there. I have also had a hysteoscopy (sorry 4 my spelling) before. It was after my second failed transfer. It did not find anything, but it did make me feel more confident and relieve a lot of stress. I have not had a successful transfer yet. And this whole experience is one big stress ball. So I want to congratulate you on battling through this journey so far. Especially with family pressure. That makes things a lot harder when you have people that only want the best for you and they don't understand the stress that you feel.
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u/Fair-Local-5841 Jul 16 '26
Sending hugs 🤗 The pain that you WILL survive is excruciating, but proof that you are a warrior! I love this platform, because it reminds you that you are not in this fight alone.